Today's podcast episode is about why nice guys will NEVER live their life's purpose.

"Nice guys" will NEVER live their life's purpose because they would rather get approval from the outer world and avoid conflict at all costs instead of doing what God needs them to do to fulfill their purpose.

A "nice guy" has been programmed to behave according to society's conditioning, causing them to be passive out of fear of confrontation.

"Nice Guys" Will Always Struggle To Live Their Life's Purpose

"Nice guys" will always struggle to live their life's purpose because they have an internal psychological conflict known as the nice guy syndrome.

The behavioral pattern of being fake nice at one's expense is likely a shadow (a term coined by Carl Jung to describe the repressed aspects of oneself), stemming from a deep-seated psychological need for approval or fear of rejection.

"Nice Guys" Do What They Think Others Want Them To Do

"Nice guys" do what they think others want them to do not because they want to be nice and genuinely do something for someone else: their underlying intention (consciously or unconsciously) might be to get something in return.

Without a strong sense of self, a "nice guy" will continue to overextend themselves, do for others, and neglect themselves in the process. While doing for others is not necessarily "bad," it becomes problematic when a "nice guy" feels obligated to do things that they don't really want to do because it insinuates they can easily be controlled or manipulated.

"Nice Guys" Will Avoid Confrontation At All Costs, Even If It Means NOT Living Their Life's Purpose

A "nice guy" will never become their true self if they are acting on an artificial behavioral pattern to please others. The "nice guy" persona would fundamentally be a shadow that originated in fear of rejection, leaving the "nice guy" to hide who they truly are in exchange for being something they're not, thus gaining the conditional approval of others in the process.

"Nice Guys" Will Always Pretend When It's Time To Do Uncomfortable Things To Fulfill Their Life's Purpose

"Nice guys" will always pretend when it's time to do uncomfortable things to fulfill their purpose.

The "nice guy" persona, what is being presented to the outer world, is in direct conflict when the "nice guy" may need to do things that are out of character for the "nice guy."

"Nice Guys" Will NEVER Live Their Life's Purpose

The "nice guy" must confront their shadows and address the root cause of their persona to be authentic and live their purpose.

A "nice guy" must accept themselves for who they are, regardless of others' approval. The "nice guy" will never live their purpose until they accept themselves and their truth.

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