The idea that men are so simple to please and women are a difficult maze of sensitive knobs and dials, often leaves female pleasure forgotten about.

But what if something else was happening? What if our culture has only taught men and women about men’s bodies and pleasure? What if women’s genitals and orgasms felt impossibly difficult because we are all trying to approach them like men’s?

This is what we discussed on the podcast this week- sharing openly our current challenges with my partner learning my body as well as the common feeling amongst women that we don’t work properly or that we’re broken.

And to make it practical, we also included some basic concepts to understand when approaching the clitoris.

We didn’t hold anything back in this 30 minute episode and I hope you can find a quiet, private moment to join the conversation.

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