Self Development

Louis Cozolino, one of our most compelling clinical writers, takes us inside the mind and heart of a seasoned therapist, carrying on the tradition of personal and professional writing begun in The Making of a Therapist. This book discusses some of the more abstract concepts and ways of interacting with clients, such as relaxed curiosity, finding the secret ally, and discovering the deep narrative. Also addressed are clinical concepts such as related states of mind, the process of change, free-floating attention, and listening with the third ear.

Learning how to become assertive is just like learning any other skill. All you need are the right tools and some practice time, and you can become assertive. We’ll cover all that you need to know within this book and then some, so you will be well on your way to learning how to speak up for yourself in a respectful manner. When you do, you will immediately notice how others treat you differently. For some, especially if you have been a people pleaser, others may not be too happy with your newfound voice, but that’s okay.

Discover how to overcome the doubts and anxieties in your head and become the strong, self-assured woman you're meant to be. In the workplace, confidence is just as important as competence. If you've ever let go of an opportunity because you didn't think you could do it or are stuck in a relationship or situation you feel unable to get out of, this guide is for you. It will show you the steps you can take to stop feeling worthless and undeserving, and finally embrace the woman you are inside.

Assertiveness is a key social skill, as well as a tool for making your relationships more equal. Learning to respond more effectively to others can help you reduce stress and increase your sense of self-worth. In this fully updated and revised 10th edition, you'll learn practical advice on dealing with difficult people, handling criticism, and expressing your feelings. You'll also discover how to use humor in conflict resolution, ways to clarify others' intentions, and how to distinguish between encouraging and discouraging communication habits.

This audiobook is your practical, step-by-step guide to overcoming conversational anxiety and connecting with anyone—without pretending to be someone you're not. Written by communication expert and social skills coach Nathan Soren, Mastering Small Talk teaches you how to feel calm, confident, and clear in any conversation—whether at work, at a party, online, or in everyday life.

The Secret of Letting Go reveals the ageless, proven gateway to these vast new horizons of limitless living. If you take this journey of a lifetime, you’ll discover the greatness of who you really are. Nothing is required of you but your willingness to acknowledge that you want something more. The rest will be done for you!

Vous n'osez pas aller vers les autres ? Vous pensez qu'être à l'aise en public est réservé à une infime partie de la population ou que discuter facilement avec n'importe qui relève de l'impossible ? Sachez que c'était aussi mon cas. Et croyez-moi, j'étais bien plus timide que vous. Pourtant, aujourd'hui, j'arrive à discuter avec des inconnus dans une rame de métro, à jouer sur scène devant plus de 2 000 personnes, et même à appeler une pizzeria sans stresser. Ce n'est pas une blague.

Sun Tzu's Art of War for Women helps women find the peaceful path to success through strategies made famous in the ancient Chinese text, The Art of War. Female wisdom, or common sense, is about avoiding needless confrontation, conserving energy for the things that matter, and seeking an outcome in which everyone wins. And for women, as for Sun Tzu, success doesn't come simply from knowing what to do, but from knowing who you are.

Have you ever opened your mouth to discipline your child, and your parents' nastiest words tumble out? In an era when most parenting books focus on the child, this book supports parents in dealing more positively with themselves, as well as their toddler-to-school-age children, offering specific tools to stop policing and pleading with kids and start being the parents we want to be. Based on Dr. Bailey's more than 25 years of work with children, this book explains that how we discipline ourselves is ultimately how we discipline our children.

In this groundbreaking exploration, three New York Times bestselling authors—Debbie Ford (The Dark Side of the Light Chasers, Why Good People Do Bad Things), Marianne Williamson (The Age of Miracles, A Return to Love), and Deepak Chopra (Jesus: A Story of Enlightenment)—deliver a...

Repackaged with a stunning new cover and an insightful new foreword, this book is one of six Dr. Albert Ellis "How To" titles to be reissued by Citadel in 2016-2017. Widely recognized as a pioneer of 20th century psychotherapy, Albert Ellis's works have stood the test of time, and continue to serve as the cornerstone of the Albert Ellis Institute, which has centers in 6 American cities and 20 countries abroad.

Every new project (or job, or hobby, or company) starts out exciting and fun. Then it gets harder and less fun, until it hits a low point: really hard, and not much fun at all. And then you find yourself asking if the goal is even worth the hassle. Maybe you're in a Dip: a temporary setback that you will overcome if you keep pushing. But maybe it's really a Cul-de-Sac, which will never get better, no matter how hard you try.

Lâcher-prise: un mot qu'on entend très souvent ces temps-ci; un mot passe-partout qui semble avoir l'effet magique de transformer l'impuissance en ouverture sur tous les possibles; un mot abstrait qu'on prononce comme une promesse de libération et de soulagement de tous les maux. Néanmoins, dans la réalité concrète, nous ne lâchons pas prise aussi facilement que nous le voudrions.

El mundo intenta apagar tu luz, pero tu sabiduría interior nunca debe silenciarse.Como mujer negra o afrolatina, navegas expectativas injustas mientras enfrentas microagresiones que intentan hacerte pequeña. Reclaim es una guía para recuperar tu poder, honrar tu verdad sagrada y recordar quién eres realmente.

Therapist and meditation teacher Ralph De La Rosa places the innovative, evidence-based model of Internal Family Systems (IFS) in the context of Buddhist meditation to show that the process of healing trauma can lead you to your deepest spiritual nature. This book offers clear conceptual frameworks to understand trauma, post-traumatic growth, and the close relationship between healing trauma and spirituality. The many journal prompts, experiential practices, and guided meditations will teach you how to

Nous avons appris à penser avant de ressentir,à parler avant d’écouter,à nous adapter avant de comprendre. INSTINCT : L’animal en toi est un retour au corps, à cette intelligence naturelle que nous avons oubliée.

Do you suffer from crippling performance anxiety in the show ring? Do your ring nerves affect your ability to compete with your dog? In this audiobook Professional Dog Trainer and Sport Coach Vicki Ronchette helps the listener understand why they suffer from anxiety in dog sports and offers practical tools and techniques for people.

In a world with intense external pressures, where we often take on many different roles, it can be quite a challenge not to lose sight of who we are. We all reach a point where we wonder, “But what do I really want?” This book helps you answer that question. So that you can always stay true to yourself and live your life the way you want instead of the life that others expect of you. The more we are true to ourselves, the happier we are. And the happier we are, the more we can contribute to the happiness of those around us. Who are you?

Sans autodiscipline, tous les enseignements de motivation et les stratégies de gestion du temps dans le monde ne seront jamais efficaces. Vous pouvez continuer à jouer avec des mots comme le changement, l’effort, le courage, pas d'excuses, le désir d'améliorer, être persistant et vous fixez des objectifs sur tout ce que vous voulez. Il est facile de prononcer ces mots, mais il est une tâche ardue de vous amener à les faire. En bref, il est plus facile à dire qu'à faire. Plongez-vous pleinement dans ce livre audio pour en ressortir transformé!

Learn to identify—and combat—Systemic Shame, the feeling of self-hatred and disempowerment that comes from living in a society that blames individuals for systemic problems, with this invaluable resource from the social psychologist and author of Unmasking Autism. Systemic Shame is the...