
A Well-Trained Wife
My Escape from Christian Patriarchy
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Narrateur(s):
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Tia Levings
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Tia Levings
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This gripping audiobook is a strong choice alongside books about high-demand religion, overcoming odds, and finding inner strength in impossible situations."—Booklist (Starred Review)
This program is read by the author.
“Today it hit me when he hit me, blood shaking in my brain. Maybe there wasn’t a savior coming. Maybe it was up to me to save me.”
Recruited into the fundamentalist Quiverfull movement as a young wife, Tia Levings learned that being a good Christian meant following a list of additional life principles—a series of secret, special rules to obey. Being a godly and submissive wife in Christian Patriarchy included strict discipline, isolation, and an alternative lifestyle that appeared wholesome to outsiders. Women were to be silent, “keepers of the home.”
Tia knew that to their neighbors her family was strange, but she also couldn't risk exposing their secret lifestyle to police, doctors, teachers, or anyone outside of their church. Christians were called in scripture to be “in the world, not of it.” So, she hid in plain sight as years of abuse and pain followed. When Tia realized she was the only one who could protect her children from becoming the next generation of patriarchal men and submissive women, she began to resist and question how they lived. But in the patriarchy, a woman with opinions is in danger, and eventually, Tia faced an urgent and extreme choice: stay and face dire consequences, or flee with her children.
Told in a beautiful, honest, and sometimes harrowing voice, A Well-Trained Wife is an unforgettable and timely memoir about a woman's race to save herself and her family and details the ways that extreme views can manifest in a marriage.
A Macmillan Audio production from St. Martin’s Press.
©2024 Tia Levings (P)2024 Macmillan AudioCe que les critiques en disent
“In this brave memoir on domestic violence within Christian patriarchy, Tia Levings vulnerably shares her story of survival. With devastating detail, she reveals the many shades of abuse that happen within the world of evangelicalism, a world that was supposed to protect her. The many women who have walked this path from oppression to freedom will find solidarity in these pages.”—Cait West, author of Rift
"I've never given a book a standing ovation until this one. A Well-Trained Wife is a prayer, for all of us. The world is lucky Tia Levings found her freedom and her voice. A reckoning for those who sanction abuse in the name of salvation."—Ashleigh Renard, author of Swing
"With unflinching honesty and relentless self-reflection, Levings’ debut memoir is a portrait in courage."—Julie Bogart, author of The Brave Learner and Raising Critical Thinkers
Editorial Review
Vulnerable and honest
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Thank You Brave Tia!
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It gives me hope that I can do hard things.
Wow.
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I'm grateful for her courage in writing this book. It helps me find words for my own experiences and shows me I'm not alone, I wasn't crazy, I wasn't making it up. The harm is real. But the damage that feels unrepairable? Tia's story shows hope and healing ARE possible.
Riveting
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It turned out that it wasn’t a joke. I genuinely couldn’t do anything else until this was finished.
It was beautiful, compelling, difficult and inspiring. I can’t recommend it enough.
A difficult but extraordinary listen
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Life changing, haunting and thought provoking.
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Tia’s story is told with such authenticity, she tells the story of so many women who have lived under this Christian version of Shari'a law.
The doctrinal gaslighting and circular logic embolden violent men and gag and hogtie women, mothers, and daughters.
(I am one of these daughters. I got away before I married into the cycle of abuse. I was effectively excommunicated. Years later, when my mum reached out, I saw all of my sisters married men like this. It’s too much for me to witness. )
I grieved along with Tia’s story of sexual, emotional, and physical abuse from a man who looked for community to validate his drive for violence. When things started to get healthy, and there appeared to be a kind of tolerable peace in their home, he would uproot, isolate, disrupt, drink, terrorize.
My heart completely broke hearing about how he demanded she leave her desperately ill newborn in the hospital to attend church, only to throw her out of the car on the way back…on Mother’s Day, within hours of birthing her baby, and just before that baby would die.
I grieved for and with her, listening to her story of her son being forced by her husband to kill dogs while she recovered from exhaustion and cardiac distress…this was definitely the moment she seemed to awaken to the horror of it all.
I feel proud that she is restoring her life, her children’s lives, beyond that madness.
This is an important story for North Americans to read.
I wish this was at all fictional
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Spoke to my soul
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A Truely Powerful Story.
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Highest recommendation
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