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  • Act like a Lady, Think like a Man

  • What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment
  • Written by: Steve Harvey
  • Narrated by: Mike Hodge
  • Length: 6 hrs and 5 mins
  • 4.4 out of 5 stars (162 ratings)

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Act like a Lady, Think like a Man

Written by: Steve Harvey
Narrated by: Mike Hodge
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An international best seller

With translations in more than thirty languages, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man is the definitive relationship guide for women.

Steve Harvey can't count the number of impressive women he's met over the years - the many incredible women who can run a business, have three kids, maintain a household in tiptop shape, and chair a church group all at the same time. So when it comes to relationships, why can't these same women figure out what makes men commit? According to Steve, it's because they're asking other women for advice when they should be going directly to the source. In this expanded edition, Steve includes an added section of all new advice, with tips on dealing with your partner's exes, spicing up your relationship, ensuring you're ready for that walk down the aisle, and much more.

Sometimes funny, often unflinchingly direct, but always truthful, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man is a book you must listen to if you want to understand how men think when it comes to relationships, intimacy, and love.

©2009, 2014 Steve Harvey (P)2015 HarperCollins Publishers

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The book was great only thing that I would have preferred is that Steve had narrated the book himself not that Mike didn't do a good job but it just would have made the book more real and interesting if Steve had done himself

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Serves the purpose

Book talks about how men thinks, that's what I wanted to know. Now as a woman, we can choose what to put up with and what not to put up with ..... Should not take book very personally, but as a "technical knowledge" helps to conquer opponents ....

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Every woman with an open mind should read!

I was skeptical at first to read/listen to this book, so I borrowed the audio-book from the library. Holy cow was I wrong! This book has helped me/motivated me to start changing my life for the better. I was able to understand and apply all the concepts the book discussed and the narrator was great! Needless to say I've purchased it to re-read and continue to learn and grow into the amazing woman I am and want to be!

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Bestseller?

Greatly disappointed. He made some good points, not enough to through this book. Poorly written. "ladies" "baby daddy" and "your man" is about half the book.

Don't waste your time, it's common sense and condescending.

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Thank you

Thank you all I have to say, teaching women how men think and for us to not just give our heart away! Very secular which I love that everyone knows Steve Harvey follows the Lord but he is not overwhelmingly about it. He tells it straight up and he also relates from his experiences! Real authentic book. This is what people need to hear. His testimony. So we can change for the better

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Lacked quality and source reference

Couldn’t make it through this book. Content is actually terrible. I had 2 different women recommend it and I just couldn’t finish. I read a lot of philosophical books, human behaviour etc. and honestly this is such a singular one sided approach. Sucked listening to a dumbed down version of male psychology. Lacked real quality and sources, lacked studies, etc. just this guys opinion based loosely on his interactions. Not for me.

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Makes some sense but somewhat irritating

Clearly differentiates the roles and wants if men and women. I had to keep reminding myself that he us not describing relationships as they should be, but how we are socialized to be. What he says makes a lot if sense given current gender roles, but leaves mute hope for a truly satisfying relationship.

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Mr. Harvey is not from Mars or Venus

I think it is likely Steve wrote this book to impress his wife and mother. Overall, it is not realistic or relevant to our time.
I can certainly agree with his chivalry and respect for women. Eventually, he becomes patronizing toward women and out of date.

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Pretty great book!!

Pointed out so many things we tend to not see or overlook, which tells us everything that's really going on on their side...
Very straightforward, no sugar coating, it all starts to make sense, everything ... it's almost like learning a new language and be able to think in it/through it

Very eye-opening, in so many ways.

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I used the first 90 days like never before!

Great eye opening for anyone in the dating arena. It helped me tons and now I have found THE ONE for me. I know that some of the crucial questions I asked at the beggining were influenced by this book and I am SO glad I did.

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