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  • Before I Had the Words

  • On Being a Transgender Young Adult
  • Written by: Skylar Kergil
  • Narrated by: Skylar Kergil
  • Length: 7 hrs and 7 mins
  • 4.7 out of 5 stars (30 ratings)

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Before I Had the Words

Written by: Skylar Kergil
Narrated by: Skylar Kergil
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Publisher's Summary

At the beginning of his physical transition from female to male, then-17-year-old Skylar Kergil posted his first video on YouTube. In the months and years that followed, he recorded weekly update videos about the physical and emotional changes he experienced. Skylar’s openness and positivity attracted thousands of viewers, who followed along as his voice deepened and his body changed shape. Through surgeries and recovery, highs and lows, from high school to college to the real world, Skylar welcomed others on his journey.  

Before I Had the Words is the story of what came before the videos and what happened behind the scenes. From early childhood memories to the changes and confusion brought by adolescence, Skylar reflects on coming of age while struggling to understand his gender. As humorous as it is heartbreaking and as informative as it is entertaining, this memoir provides an intimate look at the experience of transitioning from one gender to another. Skylar opens up about the long path to gaining his family’s acceptance and to accepting himself, sharing stories along the way about smaller challenges like choosing a new name and learning to shave without eyebrow mishaps.   

Revealing entries from the author’s personal journals as well as interviews with members of his family lend remarkable depth to Skylar’s story. A groundbreaking chronicle of change, loss, discovery, pain, and relief, Before I Had the Words brings new meaning to the phrase “formative years”.

©2017 Skylar Kergil (P)2018 Audible, Inc.

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I simply could not stop listening to this true story and account that is extraordinary . every moment I was captured by the fact that I was learning something that I had no idea about other than what I had read in my life. To hear this from Skylar himself narrated to perfection I totally recommend to everyone to listen to this story♥️

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