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  • The Harm of Coming into Existence
  • Written by: David Benatar
  • Narrated by: Dennis Kleinman
  • Length: 7 hrs and 26 mins
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Better Never to Have Been

Written by: David Benatar
Narrated by: Dennis Kleinman
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Most people believe that they were either benefited or at least not harmed by being brought into existence. Thus, if they ever do reflect on whether they should bring others into existence—rather than having children without even thinking about whether they should—they presume that they do them no harm. Better Never to Have Been challenges these assumptions. David Benatar argues that coming into existence is always a serious harm. Those who never exist cannot be deprived. However, by coming into existence one does suffer quite serious harms that could not have befallen one had one not come into existence. Drawing on the relevant psychological literature, the author shows that there are a number of well-documented features of human psychology that explain why people systematically overestimate the quality of their lives and why they are thus resistant to the suggestion that they were seriously harmed by being brought into existence. The author then argues for the "anti-natal" view—that it is always wrong to have children—and he shows that combining the anti-natal view with common pro-choice views about fetal moral status yield a "pro-death" view about abortion. Although counter-intuitive for many, that implication is defended, not least by showing that it solves many conundrums of moral theory about population.

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A must listen to understand human existence

A perfectly argued and rational explanation of human consciousness and why it was a clear evolutionary mistake.

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Interesting and Challenging

I really enjoyed this book and found it both compelling and thought provoking. Though I found it not a clear shut case for me that his conclusion of phased extinction is the most ethical path I struggle to dispute many of his points. Excellent philosophical text in that you will probably have strong emotions and thoughts while listening which at the end of the day is what I went in hoping for.

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