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For Women Only, Revised and Updated Edition

What You Need to Know About the Inner Lives of Men
Written by: Shaunti Feldhahn
Narrated by: Shaunti Feldhahn
Length: 4 hrs and 8 mins
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Publisher's Summary

Discover the truth he wants you to know! The man in your life is keeping secrets. They’re so deep inside he barely knows they're there, much less how to talk to you about them. Yet he genuinely wants you to "get" him - to understand his inner life, his fears, his needs.... In her landmark best seller For Women Only, Shaunti Feldhahn reveals what every woman - single or married - needs to know. Based on rigorous research with thousands of men, Shaunti delivers one eye-opening revelation after another, including:

  • Why your respect means more to him than your love
  • How he feels deep inside about his role as provider
  • What it means for a man to be so visually "wired"
  • Why sex for him is primarily emotional, not physical
  • What he most wishes he could say to you

Now, in this expanded and updated edition, you'll find insights from the latest brain research plus an all-new chapter that shows what’s really going on when he seems to "check out". (You’ll be surprised and pleased.) Millions worldwide have already experienced dramatic change in their relationships because of the "aha!" moments and practical ideas in this little audiobook. Discover how to love your man for who he really is - not who you think he is.

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying reference material will be available in your Library section along with the audio.

©2013 Multnomah Books; Rev Upd edition (P)2013 Oasis Audio

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Very helpful

I was sceptical about this book but I ended up loving it! Some of it was hard to hear but very helpful and it was everything I needed to know. I will be recommending this book.

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  • Jill
  • 2013-10-19

Life changing

Have your husband read "For Men Only" and the wife reads "For Women Only" at the same time. These books do a fantastic job of telling us bluntly what we are not understanding about the opposite sex. You will have so many ah-ha! moments while reading this. It completely changed our marriage. My husband I have not fought since we read these books about 4 months ago because we have such a better understanding of eachother.

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  • Traci
  • 2015-04-05

Wow, I Didn't Know

This book had great insight on theories I've heard before. This included practical insight that brought those theories home. The author was funny and real. I highly recommend this book.

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  • 2tosbt
  • 2015-02-23

Finally a book to help me understand men!

Very informational and enlightening. Something I plan on listening to again and again to keep reminding myself of the contents. Definitely a book I will recommend to all my female friends and family!

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  • Phipps74
  • 2014-12-16

Help for both Women and Men!!

as a man reading this for the woman in my life, I was astonished at truly how accurate it all was! I also learned some things I did not know about myself! This book should be a must read for all couples entering into marriage for the first time, or more!

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  • TanyaS
  • 2015-10-04

Religious? Why didn't the book description say so?

Would you try another book from Shaunti Feldhahn and/or Shaunti Feldhahn?

Absolutely not. Seems like an anecdotal, religion-based book on how to be an obedient wife. The author quotes her own research that she did, which appears to be very largely based on religious people. At least her narration really emphasizes that. I was looking for a more scientific, forward thinking, modern book. I don't think I want another guide on how to be an obedient wife. Will return this book.

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  • Paeter
  • 2015-07-26

Very helpful book

Loved it! It makes a lot of sense and has greatly helped me understand my boyfriend and men in general. It's read in a conversational tone, which makes it very easy to follow.

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  • Charles
  • 2015-03-28

Hit the Nail on the head

Wow, amazing job hitting a moving target. I was asked by my wife to validate and I have to say spot on.

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  • Lauren Hughes
  • 2015-01-09

Wonderful!

As I prepare to become a wife, in an age where independence for women is so vital, it is helpful to know how to have a successful and lasting relationship. 

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  • Jay smith
  • 2014-04-23

Passionate and Well Thought Out

What made the experience of listening to For Women Only, Revised and Updated Edition the most enjoyable?

The author was also the narrator, which made listening great.

What did you learn from For Women Only, Revised and Updated Edition that you would use in your daily life?

I mostly got this since I wasn't meeting my hubbys sexual needs, but wanted to. This book really opened my eyes, and has made things much better between us. He is way happier now.

Any additional comments?

Women: You think you know how men think, but this book will open your eyes and probably answer alot of questions and cause you to ask alot more to your hubby. Totally a game changer.

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  • Lucas A Clouse
  • 2019-03-24

I'm Hopeful For The Future

I haven't had my wife read this yet but I have high hopes that at the very least she'll understand me better. As weird as it may seem I understand myself better after reading this, on top of just knowing so many others think and feel the same way. I'm not religions, and while there are some religious undertones to this book I didn't find them too detracting to overall point of the book. There are a few points where you may stop and think this is grossly one sided, but the companion book is the yin to this books yang. So please keep that in mind as you read. also if your like me remember you're reading this because you want a better relationship for your loved one and you. If you retreat into yourself and become defensive it will be hard to accept some thinks as truths. I feel hopeful for the future and I hope this book can provide you with the same.

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