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  • He's Not That Interested, He's Just Passing Time

  • 40 Unmistakable Behaviors of Men Who Avoid Commitment and Play Games with Women
  • Written by: Bruce Bryans
  • Narrated by: Dan Culhane
  • Length: 2 hrs and 12 mins
  • 4.5 out of 5 stars (57 ratings)

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He's Not That Interested, He's Just Passing Time

Written by: Bruce Bryans
Narrated by: Dan Culhane
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Publisher's Summary

Men don't really have "commitment issues". At least, not in the way most women think men do. When a man tells you he has "commitment issues", there's a good chance that what he really means is he's not that interested in you and is just using you to pass time with until he meets someone "better".

But even though men don't really have commitment issues, they don't find it necessary or in their best interest to inform a woman when she's nothing more than a beautiful distraction, a way to earn the respect of his peers, or just a target to sharpen his seduction skills so that he'll be primed and ready when a "better" woman comes along.

In this audiobook, you'll get an inside look at how a man thinks and interacts with a woman when he's not that interested in her. It's extremely difficult for a man to waste your time and treat you like a short-term plaything without exhibiting certain unmistakable behaviors that clearly communicate that he's trying to keep you interested...but unclaimed.

In this audiobook, you're going to learn:

  • The seductive language men use when they want to discourage you from wanting a committed relationship
  • How quickly learning this one thing about him can tell you if he's "unequipped" to handle a serious relationship
  • How to avoid being confused by men who might love you tenderly but would never make you their girlfriend
  • How to stop losing sleep wondering "Does he like me?" and get him to either take you seriously or take a hike!
  • How observing this simple behavior reveals if he thinks you're "the one" or just "someone" to pass time with until he finds his Ms. Right
  • How to tell if a man is still secretly in love with his ex and is only one sad love song away from abandoning you for her
  • And much more....

Get started now, and discover how to tell if a man desperately wants you or if he's just not that into you.

©2015 Bruce Bryans (P)2015 Bruce Bryans and Dan Culhane

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Good common sense

I recommend this to all young women just getting into the dating scene or those just stuck in a rut finding the right guy. The author can get wordy and drawn out, but the overall message is plain and pure common sense. It's like listening to a caring father figure giving you sound advice in love. If you needed some good love advice, curl up with a nice tea on a rainy or cold day and have a listen.

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light and nice

good to listen to
it would be more useful if at the end there is a summary and recap to the book since it's audiable

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Helped me clear my head and second guessing

Being someone new to dating in my 40s’, this book has helped me pin point all the details that I have not been paying attention to or interpreted differently. I’m definitely listening it to again so that it sits with me.

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I think this was my first Audible book! It was enjoyable. I was smiling, feeling empowered and it had some good advice. Keep in mind as stated in the intro...everyone's life and experiences are different; What may apply to one may not to another. Ultimately it comes down to U and having a good relationship with Urself and what U want.

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accuracy is too real

100% accurate as fck I couldn't have said it any better than this 👏 basically describes my last 2 relationships

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Extremely useful information

Alot of advice on what to do and not to do...how to be valued.
I greatly appreciated this book

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Well presented

Well done! Well read and very informative. Simple and to the point. Ready to implement.

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so good

what I dislike is that I didn't read it years ago. what I like is the honesty.

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It has some helpful information but is incredibly gendered in a way that I find inaccurate. He describes people in a way they feels two dimensional, and uses terms like ‘women’s intuition’. Not all women have this, just like some men are suitable partners and aren’t breadwinners, or ‘high profile’. I found these dichotomies frustrating.

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