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  • The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love
  • Written by: Logan Ury
  • Narrated by: Logan Ury
  • Length: 8 hrs and 1 min
  • 4.4 out of 5 stars (108 ratings)

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How to Not Die Alone

Written by: Logan Ury
Narrated by: Logan Ury
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A “must-read” (The Washington Post) funny and practical guide to help you find, build, and keep the relationship of your dreams.

Have you ever looked around and wondered, “Why has everyone found love except me?” You’re not the only one. Great relationships don’t just appear in our lives - they’re the culmination of a series of decisions, including whom to date, how to end it with the wrong person, and when to commit to the right one. But our brains often get in the way. We make poor decisions, which thwart us on our quest to find lasting love.

Drawing from years of research, behavioral scientist turned dating coach Logan Ury reveals the hidden forces that cause those mistakes. But awareness on its own doesn’t lead to results. You have to actually change your behavior. Ury shows you how.

This “simple-to-use guide” (Lori Gottlieb, New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone) focuses on a different decision in each chapter, incorporating insights from behavioral science, original research, and real-life stories. You’ll learn:

  • What’s holding you back in dating (and how to break the pattern)
  • What really matters in a long-term partner (and what really doesn’t)
  • How to overcome the perils of online dating (and make the apps work for you)
  • How to meet more people in real life (while doing activities you love)
  • How to make dates fun again (so they stop feeling like job interviews)
  • Why “the spark” is a myth (but you’ll find love anyway)

This “data-driven” (Time), step-by-step guide to relationships, complete with hands-on exercises, is designed to transform your life. How to Not Die Alone will help you find, build, and keep the relationship of your dreams.

Please note: This is an historical recording. The audio quality represents the technology of the time when it was produced.

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.

©2021 Logan Ury. All rights reserved. (P)2021 Simon & Schuster, Inc. All rights reserved.

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A Repeat Experience!

Listen. Download. Listen again and again no matter where you are in the journey of life! (Whether in a relationship, starting , leaving or contemplating.)
Logan is right. Change always happens. She and Steve know that and participate together!

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Love is science, and science is nature.

I hate dating apps but I think after hearing this book I will try again. I have not been a person to exclude a man on height or other superficial traits so some of that is my problem as then I talk to too many men and it becomes draining.
I definitely will be trying some of these tips and suggestions in person and on the apps.

I love behavior science and psychology, so I love the approach of the book. no gimmicks or schmooze, just be your best honest selves. ( maybe a few silly puns in the book but a little levity is great!)

love is natural and it is for everyone. I want and deserve my share for sure!
good luck to all 💗

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Interesting but covers many topics too quickly

Useful info but makes relationships sound easy. Narration sounded unnatural, probably is better in text form.

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Good but no pdf

The author makes reference to the attached pdf throughout…. But it does not appear to be available through audible.

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A practical and relatable take on relationships

Logan Ury brilliantly applies social economics to dating in a way that was understandable and easily actionable while making me laugh along the way. I grew, I learned, and I gained new confidence and understanding of self worth in dating.

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Changed my love life ❤️

Great book with lots of partical advice you can use right away. Author is very funny & easy to listen too. Learned how to date properly :)

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Best advice on dating ever?

Well written and researched, this book confirmed and expounded on over a decade of learning from experience. Glad this exists for future generations.

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Needed to read this!

One of the best relationship books I’ve read, and I’ve read a few ;) Really helped me to understand myself and change my way of thinking about relationships.

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Practical and reasonable

Practical and reasonable. An excellent application of behavioral and relationship research. Everyone should read this.

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Easy listing while pact with info

One of the best self help books on Audible, backed by science and past established research. Anecdotes, best practices and chapter recap makes it an easy book to follow and implement.

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