Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy
The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power
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Written by:
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Leslie Braswell
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Have you ever felt like you give too much, care too much, and still end up feeling ignored or unappreciated?
In Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy—A Woman’s Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power, Leslie Braswell delivers a compassionate, no-nonsense guide that helps women stop overgiving in relationships and learn when to walk away with dignity.This inspiring audiobook will show you how to step into your feminine power, create emotional distance to gain respect, and end the cycle of chasing love—all while healing your heart and rebuilding your confidence.
You’ll discover how to heal your attachment style, find empowerment after being ghosted, and recognize the relationship patterns that push men away—so you can finally break free and feel at peace.
Braswell reveals exactly what confident women do differently and how setting dating boundaries that attract real love helps you stand strong while protecting your emotional energy. You’ll also learn practical self-love tips for women starting over, how to stop begging for attention, and how to create your own emotional detox after a breakup that restores your joy and clarity.
With heartfelt honesty and practical advice, Leslie Braswell shows you how to regain control of your love life and become irresistible through self-improvement. Her insights into why silence is golden, what men secretly expect after a breakup, and the fatal mistakes to avoid will transform how you see yourself—and how others see you.
If you’re ready to take back your power, raise your standards, and attract love that honors your worth, this audiobook is your survival guide to self-respect, healing, and the kind of confidence no one can take away.
You deserve peace. You deserve love that values you back.
And it all begins when you decide to put yourself first.
©2013 Leslie Braswell (P)2026 Leslie BraswellYou may also enjoy...
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