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Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life

Written by: Tracy Schorn
Narrated by: Laura Copland
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Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life is a no-nonsense self-help guide for anyone who has ever been cheated on. Here's advice not based on saving your relationship after infidelity - but saving your sanity.

When it comes to cheating, a lot of the attention is focused on cheaters - their unmet needs or their challenges with monogamy. But Tracy Schorn (aka Chump Lady) lampoons such blameshifting and puts the focus squarely on the cheated-upon (chumps) and their needs. Full of solid advice that champions self-respect, Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life offers a fresh voice for chumps who want (and need) a new message about infidelity. This book will offer advice on stupid sh*t cheaters say and how to respond, rookie mistakes of the recently chumped and how to disarm your fears, why chumps take the blame and how to protect yourself, and more.

Full of snark, sass, and real wisdom about how to bounce back after the gut blow of betrayal, Schorn is the friend who guides you through this nightmare and gives you hope for a better life ahead.

©2016 Tracy Schorn (P)2017 Tantor Love & Romance Personal Development Personal Success Relationships Romance Infidelity Divorce Recovery
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If you are looking for this type of self-help book, I’m sorry. I know you feel broken. This book will offer you advice to help you put the pieces back together.

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this is what you need if you need to understand your pain and why you need to leave. unicorn marriage after infidelity is an exhausting facade to maintain.

it helped me!

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This book helps you whetther you are ready to leave or not. Its about taking your self worth back and learning to value yourself by setting boundaries. Its a clear path forward that guides you out of the fog of destructive relationships and infedelity. Read it!

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narration was great, subject matter is to the point which is exactly what is needed when going through this crap

"Read" this even if you believe you're a unicorn

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If your spouse has cheated on you, this is the book you need. Listening to Laura Copland’s strong voice reading Tracy Schorn’s strong words will give you strength.

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