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  • How to Recognize a Commitmentphobic Man Before He Breaks Your Heart
  • Written by: Julia Sokol, Steven Carter
  • Narrated by: Kevin Young
  • Length: 8 hrs and 26 mins
  • 4.6 out of 5 stars (66 ratings)

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Men Who Can't Love

Written by: Julia Sokol, Steven Carter
Narrated by: Kevin Young
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Publisher's Summary

The million-copy New York Times best seller and classic relationship book.

Featured on Oprah and Sally Jesse Raphael, this definitive look at the dynamics of male-female communication gets to the heart of the all-too-common phenomenon: women who are ready and willing to commit, and men who back off just as the relationship moves toward the next level.

This audiobook can help you:

  • Recognize early warning signs of the commitmentphobic man
  • Determine the extent of his fears - and his willingness to change
  • Analyze your own role in the situation
  • Avoid unnecessary stress and heartache

©1987, 1996 Steven Carter and Julia Sokol Coopersmith (P)2012 Audible, Inc.

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It still has much value even if written years ago

Good narration, and the information, must of it, applies to our times, will definitely read the one about women.

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Wow!!

I knew this book changed my life the moment I finished it. I encourage all women to read this!!

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Very Helpful! Thank you for helping me and the women to know that some men can’t love and how to deal with them.

I learned how to protect me and the women I know. I recommend every woman who was betrayed my a man must read this book and pray to God asking for help and His wisdom and strength to heal yourself and protect yourself and your family members from these narcissistic people. God does even knows them and don’t care for them until they ask Him for help and willing to change and die the old self and choose to love one and be faithful to the Lord and all the relationships and respect all kind of people.

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VERY INSIGHTFUL

Thank God I listened to this book. It’s So insightful and very helpful. I’ve just understood that to have a long, fulfilling and committed relationship it requires two individuals that have reached a certain level of maturity ( not necessarily the peak, as we evolve daily).
It takes longer for most men to actually get to that point, they themselves aren’t self regulated so who are you as a woman to step in to do it, you’ll only be signing up for a disastrous experience.
One needs to love themselves fully first so they can easily identify these half baked, weak, and immature men in order not to waste ones time.
And of-course there are men who’re ready , bold, and capable of commitment, this book helps you identify them.
Ladies do your work on yourself, be whole first in order to avoid time wasters.

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How I wish

How I wish I had known of and read this book PRIOR to becoming involved with a man who fits the bill in so many ways. As far as I could tell, the relationship was at the “bitter end” and I was with a “Houdini” type. It was also a long-distance relationship during which his mother passed away. Unfortunately, as I write this, I still have to make the trip to collect items left in his house which are of value to me (both sentimental and practical). What was very painful was the fact this was the first relationship I’d had since my husband died 8 yrs previously. And it started in a very similar way. However, my husband and I were together 19 years- which is why I didn’t shy away at both the intensity and the speed at which it progressed. Live and learn… and with thanks to the information provided in the book, I feel much better about myself. I also hope to make a better choice in any future relationship since I’m more aware of red flags and how to protect myself.

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Recommend this book

Enjoyable, informative and easy to understand. The narrator's voice made for easy listening. Bravo

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Old school

Some philosophers can’t adjust. Yes they make sense but they only see the perspective of a man in this very limited view. I’m not pro feminist but his thoughts are very are 1960’s

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