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From beloved and best-selling author Parker J. Palmer (Let Your Life Speak, The Courage to Teach, Healing the Heart of Democracy) comes a brave and beautiful book of reflections on eight decades of life and work. Reframing aging as "a passage of discovery and engagement", Palmer says, "Old is just another word for nothing left to lose, a time to take bigger risks on behalf of the common good." On the Brink of Everything is not a "guide to" or "handbook for" getting old. Instead, it's Palmer turning the prism of insight on his experience as a way of encouraging listeners to do the same with theirs. In elegant prose and lyrical poetry, he offers a set of meditations on the meanings of one's life - past, present, and future. 

“The laws of nature that dictate the sunset dictate our demise," Palmer writes. "But how we travel the arc between our own sunrise and sundown is ours to choose: will it be denial, defiance, or collaboration?" With gravity and levity, compassion and chutzpah, Palmer writes about cultivating a robust inner and outer life, a sense of meaning and purpose amid pain as well as joy, and the intergenerational relations that enhance the lives of young and old alike. Here's a book not only for elders but also for those younger folks we call "old souls". And this book sings! It includes three songs by Palmer's longtime friend and colleague, singer-songwriter Carrie Newcomer, written in response to themes in the book. 

Palmer and Newcomer hope to engage listeners in an ongoing conversation about what Howard Thurman called "the growing edge" of our personal and public lives. Ultimately, Palmer sees age as a precious gift: "The fact that I've come this far makes me one of the lucky ones." Surprised by the fact that he likes being old, he writes, "Welcome to the brink of everything. It takes a lifetime to get here, but the stunning view and the wake-up breeze in your face make it worth the trip."

©2018 Parker J. Palmer (P)2018 Parker J. Palmer

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Engaging and full of wisdom

Loved Palmer's ability to turn personal life lessons into messages we can all do something with in our own lives. The narrator was perfect.

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A feel good read

Palmer claims “overriding gratitude” as his view from the brink at the end of life. He does not acknowledge fully that overriding gratitude is like other mental states including the depression that he has experienced. It is temporary.

This book is an unfocussed ramble with honest self revelation in places. He is honest about the limits of his and human knowledge. Overall the book leaves the reader feeling good, which makes it difficult to critique. Maybe I’m a curmudgeon, but I’ll take Atwood’s cutting realism with respect to human nature over Palmers sometimes accepting and sometimes judgemental approach.

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  • Sparkles Galore
  • 2018-08-24

Truth Beauty Hope

There is something here for everyone.
A dream for the young to hide in their heart.
Understanding for the middle aged, of the changes that are only glimpses.
Comfort for those on the brink, that the wild tide never really ends.
Something for everyone.

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  • Subaru Dave
  • 2018-12-19

Poignant for any age

Parker Palmer speaks from the vantage of a 79 year old looking back and looking forward. His views spans his life as a writer and life-long learner. In my mid 50's, I'm grateful to find Palmer's expressions of candor and truth that speak to al all generations. I'm on my third hearing. Highest recommendation!

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  • Warren Hebert
  • 2019-04-06

All Shall Be Well

Parker Palmer is a Quaker elder, educator, activist, and founder and senior partner emeritus of the Center for Courage & Renewal. Palmer is now in his 80s, so his reflection, On the Brink of Everything: Grace, Gravity, and Getting Old, is a gift to read. (Especially for those of us who see the years flying by at the rate of a super-sonic jet.) Parker opens with the observation of a friend's toddler, just walking, exploring anything and everything, with curiosity and appreciation. Palmer generously compares his own discovery of the experiences of getting old, as also being on the brink of everything,

Palmer challenges us to recognize the graces, joys, and challenges of aging, appreciating the magnificent vistas at this point in our journeys. He explores the critical aspects of diversity, community, connectedness, and trust in our relationships, versus the fear, othering, and violence we see in so many. On the Brink of Everything explores the gift inter-dependence versus the overrated and dangerous path of trying to make it on our own in some isolated, gated community. Palmer also challenges the reader to wrestle with our responsibility to one another, to society, and the earth. Parker also reflects on the regenerative, restorative work of nature, writing of one of his sacred spaces, the Boundary Waters Canoe Area. He also mentions Celtic spirituality's "thin space," where there is a very narrow distance between heaven and earth. Palmer weaves in brilliant threads of Rumi, Mary Oliver, Henry Nouwen, Thomas Merton, and mystics from many wisdom traditions.

Palmer mentions that “we come from mystery & we return to mystery”. Regarding levity, Paker indicates that “the spiritual bread of life can give me a belly ache if it isn’t leavened with a measure of humor.” He writes that "wrinkles, aches, pains, etc., suggest that "we are withering into truth”.

On the Brink of Everything humorously contrasts gravity, "everything goes south," with levity. He cites G.K. Chesterton, "Angels can fly because they take themselves lightly." Palmer also writes of his hopes for a Creator with more a sense of levity than gravity. Toward the end of the book, Palmer quotes the Rule of St. Benedict via David Stendl-Rast, "Keep death, always before your eyes." Finally, Parker Palmer offers a parting gift from the 14th Century mystic Lady Julian of Norwich, "All shall be well, all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well." Thank you, Parker Palmer, for offering readers a roadmap, or perhaps GPS guidance, to the Brink of Everything.

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  • D. Cassidy
  • 2018-08-06

Worth a listen

Parker Palmer is a favorite of mine. He always comes across as wise and gentle. I am not sure this is his best book but it's worth a listen. At first, I thought the narrator sounded very much like Palmer but as the book went on he sounded a little tired. I wish the author had narrated the book. Now that I am finished I will buy a print version for my library.

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  • schavez
  • 2020-01-11

Beautiful

I hesitated at first to buy this book; I thought it might not be something I would like. I tend to read or listen to books in physics, psychology and philosophy. But this was absolutely one of the most wonderful and poignant books that I’ve ever read in my life. It often brought me to tears it was so beautiful. I recommend that everyone, young and old, read it. I plan to find more books from this author. The reader was wonderful too, I felt like I was listening to a long time friend recounting his learned wisdom to me.

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  • Michael Doty
  • 2019-01-09

A Lifechanger!

Wonderful! I needed that at 67. Have listened 5 times, and will again. Palmer is a master at knowing where I am and what I need to hear.

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  • Ronald G. Shenberger
  • 2018-06-17

Where do we go from here.

I am a long time fan of Parker Palmer. His many books have been guidepost to me on navigating life's journey. This latest book has again pointed me in a direction as I too enter the time of my life where the horizon is approaching. I am also a student of C.G. Jung and his theories of individuation and the collective unconscious of which I am a small part. I highly encourage readers to read or listen to "On the Brink of Everything."

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  • Dennis
  • 2019-03-28

Disappointed but ok

The book has enough good mixed in with his personal prejudiced political views and hatred for our president while condemning the same... oh well, I'll keep it for about the third of the book I liked and will benefit from where he actually wrote about the supposed topic of the book.

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  • fayray
  • 2020-12-01

Not with it!

Very political author! This book was a total waste of time and money. And I will not be following any of his other books.

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  • Meha
  • 2020-09-11

Full of wisdom.

A friend suggested hus book and I enjoyed his writing style and the wisdom in it. Moving on to his next books.