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  • Moving Beyond Codependency
  • Written by: Robert Weiss
  • Narrated by: Corey Gagne
  • Length: 4 hrs and 35 mins
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Prodependence

Written by: Robert Weiss
Narrated by: Corey Gagne
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Human beings are meant to work together, not to go it alone. We enter the world reliant on others for shelter, nutrition, and emotional support, and these core requirements to do not change as we grow older. Yet somehow, as we move into adulthood, our intrinsic need for emotional connection (i.e., love) gets discounted. This despite the fact that people who spend their lives "apart from" rather than "a part of" do not function as well as those who feel emotionally connected.

Nowhere is this more apparent than when dealing with addiction. Nevertheless, loved ones of addicts, instead of being encouraged to care for themselves as well as their addicted loved one, are often encouraged to care for themselves instead of their addicted loved one.

Prodependence, a new psychological term created by Robert Weiss to describe healthy interdependence in the modern world, turns this around. Rather that preaching detachment and distance over continued bonding and assistance, as so many therapists, self-help books, and 12-step groups currently do, prodependence celebrates the human need for and pursuit of intimate connection, viewing this as a positive force for change. Simply stated, prodependence occurs when attachment relationships are mutually beneficial - with one person's strengths filling in the weak points of the other, and vice versa. And this can occur even when an addiction is present.

In Prodependence, Weiss presents a research-based social and psychological understanding of human interdependence, accepting and even celebrating human interdependency in ways that are healthy and life-affirming for each person. This groundbreaking work presents a new paradigm for useful and healthy support, offering both the lay person and professional an evolved prism through which he or she can examine, evaluate, and improve not just relationships affected by addiction (though that's the primary focus of this audiobook), but relationships in general.

©2018 Robert Weiss (P)2018 Audible, Inc.

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YES! This nails it!

I’ve been working in the health and social work field for almost 20 years and read so many books on attachment and spirituality and psychology and on and on. This book describes it all. “Addiction is an intimacy disorder”
As a partner of an addict I know this because I have an addiction when my intimacy needs aren’t being met either. What I believe is needing to be addressed is the significance of personal “self-love” intimacy (aka meditation) preceding intimacy growth with the partner as integral to true supportive healing.

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A healthier approach on healing.

I think this book addresses the shame that is embraced by our society for loving a addict. A must for anyone struggling in this area of their lives.

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