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Should I Stay or Should I Go?

A Guide to Knowing If Your Relationship Can - and Should - Be Saved

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Should I Stay or Should I Go?

Written by: Lundy Bancroft, JAC Patrissi
Narrated by: Stephen R. Thorne
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In this supportive and straightforward guide, Lundy Bancroft, the author of Why Does He Do That?, and communication specialist JAC Patrissi offer a way for women to practically take stock of their relationships and move forward, with or without their partners. Women involved in chronically frustrating or unfulfilling relationships will learn to: tell the difference between a healthy yet difficult relationship and one that is really not working, recognize the signs that their partner has a serious problem, stop waiting to see what happens and make their own growth the top priority, and prepare for life without their partner, even as they keep trying to make the relationship work.

©2011 Lundy Bancroft and Judith Patrissi (P)2015 Tantor Love & Romance Personal Development Personal Success Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Relationships Romance Health Mental Health
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"Women needing to check in objectively on their relationship's health will find this book quite useful." ( Publishers Weekly)
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Great teaching material on when you should stop fighting for your relationship, and move on

Important to know when to let go

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Lundy Bancroft is the only author who truly understands the plight of women in relationships.

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