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The Relationship Cure
- A 5 Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and Friendships
- Narrated by: John Gottman PhD
- Length: 5 hrs and 47 mins
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Publisher's Summary
Introducing the empowering concept of the "emotional bid," Gottman shows that all good relationships are built through a process of making and receiving successful bids. His simple yet life-transforming program shows listeners how to become master bidders by effectively turning toward others. He draws on the latest research to show listeners how the brain's unique emotional command systems, as well as each person's emotional heritage - their upbringing, life experiences, and enduring vulnerabilities - affect how they make and receive bids, and how to make adjustments. He then introduces a set of enjoyable and remarkably effective ways to deepen connections by finding shared meaning and honoring one another's dreams. The final chapter offers specially tailored programs for life's most important relationships: with lovers or spouses, children, adult siblings, friends, and co-workers.
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- Shelley
- 2019-02-19
So helpful loved this book
So helpful with understanding people’s behaviours and how we can connect better. This is a must read for anyone in a relationship and or parents.
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- Eddy B.
- 2018-09-16
About communication skills
This is a great book for anyone who wants to improve their communication skills with their romantic partners, friends and even business relationships. W e often miss valuable opportunities to create deeper connections with others because we're not paying attention to the signals. Everyone should read it.
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- Amazon Customer
- 2021-06-05
this book is great for all areas of your life
after listening to this book I want to share it with as many people as I can. if we could all understand how we work on this level we would all work together so much better. absolutely great information!
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- Ricksonjewellery
- 2022-12-14
very useful
amazing..will use the ideas in my marriage, as a parent and as a small business owner. feels like ideas I've always known but needed reminders and to solidify these instincts. also new ideas and validation for animal instincts to NOT give my energy and attention too! a delicate dance. thank you for this book of wisdom. ❤️
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- Anonymous User
- 2019-01-25
the relationship cure
Loved it , wish I have read it many years ago. it is an eye opener to many aspects of life and relationships.
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- Kindle Customer
- 2021-12-29
Very useful information.
Very succinct and to the point. important for maintaining longer term relationships. Gives good way to understand relationships.
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- Dara kenny
- 2022-08-13
Its worth reading
although it has too many "senarios" which i find annoying and besides the point it has alot of good information that can really help
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