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  • You Can't Make Me (But I Can Be Persuaded), Revised and Updated Edition

  • Strategies for Bringing Out the Best in Your Strong-Willed Child
  • Written by: Cynthia Tobias
  • Narrated by: Cynthia Tobias
  • Length: 3 hrs and 33 mins
  • 4.9 out of 5 stars (27 ratings)

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You Can't Make Me (But I Can Be Persuaded), Revised and Updated Edition

Written by: Cynthia Tobias
Narrated by: Cynthia Tobias
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Publisher's Summary

Turn conflict into cooperation....

Many parents suspect their strong-willed child is deliberately trying to drive them crazy. Difficult to discipline and seemingly impossible to motivate, these children present unique, exhausting, and often-frustrating challenges to the those who love them.

But strong will is not a negative trait. These same children have firm convictions, high spirits, a sense of adventure - all the makings of a great adult. In this book you'll discover how to channel that passion and determination in positive ways as you build a healthy relationship. Through insights gained from strong-willed people of all ages, you'll...

  • Better understand how their minds really work.
  • Discover positive ways to motivate your strong-willed child.
  • Learn how to share control without compromising parental authority.
  • Apply key tactics to survive a meltdown.
  • Get practical tips for parents who disagree, blended families, and single parents.

Packed with immediately useful strategies to drastically reduce the level of tension in the home (or in the classroom), You Can't Make Me shows how you can start today to build a stronger, more positive relationship with your strong-willed child.

Includes...

  • Top Ten Tips for Bringing Out the Best in a Strong-Willed Child of Any Age
  • A Strong-Willed Child Emergency Kit
©2012 Cynthia Tobias (P)2012 Random House Audio

What the critics say

"I love the practical strategies and valuable insights from the hearts and lives of strong-willed kids—including Cynthia herself! You'll definitely want to make this book part of your parenting library." (Dr. Kevin Leman, New York Times best-selling author of Have a New Kid by Friday)
"In You Can't Make Me, Cynthia Tobias provides help and hope for all of us with a strong-willed child of any age. Her extremely practical and time-tested tips will show you how to provide the strong-willed child love balanced with limits, relationship balanced with rules, coaching balanced with cheerleading, and discipleship balanced with discipline. This book will be worth its weight in gold to you and your strong-willed child." (Walt Larimore, MD, best-selling author of God's Design for the Highly Healthy Teen and Why A.D.H.D. Doesn't Mean Disaster)
"Parenting was never designed to be easy, and parenting a strong-willed child can be daunting. Cynthia Tobias has written a book designed to encourage parents to celebrate their children - yes, even if they are strong willed! I love how she has provided tried and true strategies that will bring out the best in our children. Her inclusion of stories from parents who are "in the trenches" serves to remind us that successful parenting is possible for all of us. I love Cynthia's wisdom, but her heart for children made me love this book!" (Janet Parshall, nationally syndicated talk-show host)

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helpful

I've listened to a few books in regards to strong willed children and this one seems the most practical and easy to follow with good examples that have the AHA moments of that sounds like my kid.

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Loved it

Loved it. Incredibly helpful. My husband and I have already started and seen an improvement with our son.

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What an experience

What a fantastic book. Spectacular voice, really enjoyed listening to the author. This book is great, strategic and skill based material given to you right away, very practical and useful. I will definitely listen to this one again and buy the paper copy for my wife. Wow.

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It is sound advice.

I believe that the strategies and guidelines that the author provides in the book to be sound advice. The author does point out that the book is a collection of universal themes that she has observed or filtered out of interviews with strong-willed individuals. I find that her observations parallel some of the more formally researched books that I have read on child development topics.
The only caution I can give is that the book is written with a Christian overtone. Not that it bothers me at all, but I can assure you that some people that I know would not take the book seriously because of this choice. If you look past the bible readings and the frequent references to what God says... this is a fantastic resource. If you are Christian in faith, I believe you will find this book invaluable and relatable.

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amazing book! you won't regret reading this!

loved it. this book helped me so much with my strong willed children. it's definitely Worth the read/Listen.

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answers are in the book

the narrator's voice was easy to listen to
we were able to change my granddaughter's behavior on the first day of reading this book

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Great Encouragement For Parents of a SWC

Thank you Cynthia for the encouragement and tools that I needed as I take on my strong willed toddler. I’ve already began to implement some of the strategies and seen such a change in her attitude and mine.

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