In this episode of Karma and Chaos, Kail and Becky dive into everything from hummingbird feeders to airline etiquette and co-parenting struggles. Becky shares an updates on baby prep, microdosing for mental clarity, and navigating moral dilemmas at work.

They also unpack a messy listener story about daycare drama, unresolved feelings for an ex, and the fine line between fate and chaos. Expect unexpected tangents—like feet pic requests, zodiac placements, period stories, and whether eating a gallon of butter is ever the right choice. This one’s unhinged in the best way.

Tune in for laughs, real talk, and a reminder to be kind, respectful, and maybe… keep your feet to yourself.

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On this episode of Karma and Chaos, Becky and Kail ask the age-old question: Can straight women and men really be just friends? What starts as a tan-line roast turns into a layered discussion on emotional cheating, polyamory, gender roles, and raising emotionally intelligent sons. Becky reflects on her recent trip to Mexico, witnessing healthy male friendships, and the importance of representation for queer youth. Kail opens up about therapy breakthroughs, the emotional fallout of betrayal, and how one teacher changed the trajectory of her life. The duo also tackles a jaw-dropping “Is It Karma or Is It Chaos?” submission involving cheating, steroids, and a long-kept secret. From post-nut clarity to lesbian merch and Pride prep, this episode is raw, funny, emotional and as always absolutely unfiltered.

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From hummingbirds to heated opinions on grilling, Kail and Becky are deep in their lesbian merch and even deeper in conversation this week. They talk everything from syncing periods and sleeping in separate bedrooms to stamp collections, skincare routines & Botox confessions. Becky opens up about her emotional pregnancy journey, her podcast For the Hayters, and finding beauty in raw, real stories; including grief, NICU journeys, and eating disorders.

The two also dive into a listener-submitted “Is It Karma or Is It Chaos?” about a baby daddy’s ex-wife making TikToks at a wedding chaotic or just content creation?

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