Self-care looks different at different times. Sometimes it is following a wellness influencer and curating that flawless morning routine. Other times, according to Lolly, you might just have to get your armpits waxed... Jasmine thinks that the short answer is: stop procrastinating. Tune in to hear what these two stressed Barnard students have to say about how they've navigated rough mornings and late nights, discovering what self-care means to them.

While being the eldest daughter comes with the perks of receiving ample attention, envy, and respect from parents and younger siblings, it is also disabling in one primary way: not being able to chill. There's one of them in everyone's life. Cara and I are the stereotypes. The mother of the friend group. The team carry. The fixer in romantic relationships. Next time you bump into one, go up and ask "wait, are you an eldest daughter?" She'd be impressed.

Having grown up within a small bubble of Chinese business owners and their families, I have learned from a young age to stay skeptical. In social settings where "proper etiquette" matters more than authenticity, I was taught by my dad to always trace someone's behaviors back to their motives. In this episode, I explore the aftermaths of being raised with this mindset, and how it makes trust a great luxury that comes at the cost of chronic skepticism.