Épisodes

  • Men and Sex - Lovers and Leaders
    Jun 13 2025

    Leslie has the joy of interviewing Doug in the second episode of Men and Sex.

    The conversation is deep and rich. We uncover what healthy sexuality is for men and what is underneath men's desires.

    "Most men want to be better men" but don't necessarily know the path in the intimate, sexual, interpersonal and relational arenas.

    Men are lovers and leaders but need to unearth and explore identity, emotions, the heart of a man, the role of porn and becoming whole as a man. Doug emphasizes the critical importance of men understanding their own complexity so they can live fully, powerfully and confidently in and out of the bedroom. Many men lean on sex as their primary avenue for the management of their emotions, releasing stress and feeling alive and connected, but must reconcile what sex is about for them, what it really can be and who they are as men.

    Lastly, the "GREAT WANT" for men (that both men and women hold) is highlighted.

    PLEASE Subscribe, Enjoy! And Become, Better, Smarter and Sexier!

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    Leslie Gustafson can be found on Instagram @LeslieGustafson1

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    35 min
  • Men and Sex - What Men Really Want
    May 15 2025

    Leslie and Doug discuss male sexuality in a date-like set-up over a nice glass of red wine. They have a very real and at times raw conversation about men, sex, and what it's all about and cover topics including:

    • male sexual development,
    • the importance of sex,
    • addiction,
    • out-of-control sexual behavior,
    • men's feelings and desires,
    • pornography and much more

    THIS is a must listen to podcast!

    Insights, stories, wisdom about men, and at times contrary opinions gained from the real-life work and experience of joining personally with men as their mentor, coach, therapist are shared.

    This conversation is full of information and understanding that every man and the women who love them can grow from and become "Better, Smarter & Sexier."

    PLEASE Subscribe, Enjoy! And Become, Better, Smarter and Sexier!

    For products and programs to grow, enhance and transform your life, relationships and intimacy visit www.leslieGustafson.com/shop

    Leslie Gustafson can be found on Instagram @LeslieGustafson1

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    46 min
  • Play in the Bedroom
    Apr 10 2025
    In this playful episode, I'm excited to have a special guest, who is also my partner, my lover, and my best friend in life, Doug Gustafson.

    We talk about a timely topic - "Play" in and out of the bedroom. Play is critical to our well-being, relationships, and our marriages. Doug and I discuss play in general, play individually, and as a couple. We want to inspire you to create a playful lifestyle with your partner! Join us as we talk about all this and more, and encourage you to become smarter, healthier, and sexier!

    PLEASE Subscribe, Enjoy! And Become, Better, Smarter and Sexier!

    For products and programs to grow, enhance and transform your life, relationships and intimacy visit www.leslieGustafson.com/shop

    Leslie Gustafson can be found on Instagram @LeslieGustafson1

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    51 min
  • Imagination & Fantasy in the Bedroom
    Mar 13 2025
    My husband, Doug Gustafson, interviews me as we dip into the fascinating world of fantasy and imagination in the bedroom. There are many nuances and layers to this topic, but I want you to know that you are a creative and imaginative person in and out of the bedroom! Let yourself ponder that. Considering yourself and what you want to do with your inner life enhances you personally and could potentially improve your experience as a sexual person and a sexual partner. What’s fantasy all about, and what different kinds of fantasy are there? Why would we need fantasy to enhance our sexual experience? What do couples need to do to have a healthy fantasy? Are there any you shouldn’t be having? What about the “moral” issue? Join us as we talk about all this and more, and encourage you to become smarter, healthier, and sexier!

    PLEASE Subscribe, Enjoy! And Become, Better, Smarter and Sexier!

    For products and programs to grow, enhance and transform your life, relationships and intimacy visit www.leslieGustafson.com/shop

    Leslie Gustafson can be found on Instagram @LeslieGustafson1

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    41 min
  • Sex & Dating- A Discussion with Dating Experts (Part 1)
    Feb 10 2025

    What does it take to have a successful dating life?
    Do you need confidence?
    Do you need game?
    How has dating changed since the pandemic?
    Where is dating headed - online, in real life, both?

    I was delighted to have three incredible, knowledgeable dating coaches to talk about what single people are up against, how to navigate dating, and what the sexual culture is like today in this first part of Sex and Dating Today.

    About my Guests:
    With over 10,000 hours of one-on-one coaching and training experience, Nate Hockstra is an expert in helping men find meaningful relationships without the use of any “pick up” or game playing. You can connect with him at Ditchthegame.com

    Connell Barrett is the founder of Dating Transformation and a dating coach for The League. He is the author of the book, Dating Sucks, But You Don't, a dating guide for men in the #MeToo Era. He's also an advisor for AskMen and Elite Daily, and has appeared on "Access Hollywood,” and the Today Show, as well as in Playboy, Cosmopolitan, and O, The Oprah Magazine. You can read his weekly advice column, “Ask the Dating Coach,” at DatingTransformation.com.

    Anwar White is a certified dating and relationship coach for women of color who has helped thousands of women heal their hearts, date effectively, and get their guy! You can check him out further at Get Your Guy Coaching, or book a free consultation with him at getyourguycoaching.com/apply.

    PLEASE Subscribe, Enjoy! And Become, Better, Smarter and Sexier!

    For products and programs to grow, enhance and transform your life, relationships and intimacy visit www.leslieGustafson.com/shop

    Leslie Gustafson can be found on Instagram @LeslieGustafson1

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    42 min
  • Cultivating Sensuality and Erotic Energy with Cindy Scharkey
    Jan 6 2025

    Sexuality, Sensuality, Erotic… all words that women tend to shy away from.

    BUT… Cindy Scharkey and I are here to empower women to put aside their fear and embrace cultivating sensuality and erotic energy in one’s life and relationships.

    This episode hits on what’s blocking women's expression of sensuality and ways to overcome it. To have the freedom to voice what they need and to seek pleasure. Put the work of YOURSELF on the forefront. Let yourself have what you long for: in yourself, in your life, in your sexuality, and in your relationships.

    Cindy Scharkey, RN, BSN, is passionate about breaking the silence surrounding women’s sexuality. Through her workshops, speaking events, and private consultations, she equips women with both content and self-confidence to express, experience, and enjoy their sexuality. She also empowers parents with knowledge and confidence to be their child’s primary sexual health educator. Cindy offers sex education and resources through her free monthly newsletter and blog at www.cindyscharkey.com.

    And she just launched her new book – Permission for Pleasure: Tending Your Sexual Garden

    Thank you Cindy for our delightful and empowering conversation.

    PLEASE Subscribe, Enjoy! And Become, Better, Smarter and Sexier!

    For products and programs to grow, enhance and transform your life, relationships and intimacy visit www.leslieGustafson.com/shop

    Leslie Gustafson can be found on Instagram @LeslieGustafson1

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    56 min
  • Sex and Money with Cassie Howard
    Dec 14 2024

    In this episode, Leslie is joined by guest, Cassie Howard. In a rich, fun conversation, they discuss the connection between sex, money, and personal growth.

    Cassie is an online business mentor for women that is known for her savvy sexy sales skills and her ability to make business simple, fun, AND sustainable.

    Cassie shares that succeeding in her business has given her an inner confidence and a feeling of power, similar to the transformative experience of an orgasm!

    The conversation moves on to careers and passion! If something isn't enjoyable, it won't get done.

    Prioritizing pleasure leads to further success! Cassie and Leslie share how this was evident in both their entrepreneurial journeys.

    They also discussed the impact of money on their lives, with Cassie noting that having more money allowed her to enjoy luxury experiences in and out of the bedroom. They emphasized the need for communication and mutual desire to keep pleasure and fun alive in the bedroom and in the whole of one's life.

    Thank you, Cassie, for joining the podcast!

    PLEASE Subscribe, Enjoy! And Become, Better, Smarter and Sexier!

    For products and programs to grow, enhance and transform your life, relationships and intimacy visit www.leslieGustafson.com/shop

    Leslie Gustafson can be found on Instagram @LeslieGustafson1

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    43 min
  • Pleasing A Lady - Oh! Oh! Orgasm Part 2
    Nov 7 2024

    In this episode, Leslie continues the orgasm talk with her girlfriends Lori, Laurel, Jamie and Kristen about how women work sexually amongst laughter and even singing.

    How we as women and men have been oversold a masculine model of sexuality with it’s performance orientation and outcome focus, and the impact that has had on everyone’s understanding of sexuality. The negative effects of this on both men and women are brought to attention.

    We move into talking about the differences between and myths we hold about men’s and women’s orgasms.

    Central to this episode are lively thoughts, feelings and experiences around the topic of masturbation. An emphasis on the importance of knowing how our own personal sexuality works, how our bodies work and discovering what brings us pleasure is highlighted. Also, Leslie educates on the effect that self-pleasuring and knowing how one works has on pleasurable and predictable orgasms for women.

    As in previous episodes, much of the fun, jaw-dropping, and relatability is found in the honest sharing and humor brought by the girlfriends with their willingness to share. We are invited to hear how it really is for them in their lives and intimate relationships.

    Personal turn-ons that many women will relate to, creating anticipation, sexual communication, out-of-the-bedroom foreplay and sex education via the “Friends” TV show all get talked about.

    Lastly, Leslie educates on universal orgasm blocks and provides the big keys to having consistent, wanted sex.

    PLEASE Subscribe, Enjoy! And Become, Better, Smarter and Sexier!

    For products and programs to grow, enhance and transform your life, relationships and intimacy visit www.leslieGustafson.com/shop

    Leslie Gustafson can be found on Instagram @LeslieGustafson1

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    39 min