This week we’re tearing apart one of personal finance’s most overused frameworks: the “financial order of operations.”

You’ve heard a version of it before—pay this, save that, sacrifice now, maybe retire someday. The problem? Most of those systems were built by people who either (a) never had real financial stress, or (b) have spent too long in the Dave Ramsey cinematic universe.

So, I rebuilt the order from scratch. And it actually works in the real world, whether you make $40,000 or $400,000.

Here’s what we cover:

1️⃣ Put your own oxygen mask on first.
Take care of yourself before your kids. Financial stability isn’t selfish—it’s responsible.

2️⃣ Obliterate credit card debt.
The “snowball method” is financial astrology. Attack the highest-interest balance first.

3️⃣ Get insurance.
If someone depends on your income, you need term life and long-term disability. No gimmicks.

4️⃣ Max out your Roth IRA.
It’s flexible, tax-free, and doubles as a stealth emergency fund.

5️⃣ Grab your 401(k) match.
A 50% employer match is the only free lunch on Wall Street.

6️⃣ Max out your HSA (if you can).
The triple tax advantage—deductible going in, tax-free growth, tax-free withdrawals—is unbeatable.

We’ll go deeper into emergency funds, taxable brokerage accounts, and smart debt strategies in Part 2 next week.

And a MASSIVE thank you to this episode's sponsor, Facet. If you are tired of paying more to an advisor simply because you make more, check out facet.com/tyler today to learn more.

👉 PLUS: stick around until the end of the episode for a modern trick that helps you find the money to do all of this in under 20 minutes—without canceling Netflix or giving up your morning coffee.

If this episode helps you—or if you simply enjoy hearing someone roast bad financial advice with love—please consider leaving a review on Apple or Spotify or share this with a friend who still believes paying off a $200 credit card before a $20,000 one is “confidence building.”

🎧 Listen now wherever you get your podcasts.

📩 Join my newsletter for weekly financial philosophy that treats you like an adult: https://socialcapconnect.substack.com/subscribe

What if you could skip the index fund and build your own? In theory, you can. In practice…well, it’s a bit like building your own refrigerator. You’ll learn a lot, and maybe even get a working model, but you’ll also discover why the factory-made version is so efficient in the first place.

In this episode, we dive into the peculiar urge to “DIY” the market, and why the exercise can be incredibly educational—even if you never actually follow through. Along the way, you’ll learn:

• The 11 Sectors of the Market: From flashy Tech to steady Utilities, every portfolio starts with understanding the cast of characters.
• How Benchmarks Really Work: Why the S&P 500 is more active (and more tax-efficient) than most people realize.
• The Temptation of Tilts: When to add seasoning like value or small-cap, and when ego is just disguising speculation.
• Building Your Own Fund: How to use sector ETFs to replicate the market—and why rebalancing can become a full-time job.
• Keeping Costs and Ego Down: The S&P’s hidden advantages in cost and tax efficiency, and why humility may be the cheapest asset in your portfolio.

The takeaway? You can build your own index fund. You might even enjoy the process. But the real lesson is what it reveals: index funds are masterpieces of design, combining diversification, tax efficiency, and ruthless discipline—all while letting you spend your time on things that matter more than spreadsheets.

And if you are interested in learning more about those who support this content and make the show possible, visit facet.com/tyler today! And see why they're the only partner I've brought to you thus far as a resource.

👉 If you found this episode useful (or at least more entertaining than quarterly earnings reports), please leave a review on Apple Podcasts or share it with a friend. It’s the best way to help the show grow—and keeps me from muttering about sector weights to myself in the Vermont woods.

Your 50s are a tax-planning sweet spot—a decade when smart strategies can save you tens or even hundreds of thousands over the course of retirement. In this episode, Part Two of our two-part series, we explore four advanced but practical moves to keep more of your money compounding where it belongs.

Here’s what we cover in this episode:

• The HSA Triple Play: Why this account is the most underrated retirement tool, and how to turn it into a stealth IRA with triple tax benefits.
• Social Security Timing & Taxes: How your claiming age affects not just your benefit but how much the IRS quietly takes back.
• Charitable Giving with Donor-Advised Funds: A Costco-sized deduction now, with the ability to give on your terms for years. Plus, how Qualified Charitable Distributions can kill two birds with one IRA.
• Bracket Shifting by Gifting to Kids: Move money to lower tax brackets within your family—legally—while supporting education, housing, or even a responsible jet ski purchase.

Together with Part One (Roth conversions, withdrawal sequencing, and tax-efficient investing), this gives you a full seven-strategy toolkit for your 50s. No gimmicks, no offshore shell games—just thoughtful planning that keeps more money in your pocket and less in Uncle Sam’s.

👉 If this series has been helpful, please leave a review or share it with a friend. It’s the best way to help the show grow—and it keeps me from muttering about Roth conversions to my dogs in the Vermont woods without witnesses.