In this deeply personal episode of After the Divorce, Uldean opens up about the hidden pain behind her marriage — the financial loss that cracked the foundation, the emotional punishment that followed, and the journey from guilt and self-blame to truth and freedom.

Through counselling, faith, and clarity, she discovered life-changing truths about emotional responsibility, infidelity, identity, and worth. If you’ve ever been blamed for someone else’s brokenness, this episode will remind you:

You didn’t cause their wounds — you only revealed where they still hurt.

This is an episode about healing, reclaiming your value, and finally knowing…

you were enough all along.

When my marriage ended, I didn’t just lose a husband — I lost friends, family connections, and even parts of my community. In this episode, I open up about how divorce revealed who was truly for me and who was simply there for the good times.

I share the lessons I learned about discernment, loyalty, and the quiet strength it takes to walk away from relationships that no longer serve your peace. Hard times have a way of uncovering truth — and while that truth can be painful, it also brings freedom, clarity, and the courage to start again.

In Episode 5 of Life After Divorce podcast, I open up about what it felt like to lose my identity after 14 years of marriage and how I began to rebuild myself in a new country. From feeling lost and codependent to slowly discovering my passions, strengths, and independence, this episode is a raw and honest look at rediscovering who you are after divorce.

If you’re navigating separation, starting over, or wondering how to find yourself again, this story offers hope, practical insight, and reassurance that you’re not alone.

Listen as I share:

• How divorce left me feeling like a stranger to myself

• Why trying to recreate my old self didn’t work

• The slow process of creating a new identity

• Lessons learned about boundaries, self-worth, and inner peace

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I Am ULDean