In this Open House episode of Beyond the Norms, we host a bold, honest, and community-driven conversation on rape, indecent dressing, and women’s liberality in Nigerian society. With multiple guest voices in the room, this episode examines some of the most controversial and misunderstood narratives surrounding sexual violence.

We begin with the provocative statement, “She is not dressed indecently; you are the one thinking like a rapist,” using it as a springboard to unpack society’s fixation on women’s dressing and the culture of victim blaming. From there, we explore liberality in dressing, cultural definitions of indecency in Nigeria, and the ongoing debate around whether laws should regulate dress codes.

The discussion goes deeper into uncomfortable but necessary questions: Can rape occur within marriage? Does marriage remove the need for consent? We also examine whether indecent dressing is truly a cause of rape, especially considering that many victims were not dressed “indecently” at all. This leads us to address underlying causes of rape, including power, entitlement, and abuse within trusted spaces.

We also confront the reality of rape among loved ones and guardians, challenging the narratives that often silence these experiences. To close, we discuss consent — whether it should be continuous, explicit, and respected in all relationships.

This episode is not about providing final answers, but about asking the right questions and challenging deeply rooted societal norms.

Nigeria has entered a new tax era — and many people are confused, worried, or misinformed.

In this first episode of Season 2, We discuss what tax is, why governments tax citizens, how Nigeria’s old tax system worked, and what the new tax laws really mean for young Nigerians, employees, business owners, and the general public.

We also address common misconceptions, the public uproar surrounding the reform, and how tax policy affects trust, governance, and politics in Nigeria. This episode isn’t about defending or attacking the government — it’s about understanding the system that affects us all.

In this episode, we take a deep and honest look at Nigeria’s long-standing issues around tribalism, ethnic politics, and national unity. We explore the big question: Are Nigeria’s divisions truly rooted in tribalism, or are they the result of deliberate political, historical, and systemic actions?

Using the Nnamdi Kanu case as a major reference point, we examine how ethnicity, justice, and state power collide in modern Nigeria. We also discuss the recent killings of Christians and how religious violence continues to influence fear, bias, and the sense of belonging for different groups.

To provide context, we revisit the Nigerian Civil War — its causes, its long-term effects, and how its unresolved wounds still shape conversations about marginalization, identity, and distrust today.

This episode goes beyond opinions. It connects history, present-day insecurity, governance, and inter-ethnic relationships to paint a clearer picture of why Nigerians often feel divided — and what it means for the country’s future.