In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, the host continues the book club series with The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley, covering Chapters 13 and 14, which focus on the Holy Spirit’s role in guidance, decision-making, sensitivity, and neutrality before God.

The episode opens with an invitation to the Clarity Reset, a free two-week challenge inside The Society, designed to help participants realign their capacity, priorities, and spiritual focus by slowing down rather than adding more.

• Why many people struggle due to lack of clarity—not discipline or work ethic
• How busyness and goal-driven living can dull spiritual sensitivity
• The Holy Spirit as a guide, not a controller
• Four key truths about the Holy Spirit:
• He guides
• He is trustworthy
• He is God’s mouthpiece to believers
• The Holy Spirit speaks
• Real-life examples of Spirit-led guidance in parenting, career decisions, and resisting distractions
• Why God cares about both major and seemingly small decisions
• The importance of recognizing and trusting how the Holy Spirit communicates personally

• Why God often remains silent when believers approach Him with fixed agendas
• The danger of asking God to bless plans already made
• How emotional attachment can distort discernment
• Why worship helps cultivate neutrality and clarity
• How misplaced faith in promises God never made leads to disappointment
• The connection between neutrality, obedience, and peace

Clarity comes from sensitivity, and sensitivity grows when believers approach God with a neutral heart—willing to release their own agendas and fully submit to His will.

• The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley: https://amzn.to/45Jzcf6
• The Clarity Reset (free two-week challenge inside The Society): thesocietychallenge.com

In this episode, I’m joined by my friend and podcast fave Kristen Hopkins Vincent—and yes, we’re talking about the Vincent part today! Kristen returns with powerful updates on her life (she’s a wife and a mom now!) and on the incredible work happening through Black SEL.

We dig into Kristen’s transition from Dangers of the Mind to Black SEL, why culturally-rooted social and emotional learning is essential for Black communities, and what it looks like to build a mission-driven organization with radical obedience to God. Kristen shares moments where obedience didn’t make sense—like moving forward with a major conference during a hurricane—and how God confirmed the vision through provision, research, and undeniable fruit.

We also talk about the very real emotions that come up when you’re following God’s timing: shame, guilt, feeling unseen, and learning how to embrace seasons of being hidden. And Kristen’s testimony around marriage and motherhood is such a needed reminder: it’s not too late, and God is always intentional.

Before we get into it: Kristen and her husband received the Presidential Lifetime Achievement Award—and she forgot to mention it in the conversation because that’s what happens when you’re focused on obedience and doing the Lord’s work.

• What Black SEL is and why it’s necessary
• Kristen’s transition from Dangers of the Mind to launching a nonprofit
• The 5 core competencies of social-emotional learning (and how Black SEL frames them)
• Why SEL must be culturally affirming to truly serve Black students and communities
• Building “God’s way” vs. building in your own might
• The difference between a “me” assignment and a “we” assignment
• Navigating shame, guilt, and the pressure to be seen
• Seasons where God hides you—and why that protection matters
• Kristen’s hurricane conference testimony and how God made the way
• The research that revealed how little SEL scholarship centers Black communities
• Waiting on God for marriage and motherhood—and what it means to pray for alignment with your assignment
• A word for the woman juggling purpose, business, love, and obedience
• “The position of your mind determines the posture of your life”

• Visit: BlackSEL.org
• Donate + learn more about the mission and programming
• Get involved / volunteer (especially if you’re in North Carolina)

Welcome to the first episode of 2026—and the 9-year anniversary year of Blessed + Bossed Up! In this special New Year kickoff, Tatum opens with prayer, gratitude, and a powerful reflection on what God has taught her through nine years of consistent podcasting and nine years of full-time entrepreneurship (11 years as an entrepreneur overall).

This episode is part celebration, part reset, and part practical mentorship: nine lessons to help you build what God called you to build—with skill, strategy, and spiritual sensitivity.

• A New Year prayer + encouragement for anyone coming out of a hard 2025
• A thank-you message to listeners who’ve supported the show over the years
• Why year 10 is a big deal—and what may be coming next (YouTube + format experiments)
• An invitation to join The Society (with a free trial) and what’s being added in 2026
• The core teaching: 9 lessons from 9 years of entrepreneurship and podcasting

Tatum shares that she’s not committing to a full video podcast, but you can expect more video elements in 2026:

• YouTube-exclusive episodes that may also be added to the podcast feed
• Some podcast episodes recorded live
• More experimentation with format as the landscape continues shifting

Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TatumTemia

Tatum invites you to activate a free 2-week trial in The Society, the membership community created for Christian entrepreneurs who want a space where they don’t have to “leave Jesus out” or “leave entrepreneurship out.”

New for 2026: She’s bringing her former coaching program, She Is Uncompromising Executive Leadership Training, into The Society—broken into monthly modules (about 12 total).

• Topics include operations, marketing, business planning, strategic planning, and accounting (modules taught by her CPA)
• The legal module will NOT be included (permission was for the original program only)
• Membership is $19.99/month, and the first module drops end of January

Link to join: blessedandbossedupsociety.com

Leave a 5-star review for the 9-year anniversary—share what this podcast has meant to you

**Disclaimer** We are currently on our annual winter break. This is a replay of an episode that aired earlier in 2025.

In this continuation of the Bible on Business series, Tatum walks through Acts 16:6–10 to illustrate how critical it is for Christian entrepreneurs to embrace mobility and flexibility when building a business God’s way. Using Paul’s second missionary journey as a framework, this episode explores what it looks like to make strategic plans while remaining fully open to divine redirection.

If you’re someone who knows you’re called but keeps facing closed doors, delays, or redirections that don’t make sense, this message is for you. Tatum speaks to the emotional and spiritual tension of following God with excellence while trusting Him to guide every step—even when plans change.

She also shares a personal story about obeying the Holy Spirit with no confirmation and how that decision ultimately protected her and her family. This episode will shift your mindset around delays, reframe how you view closed doors, and help you move forward with peace and confidence.

• A closed door is not failure—it can be divine redirection.
• The Holy Spirit often leads us as we move, not before.
• Flexibility and mobility are vital for kingdom entrepreneurs.
• Being spiritual is not the same as being Spirit-led.
• Obedience does not always come with external confirmation.
• The people God is calling you to serve are already prepared to receive you.

• Acts 16:6–10 (ESV and The Message)
• Proverbs 16:9
• Romans 8:14
• Galatians 5:25

• You are clear about your calling but uncertain about next steps.
• You’ve experienced unexpected closed doors and felt discouraged.
• You struggle to distinguish between faith and fear in business decisions.
• You are tired of waiting for external confirmation before obeying God.
• You want to operate in peace rather than anxiety as you build your business.

• Strategic planning vs. spiritual discernment
• What to do when you face delays, pivots, or redirections
• The importance of maintaining spiritual rhythm in business
• How over-attachment to your vision can block divine movement
• The role of fear and anxiety in clouding discernment
• How obedience leads to favor and alignment with your ideal clients

**Disclaimer** We are currently on our annual winter break. This is a replay of an episode that aired earlier in 2025.

In this continuation of our Bible on Business series, we dive deeper into the process of making Holy Spirit-led business decisions. Picking up from Part 1 (based on Acts 8), today’s discussion focuses on Acts 13:1-4 and how divine strategy and clarity are birthed from a lifestyle of worship, fasting, and consistent submission to God. Tatum also shares critical biblical principles for discerning the spirit behind those who claim to be sent by God, offering practical steps to avoid deception and remain anchored in the truth.

• Context of Acts 13: Shift from Jerusalem to Antioch, highlighting the transition from Peter’s leadership to Paul’s.
• Divine Strategy is Birthed from Worship and Fasting:
• Barnabas and Saul’s commissioning came in the middle of an existing posture of worship, not a strategic session seeking next steps.
• Application: Do not seek God only for strategy—pursue a lifestyle of submission, intimacy, and service.
• Beware of Misaligned Spiritual Leadership:
• Many modern Christian entrepreneurs and believers are spiritually "thirsty," making them vulnerable to deception.
• Importance of properly discerning who lays hands on you or influences your spiritual walk and business decisions.
• Principles for Discerning Spiritual Leadership:

1. Test their confession of Jesus (1 John 4:1-3).
2. Test the fruit of their life (Matthew 7:15-20).
3. Test alignment with Scripture (Galatians 1:8-9; Isaiah 8:20).
4. Test through the witness of the Holy Spirit (John 16:13).

• Practical Application:
• Ask key questions:
• Does this person exalt the true Jesus or themselves?
• Does their life consistently produce holy fruit?
• Are their teachings aligned fully with Scripture?
• Does the Holy Spirit bear witness within you regarding their message and conduct?
• Take your time before accepting any prophetic word or impartation. It is wise to "wait and see" rather than rushing based on emotions.
• Personal Story:
• Tatum shares her own journey of being patient during a wilderness season and how God’s deposits led to the launch of Anchored Media and her continued success, underscoring the power of patience and submission.

• The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley – [Grab your copy here] https://a.co/d/cBARYuE
• Bible references: Acts 13:1-4, 1 John 4:1-3, Matthew 7:15-20, Galatians 1:8-9, Isaiah 8:20, John 16:13

• Reflect: Are you seeking God’s hand or His heart first?
• Evaluate: Apply the principles of spiritual discernment shared today to your current business community and spiritual influences.
• Prepare: Join the Blessed + Bossed Up Book Club as we start The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley. The journey to spirit-led entrepreneurship continues.

**Disclaimer** We are currently on our annual winter break. This is a replay of an episode that aired earlier in 2025.

In today’s episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue our Bible on Business series with a deep dive into what it looks like to make strategic business decisions led by the Holy Spirit. Drawing from Acts 8:26–40, Tatum unpacks the story of Philip and the Ethiopian eunuch to reveal how obedience to God—even when it seems illogical—can produce generational and global impact.

Tatum also shares a powerful testimony about Anchored Media Studios being awarded the 2025 Peerspace Open Doors Award and reflects on the importance of celebrating wins, even when they don’t directly reflect financial gain. With personal insight and biblical application, this episode gives you practical tools to discern God's voice, remain obedient in seasons of uncertainty, and be led by the Spirit in every decision you make.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why Spirit-led strategy always outperforms worldly business tactics
• The biblical context and business application of Acts 8
• How to know if what you're hearing is truly from God
• What to do when your platform, profits, or progress feel like they’re shrinking
• The power of journaling and intentional reflection in building spiritual sensitivity
• Why one act of obedience can change nations
• How Tatum is applying these lessons in her own businesses and platform

Resources Mentioned:

• Book Club Pick: The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley: https://amzn.to/4ji32MG
• Episode referenced: Testimony of building Anchored Media Studios https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/24590588/faith-endurance-and-eight-years-of-gods-grace
• Visit: www.blessedandbossedup.com to search episode topics and listen to past shows

**Disclaimer** We are currently on our annual winter break. This is a replay of an episode that aired earlier in 2025.

In this episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, we continue our Bible on Business series by diving into the significance of strategic timing. Tatum unpacks the powerful lessons from Acts 2, examining how the Lord orchestrated the perfect moment for Pentecost and how this applies to our business and leadership journeys. She discusses why waiting on God’s timing is crucial, how to avoid premature leadership, and how divine strategy ensures maximum impact.

Through the transformation of Peter, the example of Chick-fil-A’s success, and personal reflections on her own journey, Tatum emphasizes the importance of trusting God's plan. If you’re in a season of waiting or feeling impatient about your business or calling, this episode will encourage and challenge you to surrender to God's divine orchestration.

Key Takeaways:

• God’s Timing Ensures Maximum Impact: Pentecost happened at the exact right moment to maximize the spread of the gospel. Likewise, waiting on God's timing in your business will lead to greater impact.
• The Right People Will Be in Place When It's Time: God gathers the right audience, customers, and community when the timing aligns with His plan.
• Strategic Preparation Precedes Breakthrough: Just as Peter had to go through a transformation process, we must embrace personal and professional development while waiting for God’s move.
• Sudden Breakthroughs Are Often Years in the Making: From Jesus preparing 30 years for a 3-year ministry to Chick-fil-A’s 20-year foundation before expansion, major success takes time and patience.
• Avoid Premature Leadership & Decision-Making: Acting ahead of God’s plan can lead to consequences. Learning to wait well is key to success in both business and faith.

Scriptures Mentioned:

• Acts 2:1-5 – The divine timing of Pentecost
• Leviticus 23:15-16 – The significance of the Feast of Weeks
• Deuteronomy 16:16 – The biblical foundation for gathering at Pentecost
• Matthew 16:16-23 – Peter’s faith and spiritual immaturity
• John 18:10-11 – Peter’s rash decision-making