Épisodes

  • The Anxious-Avoidant Dynamic 2026 (Short and Sweet)
    Jan 26 2026

    You know I love talking about Attachment! This is a major key to unlocking yourself and your relationships. Mastering my Attachment Style was a big part of my journey. I’m grateful for all I learned and how much it helped me.

    For a few years of my practice I almost solely helped people shift from insecure to secure attachment. I even had a group class called Reattach. Now YOU can do Reattach at your own pace. You can get the class and the exercises that have helped hundreds of people get a grip on their attachment and make positive changes.

    Head to my website to grab it and if you need additional help, please don’t hesitate to reach out to me through my interest form or email: Taylor@iamtaylorchandler.com

    👉 Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/

    👉 Interest Form: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08L

    ⏰ Timestamps:

    00:00:40 What is an attachment style?
    00:02:06 My therapy journey with attachment
    00:06:25 The Anxious-Avoidant Dynamic
    00:10:00 Cycles of learning but not acting

    Thank you for your support!

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    Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/
    Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler
    YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

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    13 min
  • 2026 Foresights about Dating and Relationships: Critical thinking, sharper discernment, and a return to courtship
    Jan 19 2026

    Hey y’all, I’m giving my foresights on what I think we’re going to see this year of 2026 in the dating and relationship lane. Just my thoughts! I’ll give a brief overview in the beginning of what we’ve seen in recent past.

    Check out the timestamps for the points and click the link below if you’re interested in working with me:

    👉 Interest form: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08L

    ⏰ Timestamps:

    00:01:17 What we’ve seen in the recent pasts

    00:09:32 What’s coming down the pipeline

    00:09:45 Polarized Daters

    00:12:02 Echo chambers up, engagement down

    00:15:28 Turning away from relationship influencer culture

    00:27:42 Sharper discernment

    00:28:37 A return to courtship

    00:39:46 Learning and un-learning

    Thank you for your support!

    Work with me: Interest Form

    Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/
    Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler
    YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

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    45 min
  • Renewal of the Mind Pt. 3: Mindset
    Jan 12 2026

    The final part of the Renewal of the Mind Series — Mindset. I’m talking about 5 core aspects of Mindset in a way that makes it easy to understand and take action on. The more positive core aspects you have, the higher quality of life you will have — and when you maximize those positives, it gets even better. In this lane of personal and relational development, you get better options (so you’ll marry better), you’ll be more likable, better energy… an overall high vibe. Everyone wants it and when you set your mind to it, you’ll get it.

    👉 Work with me: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08L

    ⏰ Timestamps:
    00:04:44 Mindset

    00:15:25 Benefits of the Right Mindset

    00:30:29 Talk about the 5 Core Aspects

    Thank you for your support!

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    Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/
    Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler
    YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

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    1 h et 5 min
  • Renewal of the Mind Pt. 2: Mind Control
    Jan 5 2026

    Part 2 of the Renewal of the Mind Series — Mind Control. I’m expanding on this principle: the quality of your thoughts directly affects the quality of your life. Mind control is a skill that is more important now than ever (if you don’t do it, someone else will do it for you). I have 3 mechanisms for you to activate to heighten your degree of influence over your life.

    ⏰ Timestamps:
    00:56:00 Thoughts are running us

    00:08:56 Mind Control is a skill

    00:10:30 Awareness is the starting point

    00:13:35 Living beneath you

    00:22:15 Three Mechanisms to Activate

    Thank you for your support!

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    Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/
    Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler
    YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

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    32 min
  • Renewal of the Mind Pt. 1: Identity
    Dec 29 2025

    This is for people who are determined to separate from the noise and shift to a higher level. In this episode, I’m talking about Identity, the foundation of a Renewed Mind. As we grow, we have to keep upgrading our system — and the internal system is where it all starts.

    This is the first of a 3-part series. Next up is Mind Control and Mindset.

    ⏰ Timestamps:

    00:02:09 Principle: Quality of Thinking Determines Quality of Life

    00:05:30 Identity

    00:12:45 Transcending Group Identity

    00:15:07 Supporting Bible Verses

    00:30:25 Roots and Fruits

    ⏯️ Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=glHH9JBbo_I&feature=youtu.be

    Thank you for your support!

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    Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/
    Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler
    YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

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    34 min
  • Dating in a New Season (Intentional Dating)
    Dec 22 2025

    If you’re a man or woman intentionally dating or want to start dating that way, this one is for you. Rather than focusing on how rough it is out there, let’s talk about what you can do to make it a whole lot better. I’m also sharing a bit about what started my journey to intentional dating (which takes about the first 8 minutes).

    1. Fitness
    2. Purpose
    3. Spiritual Discipline
    4. Sexual Discipline
    5. Lifestyle
    6. Relationships
    7. Pets
    8. Home

    Timestamps:

    00:03:08 Dating in Atlanta and transitioning to intentional dating

    00:10:22 Eight Areas of Focus for Serious Dating

    00:12:00 Fitness

    00:14:20 Purpose

    00:17:44 Spiritual Discipline

    00:20:41 Sexual Discipline

    00:24:05 Lifestyle

    00:28:00 Relationships

    00:31:42 Pets

    00:33:03 Home

    Thank you for your support!

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    Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/
    Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler
    YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

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    36 min
  • It's a New Season (and I need to talk about Jesus, again)
    Dec 21 2025

    I have a major update for you. I know this isn't going to fly with some people, and I've wrestled with this myself, but I know what I need to do. I'm ready to share it with you.

    In this video, I'm talking about:
    1. The answer to your pain (relational wounds -- from family, marriage, exes)
    2. Restructuring my business
    3. Jesus

    Thank you for your support!

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    Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/
    Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler
    YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

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    27 min
  • High Effort, Low Return: When you’re doing the work for two
    Dec 1 2025

    I illustrate the over-functioner/under-performer dynamic. These are high-effort people who get low returns in their relationships. The markers of the dynamic are clearly laid out as well as the consequences of allowing this problem to persist. I share about my over-functioning past and how I changed in order to get what I give in relationship.

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    Prepared Guide: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08L

    Timestamps:

    00:03:30 Introduction to the Over-functioner / Under-performer Dynamic

    0:04:00 Marker #1 - “This relationship will fall apart”

    00:04:23 Marker #2 - You’re drained

    00:05:19 Marker #3 - When they pull away, you give more

    00:09:49 Marker #4 - You’re managing, not partnering

    00:10:54 Marker #5 - You negotiate your needs

    00:14:23 When the problem persists

    00:18:31 Solving the problem

    Thank you for your support!

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    Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/
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    24 min