Tattoos. Body Piercings. Hair Dyes. The list goes on. We live in a world where appearances matter. Not so with God. In Episode 6 of CCJPM, Hetti-Marie shares about the importance of having conversations with our kids to find out the "why" - their motive - and to ensure that we, as parents, are not making mountains out of molehills, rather placing value on inner qualities over superficial ones. When we know our identity in Christ, we don't have to do things to our appearance to be different - we already are!

"Gentle Parenting" is raising eyebrows and a lot of questions today. In Episode 5 of CCJPM, Hetti-Marie shares a revelation that may surprise you and turns to what the Bible says about gentleness. So, before you jump on the bandwagon dismissing this topic altogether, listen to some spirit-filled insight from HM, sharing on how we can parent with gentleness and do it God's way.

Aretha Franklin sang about it. More and more parents today are looking for it in the home. And that is respect. In Episode 4, before Hetti-Marie talks about "How to cultivate respect in the home?", she challenges listeners to ask an important first question, "What does respect look like to you?" She discusses how to not take things personally, how to model consideration and a good attitude, how to serve one another, and how to help our kids show honor where honor is due.

In Part 3, Hetti-Marie emphasizes the importance of building community, being authentic, and cultivating respectful behaviour. She even shares why we should not badmouth the coparent but instead pray for them (even when we don’t feel like it:). Listen in as this divorced mom (now happily remarried) gets real about navigating the challenges and joys of coparenting God's way.

When divorce hits a home with kids, you may become a coparent with kids travelling between two homes. In Part 2, Hetti-Marie examines the coparent dynamic, sharing on effective communication, being a collaborator (not a competitor), and doing the necessary things to respect boundaries and the healing process when a coparenting relationship needs repair. Listen in as this divorced mom (now happily remarried) gets real about navigating the challenges and joys of coparenting kids God's way.

When divorce hits a home with kids, you may become a coparent with kids travelling between two homes. Hetti-Marie keeps it real and share some things she has learned as a divorced mom (now happily remarried) navigating the challenges and joys of coparenting kids God's way.

Episode 2 is about knowing how and when to pull back so your children can grow and show their independence. If your kids are giving you attitude or hiding in their shell like a turtle to avoid conflict, it could be because of "smothering". Learn how to give them the space to grow, to reframe "distance" as "independence", and to be present and accessible for whenever they need you for money.:)

Episode 1 is about praying the vision God has for our children. It is easy to be frustrated about where they are now, when we don't see change. We need faith to parent and we can pray today for their tomorrow and for who they are becoming.