In this powerful two-part interview, we sit down with Wendy: Dragonfly’s ex-wife, a social worker, domestic violence advocate, and respected member of her community. For eight years, Wendy lived a life with Dragonfly that was built on lies. She was conned into a marriage founded entirely on false pretences, enduring years of emotional, psychological, and physical abuse at the hands of a man she believed she knew.

In Part One, Wendy shares how she first met Dragonfly and how he carefully constructed the persona that drew her in, and she walks us through the slow erosion of trust and safety that followed - and the moments that exposed the truth. We begin comparing our stories and uncovering the strikingly similar tactics he used to manipulate, isolate, and control each of us.

Wendy also bravely revisits one of the darkest points in her life: when Dragonfly’s violence left her hospitalised with 22 stitches after he viciously physically attacked her. It’s a confronting story of survival and truth-telling, but also of strength, integrity, and reclaiming one’s voice.

This episode sheds light on how coercive control operates behind closed doors, even in the lives of educated and capable women, and how abusers use triangulation, charm, and deceit to maintain their power.

A woman who knows Dragonfly offers to go undercover to find out whether he's deep into conning a new victim, or just making up some fictional dates with women. She's confident, curious, and eager to help. But the more she reports back, the murkier things get. By the end, just as things start to spiral, it's Jules' turn to get a message that meant much more than we could have realised.

After the chaotic removal of the Dragonfly from Jules’ premises, we begin reaching out to the others who are caught in his web of lies. Some want to talk. Others disappear. Then we try to warn the woman he’s with now, hoping she’ll see the truth. But some truths only make sense in hindsight.

Our warning is dismissed, and it feels like the story has nowhere left to go. But then it takes a turn we never saw coming.

Dragonfly is a master manipulator who weaves charm, deceit and confusion into his web. We explore the personality traits and tactics he uses to lure others in, examining what drives his behaviour and why his influence is so dangerously captivating.

I'd found my life's big romance. A charming farmer with a heart of gold. Then, almost overnight, the illusion shattered. What I thought was a fairy tale unravelled into something far more twisted, and took me back to someone who I thought would be staying in my past.

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This is a very special update about things that have occurred THIS WEEK in the Dragonfly saga. Events have taken a truly bizarre turn.

Kiki and Jules break down the surreal new developments, unpacking what might have been going through Dragonfly’s mind when he decided to make this move.

After weeks of joking about trying to get listeners on North Stradbroke Island, it looks like we’ve finally done it… just not in the way we expected. Let’s just say, our first Straddie fans might be tuning in from behind a police desk.

In this trailer, we introduce the themes at the heart of the season: the charm of a con artist, the allure of a romance scam, the ache of missed connections, and the hidden cost of believing in someone who was never who they claimed to be.

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