Ready to blow the lid off your pleasure potential?

In this juicy convo, Aimee and certified sex coach Amari Leigh dive deep into the world of orgasms, sexual wellness, and self-empowerment. From the orgasm gap in heterosexual dynamics to the power of self-exploration and communication, they unpack why so many of us are disconnected from pleasure — and how to reclaim it.

You’ll learn:

• The difference between 40 types of orgasms (yes, really)

• Why the orgasm gap still exists — and how to challenge it

• How to communicate your desires with more confidence

• Why your body holds more pleasure than you’ve been taught

Whether you’re looking to expand your orgasmic toolkit or just want to feel more at home in your body, this episode is a must-listen.

Connect with Amari Leigh

https://www.sexcoachingbyamari.com

https://www.sexcoachingbyamari.com/sex-guides-for-everyone/p/types-of-orgasms

https://www.instagram.com/sxcoachingbyamari

https://www.tiktok.com/@sxcoachingbyamari

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Orgasms

11:14 Understanding the Types of Orgasms

15:21 The Pressure of Climaxing

16:57 Distinguishing Orgasm from Ejaculation

18:39 Exploring Lesser-Known Orgasm Types

22:45 Energy and Cervical Orgasms

24:43 Overlapping Orgasms and Their Experiences

26:07 Exploring Factors Affecting Sexual Experience

27:50 The Importance of Play in Sexual Exploration

29:21 Reclaiming Orgasms: A Personal Journey

31:24 Communication: The Key to Sexual Satisfaction

33:38 Understanding the Orgasm Gap

36:09 Prostate Orgasms: Breaking Taboos

38:41 The Role of Lubrication in Pleasure

39:56 Coming to Completion: Orgasmic Preferences

We’re kicking off Anal August with a bold convo on anal sex, female pleasure, and why butt stuff should absolutely be on the brunch menu. 🍑✨

Aimee is joined by Whitaker Cohen, founder of AmorSui, to talk anatomy, aftercare, and how to center your pleasure — with zero shame. Whether you’re new to backdoor play or already a baddie, this one’s for you.

We get into:

Why anal play is about more than penetration

How to center female pleasure in anal sex

Talking about butt stuff with your partner & besties (yes, even at brunch)

Emotional safety, boundaries, and anal prep basics

And so much more!

Connect with Whitaker Cohen

https://loveamorsui.com/

https://loveamorsui.com/collections/all

https://www.instagram.com/loveamorsui/

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Chapters

00:00Introduction to AmorSui and Whitaker Cohen

02:00The Inspiration Behind AmorSui

04:07Breaking the Taboo: Conversations Around Anal Play

10:09Understanding the Stigma of Anal Play

13:23Education and Unlearning Shame

16:18Exploring Pleasure: The Journey of Anal Play

18:46Getting Started with Anal Play

20:27Supporting Partners in Exploration

24:39The Role of Products in Enhancing Pleasure

28:39Creating an Approachable Brand for Anal Play

29:20Cultural Expectations and Women's Pleasure

30:05Empowerment Through Open Conversations

31:57Claiming Anal Pleasure

32:27Inclusivity in Anal Play

33:36Brunch Conversations About Butt Stuff

38:23Myth Busting in Anal Play

42:10The Importance of Aftercare

47:39 Come To Completion AKA Rapid Fire Questions on Anal Play

Before the heat, there has to be safety—and sometimes, pleasure is the pathway.

In this episode, somatic sex coach Meryl Victoria joins Aimee to explore the powerful link between the nervous system and intimacy. From polyvagal theory to embodied arousal, we’re flipping the script on what turns you on.

We dive into:

• How nervous system regulation sets the stage for deeper connection

• Why some bodies shut down—and how to invite them back online

• Using sex as a tool for nervous system regulation

• Somatic practices to shift from freeze to flow

  
  

Whether you’re craving more connection or curious about why you feel “off” in the bedroom, this episode is your roadmap. Because regulation is the real foreplay—and sometimes, pleasure is the medicine.

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Polyvagal Theory

01:00 Understanding the Nervous System States

01:41 The Impact of Trauma on Sexuality

04:20 Exploring Co-Regulation and Connection

06:42 Rewiring the Nervous System for Pleasure

07:41 Navigating Consent and Safety

09:38 Practical Tools for Nervous System Regulation

21:30 Understanding Internal Family Systems (IFS) in Therapy

22:51 Supporting Partners with Trauma Histories

25:12 The Importance of Relationship Check-Ins

29:16 The Role of Aftercare in Intimacy

30:52 Navigating Communication in Relationships

32:40 Exploring Erotic Styles and Nervous System Regulation

37:18 Coming to Completion

Connect with Meryl Victoria

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https://substack.com/@verymeryl

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