🔥 Pleasure in the Pause with Tony-Nominated Broadway Legend Brenda Braxton

What if menopause wasn’t the end of pleasure—but a powerful new beginning?

This week, Aimee is joined by the fierce and fabulous Brenda Braxton—Tony-nominated actress, Broadway royalty, and founder of Pause by BBraxton. They get real about sex after 50, the myths that keep us silent, and how to keep the fire burning even as hormones shift.

From hot flashes to hot nights, Brenda brings humor, heart, and unfiltered truth about embracing your body at every stage.

🎭 Aging doesn’t mean fading. It means rising—with style, swagger, and yes… plenty of orgasms.

✨ Hit play, share with a friend, and don’t forget to follow the show for more unfiltered intimacy realness.

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Intentional intimacy doesn't leave you guessing - it comes with clarity, care, and damn good boundaries. In this episode, Aimee and Dakota unpack what it means to stop settling for crumbs and start owning your yes, your no, and your worth.

If someone can't hold your "no," they don't deserve your "yes."

Part of being healthy? Don't be a d*ck.

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Chapters

00:00 Welcome and Intro to Dakota

00:48 Challenging Societal Norms Around Sex

01:30 Understanding Boundaries and Personal Desires

03:35 The Role of Safety in Sexual Relationships

06:41 Navigating Sexuality and Self-Worth

10:08 Intentional Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

13:50 The Journey of a Lover Girl

19:23 Embracing Queer Joy and Community

21:19 Creativity in Pleasure and Relationships

25:43 Be Gentle with You 28:50 Coming to Completion - Just To Be Queer

31:53 Come Again, Come Again, Come Again

Why does romance always get the spotlight—and everyone else becomes the understudy?

In this spicy episode, I sit down with the brilliant Adam Fitzgerald to take a sledgehammer to relationship hierarchy—that cultural obsession with putting your romantic partner above all else. We unpack how this model often leads to co-dependency, unrealistic expectations, and emotional burnout.

But here’s the truth: healthy relationships don’t happen in isolation. They need community—the friendships, chosen family, and support systems that queer folks have long known are essential to thriving love and intimacy.

Adam brings a powerful lens to how queer relationships challenge the default and lean into non-hierarchical structures that center freedom, autonomy, and deep connection across many forms.

This one’s for anyone ready to build love that’s grounded, expansive, and rooted in more than just one person.

Because love without the ladder?That’s where the good stuff lives.

Chapters

00:00Happy Pride Month and Intro

02:53Understanding Relationship Hierarchy

07:10Exploring Codependency

10:20The Impact of Codependency on Relationships

12:16Correlation Between Relationship Hierarchy and Codependency

12:46Navigating Loneliness in Relationships

14:12The Importance of Maintaining Individuality

15:29Compassion and Self-Discovery

17:27Understanding Codependency

18:08Queerness and Relationship Structures

21:00Breaking Down Relationship Hierarchies

23:17Exploring Non-Traditional Relationships

27:41The Role of Community in Healthy Relationships

30:52Understanding Healing and Triggers

32:34Navigating Codependency and Interdependence

35:05Building Community Beyond Relationships

39:29Self-Reflection in Relationship Dynamics

40:16Exploring Alternative Relationship Structures

46:45Embracing Queer Joy

47:41Navigating New Queerness

48:20Defining Queer Identity

50:02Coming to Completion AKA Just So We're Queer

52:00Come Again, Come Again, Come Again

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Apparently, saying "clit" is more dangerous than spreading hate online - because when it comes to sex, the internet loses its damn mind. In this episode, I'm joined by Mandy Salley, COO of the Woodhull Freedom Foundation, to call out the hypocrisy, the censorship, and the very real fight for our right to talk about sex without getting digitally gagged.

We're breaking down shadowbans, community guidelines that aren't so "community-friendly," and why sexual freedom is free speech. This convo? It's bold, unflitered, and absolutely necessary.

Grab your headphones, your sass, and your side-eye - because we're not here to whisper.

Chapters

00:00 Episode Intro - Banned, Blocked, But Not Broken

02:36 Understanding the Woodhull Freedom Foundation

04:45 Defining Sexual Freedom

06:40 Censorship and Its Impact on Sexual Freedom

10:31 Current Trends in Censorship

15:02 The Pendulum of Progress in Sexual Freedom

17:38 Who is Most Affected by Censorship?

21:49 The Ripple Effect of Censorship

23:24 Understanding Sexual Freedom

24:54 The Censorship Series

28:24 Engaging with Woodhull Freedom Foundation

32:12 Becoming an Advocate

35:00 International Perspectives on Sexual Freedom

36:30 Masturbation and Sexual Freedom

37:28 Celebrating Masturbation May

41:49 Coming to Completion

46:21 Come Again, and Again, and Again

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Is your sex life feeling a little… dry? You’re not alone—and it’s time to change that. In this candid and unapologetically real episode, intimacy coach Aimee sits down with Orla Maguire, founder of Lubify, to talk about why personal lubricant is a game-changer for everyone.

From increasing pleasure and reducing discomfort to enhancing intimacy and self-connection, we cover it all: how to choose the right lube for sex, why lube isn’t just for “older people” or “issues,” and how adding a little (or a lot) of slip can completely transform your solo or partnered play.

Expect myth-busting, shame-shedding, and plenty of juicy conversation about drips, squirts, and everything in between.If you’ve ever thought lube was optional, think again.

Let’s make it wetter, better, and way more fun.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Orla McGuire and Lubify

02:26 From Mascara Mogul to Lube Luminary

04:24 The Philosophy Behind Lubify

06:40 Understanding Different Types of Lubes

09:05 The Importance of Scent in Lubes

11:16 Choosing the Right Lube for You

13:24 The Role of Lube in Sexual Health

15:20 Demystifying Lube and Pleasure

17:00 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Pleasure

19:39 Communication and Intimacy

21:49 Future of Lubify and Upcoming Products

30:47 Exploring Pleasure and Intimacy

32:36 The Role of Lubrication in Self-Pleasure

33:03 Coming to Completion

35:16 Redefining Pleasure Beyond Sexuality

36:24 Communication and Overcoming Shame

38:42 The Importance of Conversations

39:40 Come Again, Come Again, and Come Again

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What does it mean to make an impact - on bodies systems, and culture?

In this episode, Aimee is joined by the brilliant and bold Steph Zapata, a sexual health educator, anti-colonial organizer, and the visionary behind SLAM, a groundbreaking conference centering sex, liberation, and movement work.

We dive into the layered world of impact play - from the physical sensations to the emotional and political power of consensual exchange. Steph shared how her work in sexuality and social justice intertwines, how pleasure can be radical, and why healing doesn't have to be soft to be sacred.

Whether you're in to the sting of the paddle or the spark of revolution - this conversation will leave a mark.

A must-listen for kink lovers, educators, and change makers. From sensation to systems change, this episode hits hard - in the best way.

Episode Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Transformative Sex Education03:06 Radically Intentional Sexuality Education05:13 The Journey into Sexuality Education07:27 Exploring Kink and Dom/Sub Dynamics09:46 Reframing Shame and Embracing Play12:19 Understanding Impact Play14:34 Communication and Consent in Impact Play16:58 Instruments of Impact Play19:24 Safety and Considerations in Impact Play21:41 Choosing Kink Partners24:44 Exploring Play Parties and Safety25:52 The Birth of SLAM: A New Movement28:04 Anti-colonial Sex Education31:38 Reimagining Pleasure and Sexual Liberation34:20 The Upcoming SLAM Conference38:23 Coming to Completion43:48 Closing Thoughts on Pleasure and Communication46:13 Come Again, and Again, and Again

Connect with Steph

https://www.instagram.com/risewsteph

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Explore the SLAM Conference

https://www.stephaniespeakshere.com/theslamcon

https://www.stephaniespeakshere.com/event-details/s-l-a-m-presents-sex-ed-vs-project-2025

Grab Tickets toThe Pleasure Lab: Where Women Explore and Elevate Desire (May 17th, NYC)

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Sexual shame loves to lurk in the dark - but we're turning on the lights. In this honest and heart-opening conversation, I'm joined by the brilliant Rebecca Giguere to talk about why shame around sex runs so deep, how it shapes our lives, and what it really takes to break free. Expect real talk, a few laughs, and a whole lot of empowerment as we tackle the myths and messages that no longer serve us. It's time to rewrite the story -and it starts here.

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Find the Yes, No, Maybe list here: 🫦

https://sexwithemily.com/yes-no-maybe-the-list-every-relationship-needs