Épisodes

  • Rising Together: Investing in the Next Generation of AAPI Girls and Women
    Nov 3 2025

    Episode Summary

    Dr. Lindsay Kwock Hu sits down with ASPIRE (Asian SistersParticipating in Reaching Excellence) leaders Sophia Lai (Board Chair) and Michelle Chen (former Program Manager, Youth Leadership Program) to explore what it takes to nurture the next generation of AAPI girls and women.

    They discuss the cultural and structural challenges AAPI girls face, why identity-rooted mentorship matters, and how ASPIRE’s programs turn mentees into mentors—creatinga self-sustaining pipeline of leadership, sisterhood, and belonging. Listeners gain insight into how they get involved and support this vital initiative.

    Guests

    • Sophia Lai, Board Chair - Former director of the 2019 Asian American Women in Leadership Conference; longtime volunteer and builder of mentorship ecosystems
    • Michelle Chen, (former) Youth Leadership Program Manager - Led cohorts, cultivated safe spaces, and watched mentees return as mentors and conference volunteers


    About ASPIRE

    ASPIRE empowers Asian American girls and women through identity development, mentorship, and education. Programs include the Youth Leadership Program (YLP), professional mentorship tracks, and community-based initiatives. Alumni frequently return as mentors, creating a tiered, intergenerational network that compounds impact.

    Episode Guide00:00 Introduction and Personal Journey00:34 Welcoming ASPIRE Leaders + Leadership Pathways07:16 Challenges Faced by AAPI Women16:27 Importance of Mentorship20:06 ASPIRE's Unique Programs22:06 Diverse Experiences in ASPIRE22:22 A Success Story: From Student to Mentor25:09 The Impact of ASPIRE's Mentorship28:00 How to Get Involved with ASPIRE29:29 Qualities of an Ideal Mentor32:30 Future Plans for ASPIRE33:19 Personal Reflections on Mentorship36:51 Rapid Fire Questions

    Connect with ASPIRE

    Website: www.girlsaspire.org

    Email: mentorship@girlsaspire.org

    IG: @girlsaspire


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    40 min
  • Beyond the Numbers: Rethinking Math for AAPI Learners
    Oct 28 2025

    About the Episode:

    What does a truly rich math classroom look like and sound like?


    Dr. Theodore Sagoon—professor, researcher, and teachereducator at UCLA—joins us to dismantle the “natural math genius” myth and paint a picture of culturally responsive math instruction where students’ identities, languages, and thinking are at the center.


    In this episode, we discuss:

    • How to spot a healthy, challenging math classroom: daily check-ins, multiple ways to participate, and tasks that value reasoning over rote speed.
    • The real harm of timed tests and tracking - and how they shape fixed beliefs about "being smart".
    • culturally responsive teaching in math: swapping textbook contexts for ones that reflect students' lives, languages, and communities.
    • Productive struggle as a life skill: how to help kids grapple, reflect, and collaborate instead of rushing to the answer.
    • Parent toolkits: questions to ask at home and at school to encourage discourse and understand what's happening in class.
    • Teacher-Family Partnerships: building trust and dialogue without demonizing teachers who are already carrying a heavy load.

    Episode Breakdown:

    00:12 Guest Introduction: Dr. Theodore Sagun

    04:18 Theodore's Upbringing and Early Math Experiences

    08:05 Messages About Math Success and Intelligence

    12:12 Culturally Responsive Math Instruction

    14:15 Challenges with Standardized Testing andCurriculum

    22:01 The Model Minority Myth

    25:41 Defining a Culturally Responsive Math Classroom

    29:35 Rethinking Math Instruction: Humanizing theClassroom

    30:16 Engaging Students in Diverse Learning Experiences

    32:03 The Role of Teachers in a Responsive MathClassroom

    36:53 The Concept of Productive Struggle in Math

    40:59 Encouraging Productive Struggle at Home

    47:47 Building Relationships with Teachers for BetterMath Learning

    56:12 Final Thoughts and Upcoming Projects

    About Dr. Sagun:

     Dr. Theodore Sagun is a professor, researcher, and teacher educator at UCLA where he has worked with countless pre-service teachers in the teacher education program.


    He is the co-author of Equity Moves to Support MultilingualLearners in Mathematics and Science, Grades K-8. He is a former high school mathematics teacher and Associate Director of the UCLA Mathematics Project and has trained countless in-service and pre-service teachers to center student thinking in math and culturally relevant practices.


    At the California state level, Theodore has twice been appointed to California's Mathematics Curriculum Framework and Evaluation Criteria Committee, helping to shape the direction of math education for millions of students across the state of California.


    How to connect with Dr. Sagun:

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/theodore-sagun-55b97518/


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    58 min
  • Second Spring: Reclaiming Menopause and Perimenopause
    Oct 13 2025

    Episode Summary

    What if menopause isn’t an ending—but a second beginning?


    In this powerful conversation, Dr. Tamsin Lee guides us through the foundational principles of East Asian Medicine, showing how concepts like yin and yang can transform the way we experience midlife, aging, and womanhood.


    We talk about how Western medicine tries to ‘fix’ menopause, while East Asian Medicine sees it as a natural evolution—an opportunity for recalibration, reflection, and growth. From decolonizing our beliefs about aging to practical daily rituals that align with the seasons, this episode is both grounding and deeply liberating.


    Tamsin also reminds us that rest and rejuvenation are not the same—and that true healing starts when we listen to our own body’s messages instead of chasing external prescriptions.


    Whether you’re entering perimenopause, post-menopause, or simply navigating midlife transformation, this conversation will leave you with language, tools, and hope.


    Episode Outline

    02:00

    Yin and yang explained as dynamic, interdependent forces

    08:00

    From paralysis to acupuncture to rediscovering her calling

    16:00

    How menopause is pathologized in the West and honored in the East

    24:00

    Seeing aging, race, class, and capitalism as interconnected

    32:00

    Menopause as renewal, transformation, and creative power

    40:00

    Feeling sadness as a sacred step toward compassion

    48:00

    Learning to read your body’s signals; advocating for yourself

    55:00

    Breathing meditation, sensory awakening, and daily awareness

    1:03:00

    Aligning life rhythms with autumn and winter energies

    1:11:00

    What actually restores you vs. what simply stops you

    1:18:00

    Facing fear and rediscovering power in community

    1:25:00

    Practicing kindness to self; remembering the blood holds memory

    1:32:00

    Self-trust, cultural connection, and choosing curiosity over fear

    About Dr. Tamsin Lee

    Dr. Tamsin Lee is a Daoist metaphysical expert with over a decade of experience as an East Asian medicine doctor, public health researcher, and teaching artist. As the founder of Elemental Archetypes, she helps people reclaim ancestral wisdom through East Asian metaphysics, Daoist healing, and embodied ritual. On a weekly basis, she delivers hope and wisdom to her over 16,000 social media followers on how to lean into perimenopause and menopause with grace, power, and kindness.

    Connect with Dr. Tamsin Lee

    IG and Tiktok: @drtamsinlee


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    Disclaimer:

    Courage Class with Dr. Lindsay Kwock Hu and content posted by Dr. Lindsay Kwock Hu is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.

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    56 min
  • Rest is Not the Opposite of Ambition: Lessons from a 6-month Sabbatical
    Oct 7 2025

    About the Episode:

    In this deeply personal episode, Lindsay sits down with her husband Mike to talk about something that’s often overlooked in ambitious careers: rest.


    Mike shares his journey from UCLA to management consulting, to London Business School, and eventually to a leadership role in real estate private equity—before making the courageous decision to step away for a six-month sabbatical.


    Together, they explore how cultural expectations, family responsibilities, and relentless work habits shaped his views on success—and why choosing to pause became one ofthe bravest decisions of his life.


    What You’ll Learn in this Episode:

    · Why high achievers struggle with the idea of rest—and why it’s not a lack of ambition.

    · How the regret minimization framework (from Jeff Bezos) helped Mike decide to take a sabbatical.

    · The cultural influences (Asian, Western, corporate) that make rest feel like weakness—and how to reframe it.

    · What surprised Mike most about stepping away from work for the first time in decades.

    · Why redefining success means balancing ambition with family, health, and joy.


    Episode Breakdown

    01:26 Introducing Mike's Sabbatical

    02:32 Mike's Career Journey

    06:11 Balancing Work and Family

    08:26 The Decision to Take a Sabbatical

    11:21 Cultural Expectations and Work Ethic

    17:08 Reflections on the Sabbatical

    39:47 Advice for Young Parents

    43:15 Final Thoughts and Gratitude

    Connect with Mike Hu

    IG: @mikehu_bruin


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    Courage Class with Dr. Lindsay Kwock Hu and content posted by Dr. Lindsay Kwock Hu is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website isat the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of aphysician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.


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    49 min
  • Living the Life They Didn't Choose For You - Creativity, Rest, and Partnership as Asian Americans
    Sep 29 2025

    Episode Summary:
    What if the life your parents imagined for you isn’t the life you want for yourself?


    In this episode of Courage Class, Lindsay is joined by her husband Mike and their close friends Alice Teng (Executive Director of Asia Week New York, independent curator) and Jon Eng (banking professional turned actor - catch him on episodes of Grey's Anatomy, Seal Team, 911 to name a few). Together, Alice and Jon share their journey of leaving “safe” careers to pursue creativity, authenticity, and rest—while navigating cultural expectations and building a supportive marriage.


    This conversation is for anyone who has ever felt torn between honoring their family’s sacrifices and pursuing their ownpath, and for couples who are considering what it looks like to live boldly, together.


    Episode Breakdown:

    00:00 Introduction: Following Others' Dreams

    00:38 Meet the Guests: Alice and Jon's Bold Choices

    01:34 Alice's Journey: From Pre-Med to Art

    03:38 Jon's Path: From Business to Acting

    05:58 Family Reactions and Inner Courage

    09:12 Navigating Judgment and Building Community

    21:49 Reflections on Being an Only Child

    23:37 Networking and Building Relationships

    25:24 Taking a Sabbatical for Acting

    28:03 Parental Expectations and Career Choices

    35:58 Advice for Young Couples and Individuals


    How to connect with Jon, Alice and Mike

    IG Alice: @lalaland

    IG Jon: @jonnyfornia

    IG Mike: @mikehu_bruin


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    43 min
  • Beyond the Box: Redefining Success as an Asian American
    Sep 22 2025

    In this episode, Lindsay sits down with Kyle Denman—Executive Director of Arts Bridging the Gap, award-winning fashion designer, and lifelong advocate for equity through creativity.


    Kyle shares his journey from being adopted from South Korea into a Midwest family, to becoming youth mayor of Cincinnati, to leading a nonprofit that empowers thousands of young people in Los Angeles through the arts.


    They talk about the challenges of being “othered,” the stereotypes Asian Americans often face, and how Kyle’s experiences in politics, education, and art have shaped his leadership style. Most importantly, Kyle reveals what it means to lead with love in a world that often rewards the opposite.


    If you’ve ever felt confined by other people’s expectations or questioned whether your voice matters, Kyle’s story will inspire you to create your own possibilities—and to help others do the same.


    Episode Outline

    00:00 – Introduction: Breaking Out of the Box
    Why Kyle represents possibility beyond traditional expectations.


    02:11 – Adoption, Identity, and Growing Up Different
    Kyle’s story of being adopted from Korea and navigating life in the Midwest without role models who looked like him.


    07:28 – The Boxes People Put Us In
    Stereotypes about Asian Americans and how Kyle learned he didn’t fit the “doctor, lawyer, engineer” mold.


    11:56 – Finding His Voice Through Politics
    From youth mayor of Cincinnati to national policy work—how Kyle defied assumptions of weakness.


    18:34 – Politics Meets Fashion
    Why political science and fashion design are more connected than you think.


    25:47 – Creating Safe Spaces to Speak
    Kyle’s early advocacy and how it shaped his belief in co-creating safe environments for young voices.


    32:15 – Arts Bridging the Gap
    Kyle’s work leading ABG to uplift thousands of young people in Los Angeles through visual, performing, and healing arts.


    44:02 – Expanding the Creative Economy
    Why ABG pays artists more than industry standards and how representation changes what young people believe is possible.


    53:40 – Leadership with Love
    Kyle’s philosophy of leading with love, protecting his team, and breaking traditional molds of leadership.


    1:04:28 – Shrinking to Expand
    Kyle’s reflections on times he felt he had to shrink—and how being “soft” can also be a form of strength.


    1:12:00 – Overcoming Underestimation
    What it’s like to be a young, gay, Asian leader in the nonprofit space—and how Kyle deals with being underestimated.


    1:20:45 – Closing Reflections
    How Kyle stays grounded in love, and what listeners can take away about finding their own voice.


    How to connect with Kyle Denman:

    www.kyledenman.com

    @thekyledenman


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    41 min
  • Your Pain is Valid: Breaking Free from Stereotypes of Asian Women
    Sep 16 2025
    Warning: This episode discusses sexual violence and trauma and may be upsetting or triggering. It is not suitable for children. Please take care of yourself and pause if you need to.In this powerful conversation Danielle Espinosa — therapist, PhD student, published scholar, and survivor — unpacks how historical colonialism and contemporary racialized sexual stereotypes make AAPI women more vulnerable to sexualviolence, why silence persists in our communities, and concrete steps families and friends can take to prevent harm and support survivors. The episode blends trauma-informed research, clinical insight, and practical parenting strategies aimed at disrupting intergenerational patterns of shame.Chapter Outline 00:00 Opening question & validationDanielle validates pain and reminds survivors that their trauma is never their fault.01:00 Personal context & research introLindsay invites Danielle to introduce her research focus and key concepts.03:00 Colonialism as a root of racialized sexual violenceDanielle traces how militarized prostitution and colonial conquest created stereotypes (Lotus Blossom, Dragon Lady, etc.) that objectify Asian women.06:00 How stereotypes create vulnerability & microaggressionsDiscussion of how fetishization and assumptions of consent show up in pornography, workplace comments, and everyday microaggressions.09:00 Culture of shame and why silence enduresExplores shame-based cultural dynamics, victim-blaming, and why sexual violence becomes hidden or normalized in family structures.12:00 Denial, protection of assailants, and intergenerational traumaDanielle and the host discuss denial, protecting perpetrators within families, and how trauma is passed across generations as survival tactics.15:00 Parenting: teaching bodily autonomy and opening the conversationPractical, immediately actionable advice for parents: normalize saying “no,” teach bodily autonomy, and start imperfect conversations early.19:00 Culturally attuned, trauma-informed care & community healingWhy Western individual-focused therapy can fall short and how collective, community-based approaches (support groups, shared identity therapists) aid healing.22:00 How friends & family can support survivors right nowConcrete actions listeners can take: reassure survivors it’s not their fault, offer practical help (meals, meds, errands), and remove blame-laden questions.26:00 Broader systems: patriarchy, racial hegemony & sexual violenceDanielle zooms out to name the systemic forces (colonialism, patriarchy, racial entitlement) that sustain cycles of violence and where to focus change.29:00 Hope, resilience & ongoing workWhat gives Danielle hope: clients breaking cycles, generational change, and research into internalized racialized sexism — plus current projects.33:00 Closing & where to find DanielleContact and project info; invitation to plug into community resources and continue the conversation.How to connect with Danielle Espinosa, LMFT- Website: www.danielletherapy.com- Instagram: @danielletherapy- Free peer wellness circle - Asian Woemn/Femme Peer Wellness through Asian Mental Health ProjectConnect with Courage Class on TikTok,Instagram, YouTube:@courageclasspod@drlindsaykwockhu⁠www.drlindsaykwockhu.com/podcast⁠Disclaimer: Courage Class with Dr. Lindsay Kwock Hu and content posted by Dr. Lindsay Kwock Hu is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website isat the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.
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    34 min
  • Breaking the Cycle: Redefining Parenting for Ourselves and Our Kids with Dr. Laura Berssenbrugge
    Sep 9 2025
    About the EpisodeIn this episode of Courage Class, Lindsay speaks with Dr. Laura Berssenbrugge, a licensed clinical psychologist and Co-Founder of The Modern Asian Parent (MAP). Dr. Berssenbrugge shares her journey towards the founding of MAP, a movement and community aimed at merging cultural roots with modern parenting practices. Together, they discuss the importance of creating real sustainable change in parenting (hint: it starts with us), the strengths and challenges of traditional Asian values, and the significance of emotional resilience and validation in parenting. They also explore methods for addressing intergenerational trauma and the vital role of repair in family relationships. Gain invaluable insights on how to parent with a blend of Asian and Western approaches, honoring both cultural heritage and modern values.Episode Breakdown:00:34 Meet Dr. Laura Berssenbrugge02:10 Founding the Modern Asian Parent06:50 Parenting Values and Challenges09:26 Resilience and Well-Balanced Parenting22:45 The Importance of Self-Change in Parenting25:03 Understanding and Healing Intergenerational Trauma34:01 The Role of Apologies and Repair in Parenting41:00 Connecting with The Modern Asian ParentAbout Dr. Laura BerssenbruggeDr. Laura Berssenbrugge is a Hawaii- and New York-based child and adolescent clinical psychologist in private practice and a former middle school teacher. She works with individuals across the lifespan and specializes in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), and evidence-based treatments for anxiety-related disorders (including Selective Mutism/ SM), mood disorders, OCD, PTSD, social skill and communication issues, and more. She is the creator of ‘Dr. Laura B’s Release, Regulate, & Relax Aromatherapy Inhaler Set,’ a DBT-inspired stress management tool designed to reduce physical and emotional stress at different emotional intensity levels. And the author of several workbooks, such as: "Beyond the Blush: A CBT Approach to Overcoming Social Anxiety.”Connect with Dr. Laura:https://www.drlaurab.com/IG: @drlaurabtherapyAbout The Modern Asian ParentThe Modern Asian Parent (MAP) believes in the power of intergenerational healing—honoring cultural roots while breaking harmful cycles to build healthier, more connected families for the future. Founded by two Asian American psychologists, MAP is a movement for parents of all backgrounds who want to raise emotionally healthy, resilient kids in cultures of pressure, perfectionism, and sacrifice.Redefine parenting in a way that honors our values and culture, while embracing the future. Together, they're creating a world where every child—and parent—feels supported, understood, and empowered to succeed.www.themodernasianparent.comIG: @themodernasianparentConnect with Courage Class on TikTok, Instagram, YouTube:@courageclasspod@drlindsaykwockhuwww.drlindsaykwockhu.com/podcastSign up for Courage Class Notes, a weekly newsletter:https://dr-lindsay-kwock-hu.kit.com/980fac101aMusic Credit: DayNigthMorning from Pixabayinvitation-no-copyright-music-388387Disclaimer: Courage Class with Dr. Lindsay Kwock Hu and content posted by Dr. Lindsay Kwock Hu is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website isat the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of aphysician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.
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    46 min