In this episode, Stephanie explains why men with full lives — hobbies, mates, passions, routines — are consistently more attractive and more successful in dating.
Not because it’s a “tactic”… but because it shows emotional balance, confidence, and independence.

You’ll learn:
• Why hobbies make you more magnetic (and less anxious)
• How friendships protect you from over-investing too early
• Why a woman shouldn’t be your only source of connection
• How a full life instantly changes the vibe of your profile and your dates
• What happens when men have no hobbies — and why it’s a major red flag
• How to build a life that naturally attracts the right people

If you’ve ever felt flat, stuck, or overly focused on dating, this episode will help you build a life that supports you — and makes you far more compelling to the women you meet.

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In this extended episode, Stephanie breaks down one of the most common dating mistakes men make: confusing banter with negging.
Real banter builds connection.
Negging chips away at confidence — and guarantees no second date.

You’ll hear:
• What genuine, playful banter actually sounds like
• Why negging always comes from insecurity (never strength)
• A real story that shows exactly how negging plays out in the wild
• The simple test to know which one you’re doing
• Better ways to flirt when you’re nervous
• Plus: the five “banter” lines men use that kill attraction instantly

If you want to communicate confidently, make women feel safe, and give yourself the best chance at a great first date — this one’s essential listening.

Links and Resources: The mobile app won't let you pop straight over to the website for all the tea and biscuits so here's the link - ⁠https://sites.google.com/view/cupids-consultant/home⁠

Grab your FREE guide: ⁠Cupid's Checklist⁠

Got a match and not sure what to say? Download ⁠Cupid’s Conversation Starter Kit⁠ here

Follow me on Instagram → ⁠www.instagram.com/cupids.consultant⁠

Love what you’re hearing? If this episode helped youupgrade your profile so you get the matches you deserve, you can show some love and every ‘date’ helps keep the conversation flowing! You can buy me a coffee, lunch, or even dinner here: ⁠https://ko-fi.com/cupidsconsultant⁠

Music: “Take It Easy” by Luke Bergs | ⁠https://www.lukebergsmusic.com⁠

Free To Use | ⁠https://freetouse.com/music⁠

Music promoted by ⁠https://www.free-stock-music.com⁠

Enjoyed this episode? Please subscribe, rate, and review the podcast, and share it with a friend who wants to level up his dating game!

If you keep messaging a woman for days, weeks, or even months without ever meeting… you’re not building a connection — you’re being her penpal.
In this episode, Stephanie breaks down why endless texting kills momentum, how to move things into the real world, and the signs she’s slipping into “connection-placeholder” territory.
You’ll learn how to shift from chatting to dating, how to set gentle but clear expectations, and how to stop investing in women who never follow through.
If you’re stuck in the texting loop, this is your circuit breaker.

Links and Resources: The mobile app won't letyou pop straight over to the website for all the tea and biscuits so here's the link - ⁠https://sites.google.com/view/cupids-consultant/home⁠

Grab your FREE guide: ⁠Cupid's Checklist⁠

Got a match and not sure what to say? Download ⁠Cupid’s Conversation Starter Kit⁠ here

Follow me on Instagram → ⁠www.instagram.com/cupids.consultant⁠

Love what you’re hearing? If this episode helped youupgrade your profile so you get the matches you deserve, you can show some love and every ‘date’ helps keep the conversation flowing! You can buy me a coffee, lunch, or even dinner here: ⁠https://ko-fi.com/cupidsconsultant⁠

Music: “Take It Easy” by Luke Bergs | ⁠https://www.lukebergsmusic.com⁠

Free To Use | ⁠https://freetouse.com/music⁠

Music promoted by ⁠https://www.free-stock-music.com⁠

Enjoyed this episode? Please subscribe, rate, and review the podcast, and share it with a friend who wants to level up his dating game!