In this episode, Stephanie explains why men with full lives — hobbies, mates, passions, routines — are consistently more attractive and more successful in dating.
Not because it’s a “tactic”… but because it shows emotional balance, confidence, and independence.

You’ll learn:
• Why hobbies make you more magnetic (and less anxious)
• How friendships protect you from over-investing too early
• Why a woman shouldn’t be your only source of connection
• How a full life instantly changes the vibe of your profile and your dates
• What happens when men have no hobbies — and why it’s a major red flag
• How to build a life that naturally attracts the right people

If you’ve ever felt flat, stuck, or overly focused on dating, this episode will help you build a life that supports you — and makes you far more compelling to the women you meet.

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In this extended episode, Stephanie breaks down one of the most common dating mistakes men make: confusing banter with negging.
Real banter builds connection.
Negging chips away at confidence — and guarantees no second date.

You’ll hear:
• What genuine, playful banter actually sounds like
• Why negging always comes from insecurity (never strength)
• A real story that shows exactly how negging plays out in the wild
• The simple test to know which one you’re doing
• Better ways to flirt when you’re nervous
• Plus: the five “banter” lines men use that kill attraction instantly

If you want to communicate confidently, make women feel safe, and give yourself the best chance at a great first date — this one’s essential listening.

Links and Resources: The mobile app won't let you pop straight over to the website for all the tea and biscuits so here's the link - ⁠https://sites.google.com/view/cupids-consultant/home⁠

Grab your FREE guide: ⁠Cupid's Checklist⁠

Got a match and not sure what to say? Download ⁠Cupid’s Conversation Starter Kit⁠ here

Follow me on Instagram → ⁠www.instagram.com/cupids.consultant⁠

Love what you’re hearing? If this episode helped youupgrade your profile so you get the matches you deserve, you can show some love and every ‘date’ helps keep the conversation flowing! You can buy me a coffee, lunch, or even dinner here: ⁠https://ko-fi.com/cupidsconsultant⁠

Music: “Take It Easy” by Luke Bergs | ⁠https://www.lukebergsmusic.com⁠

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If you keep messaging a woman for days, weeks, or even months without ever meeting… you’re not building a connection — you’re being her penpal.
In this episode, Stephanie breaks down why endless texting kills momentum, how to move things into the real world, and the signs she’s slipping into “connection-placeholder” territory.
You’ll learn how to shift from chatting to dating, how to set gentle but clear expectations, and how to stop investing in women who never follow through.
If you’re stuck in the texting loop, this is your circuit breaker.

Links and Resources: The mobile app won't letyou pop straight over to the website for all the tea and biscuits so here's the link - ⁠https://sites.google.com/view/cupids-consultant/home⁠

Grab your FREE guide: ⁠Cupid's Checklist⁠

Got a match and not sure what to say? Download ⁠Cupid’s Conversation Starter Kit⁠ here

Follow me on Instagram → ⁠www.instagram.com/cupids.consultant⁠

Love what you’re hearing? If this episode helped youupgrade your profile so you get the matches you deserve, you can show some love and every ‘date’ helps keep the conversation flowing! You can buy me a coffee, lunch, or even dinner here: ⁠https://ko-fi.com/cupidsconsultant⁠

Music: “Take It Easy” by Luke Bergs | ⁠https://www.lukebergsmusic.com⁠

Free To Use | ⁠https://freetouse.com/music⁠

Music promoted by ⁠https://www.free-stock-music.com⁠

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In this Straight from Cupid’s Quiver episode, Stephanie chats with a guest who’s still in the thick of modern dating — navigating apps, ghosting, and the search for something real. Together they unpack the highs, the heartbreaks, and the humour that come with still looking for love, proving that every experience brings you closer to finding the right match.

Links and Resources: The mobile app won't let you pop straight over to the website for all the tea and biscuits so here's the link - ⁠https://sites.google.com/view/cupids-consultant/home⁠

Grab your FREE guide: ⁠Cupid's Checklist⁠

Got a match and not sure what to say? Download ⁠Cupid’s Conversation Starter Kit⁠ here

Follow me on Instagram → ⁠www.instagram.com/cupids.consultant⁠

Love what you’re hearing? If this episode helped you upgrade your profile so you get the matches you deserve, you can show some love and every ‘date’ helps keep the conversation flowing! You can buy me a coffee, lunch, or even dinner here: ⁠https://ko-fi.com/cupidsconsultant⁠

Music: “Take It Easy” by Luke Bergs | ⁠https://www.lukebergsmusic.com⁠

Free To Use | ⁠https://freetouse.com/music⁠

Music promoted by ⁠https://www.free-stock-music.com⁠

Enjoyed this episode? Please subscribe, rate, and review the podcast, and share it with a friend who wants to level up his dating game!

Think a little white lie in your dating bio won’t hurt? Think again. In this episode of Cupid’s Playbook for Men, Stephanie unpacks why stretching the truth about your age, height, or photos always backfires. Learn how honesty builds confidence, earns trust, and actually makes you more attractive — because connection only happens when both people show up as their real selves.

Links and Resources: The mobile app won't let you pop straight over to the website for all the tea and biscuits so here's the link - ⁠https://sites.google.com/view/cupids-consultant/home⁠

Grab your FREE guide: ⁠Cupid's Checklist⁠

Got a match and not sure what to say? Download ⁠Cupid’s Conversation Starter Kit⁠ here

Follow me on Instagram → ⁠www.instagram.com/cupids.consultant⁠

Love what you’re hearing? If this episode helped you upgrade your profile so you get the matches you deserve, you can show some love and every ‘date’ helps keep the conversation flowing! You can buy me a coffee, lunch, or even dinner here: ⁠https://ko-fi.com/cupidsconsultant⁠

Music: “Take It Easy” by Luke Bergs | ⁠https://www.lukebergsmusic.com⁠

Free To Use | ⁠https://freetouse.com/music⁠

Music promoted by ⁠https://www.free-stock-music.com⁠

Enjoyed this episode? Please subscribe, rate, and review the podcast, and share it with a friend who wants to level up his dating game!

Feeling tired of swiping, messaging, and meeting without real connection? You might be dealing with dating burnout. In this episode of Cupid’s Playbook for Men, Stephanie unpacks why burnout happens, how to spot the signs early, and the simple mindset shifts that bring back curiosity and confidence. Learn how to reset your energy, set better boundaries, and start enjoying dating again — without losing hope or heart.

Links and Resources: The mobile app won't let you pop straight over to the website for all the tea and biscuits so here's the link - ⁠https://sites.google.com/view/cupids-consultant/home⁠

Grab your FREE guide: ⁠Cupid's Checklist⁠

Got a match and not sure what to say? Download ⁠Cupid’s Conversation Starter Kit⁠ here

Follow me on Instagram → ⁠www.instagram.com/cupids.consultant⁠

Love what you’re hearing? If this episode helped you upgrade your profile so you get the matches you deserve, you can show some love and every ‘date’ helps keep the conversation flowing! You can buy me a coffee, lunch, or even dinner here: ⁠https://ko-fi.com/cupidsconsultant⁠

Music: “Take It Easy” by Luke Bergs | ⁠https://www.lukebergsmusic.com⁠

Free To Use | ⁠https://freetouse.com/music⁠

Music promoted by ⁠https://www.free-stock-music.com⁠

Enjoyed this episode? Please subscribe, rate, and review the podcast, and share it with a friend who wants to level up his dating game!

Dinner dates are fine… but they can also feel like job interviews. In this episode of Cupid’s Playbook for Men, Stephanie explains why activity-based first dates create real connection. From markets to mini golf, walks to wildlife parks, discover how shared experiences make conversation flow, take the pressure off, and build chemistry that lasts beyond date one.

Links and Resources: The mobile app won't let you pop straight over to the website for all the tea and biscuits so here's the link - ⁠https://sites.google.com/view/cupids-consultant/home⁠

Grab your FREE guide: ⁠Cupid's Checklist⁠

Got a match and not sure what to say? Download ⁠Cupid’s Conversation Starter Kit⁠ here

Follow me on Instagram → ⁠www.instagram.com/cupids.consultant⁠

Love what you’re hearing? If this episode helped you upgrade your profile so you get the matches you deserve, you can show some love and every ‘date’ helps keep the conversation flowing! You can buy me a coffee, lunch, or even dinner here: ⁠https://ko-fi.com/cupidsconsultant⁠

Music: “Take It Easy” by Luke Bergs | ⁠https://www.lukebergsmusic.com⁠

Free To Use | ⁠https://freetouse.com/music⁠

Music promoted by ⁠https://www.free-stock-music.com⁠

Enjoyed this episode? Please subscribe, rate, and review the podcast, and share it with a friend who wants to level up his dating game!

Thinking about skipping straight to the first date? Hold up. In this episode of Cupid’s Playbook for Men, Stephanie shares why a short video date is the perfect warm-up before meeting in person. Discover how it eases nerves, saves time, and helps you spot real chemistry — all without leaving your couch.

Links and Resources: The mobile app won't let you pop straight over to the website for all the tea and biscuits so here's the link - ⁠https://sites.google.com/view/cupids-consultant/home⁠

Grab your FREE guide: ⁠Cupid's Checklist⁠

Got a match and not sure what to say? Download ⁠Cupid’s Conversation Starter Kit⁠ here

Follow me on Instagram → ⁠www.instagram.com/cupids.consultant⁠

Love what you’re hearing? If this episode helped you upgrade your profile so you get the matches you deserve, you can show some love and every ‘date’ helps keep the conversation flowing! You can buy me a coffee, lunch, or even dinner here: ⁠https://ko-fi.com/cupidsconsultant⁠

Music: “Take It Easy” by Luke Bergs | ⁠https://www.lukebergsmusic.com⁠

Free To Use | ⁠https://freetouse.com/music⁠

Music promoted by ⁠https://www.free-stock-music.com⁠

Enjoyed this episode? Please subscribe, rate, and review the podcast, and share it with a friend who wants to level up his dating game!