In this episode of Detours, we take a closer look at what might be quietly destroying our relationships — the way we talk (and don’t talk) to each other. From topping other people’s stories to scrolling on a phone while someone’s sharing their heart, these small habits send a loud message: you don’t matter. We’ll explore how true friendship isn’t about fixing or advising, but about showing up, listening well, and making people feel seen.

If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation feeling unheard — or worried you’ve made someone else feel that way — this one’s for you.

What does it mean to truly walk beside someone in their faith journey? In this episode, we explore the call to Christian mentorship—why it matters, how it reflects the example of Jesus, and the legacy it leaves behind. We’ll look at biblical models of mentorship, the qualities that make a godly mentor, and practical steps you can take to pour into others. Whether you feel “qualified” or not, God can use your story to impact lives for His kingdom. Join us as we ask challenging questions, share encouragement, and invite you to step into the role of a mentor who multiplies disciples.

When life falls apart, sometimes the last thing we need is a quick verse or a well-meaning cliché. Too often, Christians reach for what we call a “spiritual band-aid”—throwing out Bible verses to cover someone’s pain instead of sitting with them in it. In this episode, we’ll talk about why we do this, how it can actually harm instead of heal, and what Scripture really shows us about comforting others. From Job’s friends to Jesus weeping at Lazarus’ tomb, we’ll see that presence often speaks louder than words. Join me as we explore practical ways to move past spiritual band-aids and become people who bring true comfort, empathy, and the hope of Christ.