In this episode of Detours, we take a closer look at what might be quietly destroying our relationships — the way we talk (and don’t talk) to each other. From topping other people’s stories to scrolling on a phone while someone’s sharing their heart, these small habits send a loud message: you don’t matter. We’ll explore how true friendship isn’t about fixing or advising, but about showing up, listening well, and making people feel seen.

If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation feeling unheard — or worried you’ve made someone else feel that way — this one’s for you.

What does it mean to truly walk beside someone in their faith journey? In this episode, we explore the call to Christian mentorship—why it matters, how it reflects the example of Jesus, and the legacy it leaves behind. We’ll look at biblical models of mentorship, the qualities that make a godly mentor, and practical steps you can take to pour into others. Whether you feel “qualified” or not, God can use your story to impact lives for His kingdom. Join us as we ask challenging questions, share encouragement, and invite you to step into the role of a mentor who multiplies disciples.

When life falls apart, sometimes the last thing we need is a quick verse or a well-meaning cliché. Too often, Christians reach for what we call a “spiritual band-aid”—throwing out Bible verses to cover someone’s pain instead of sitting with them in it. In this episode, we’ll talk about why we do this, how it can actually harm instead of heal, and what Scripture really shows us about comforting others. From Job’s friends to Jesus weeping at Lazarus’ tomb, we’ll see that presence often speaks louder than words. Join me as we explore practical ways to move past spiritual band-aids and become people who bring true comfort, empathy, and the hope of Christ.

Artificial Intelligence is transforming the way we live, work, and connect — but what does it mean for the church? In this episode of Detours, we explore the opportunities and challenges AI presents for ministry, discipleship, and the Church. From sermon preparation to ethical concerns and spiritual authenticity, we dive deep into how technology intersects with theology.

Is AI a powerful tool for spreading the Gospel, or does it risk replacing human connection and discernment? Join us as we discuss real-world examples, biblical perspectives, and practical insights to help churches navigate this rapidly changing landscape.

Whether you're a pastor, church leader, or simply curious about where faith meets innovation, this conversation will challenge you to think critically about the future of the church in a digital age.

What does it really mean to surrender to God? In this episode, we strip away the clichés and get brutally honest about what surrender looks like when life feels out of control. We talk about the fears, the wrestle, and the freedom that come when we stop clinging to our own plans and trust God with the unknown. This isn't passive resignation — it's active trust. Whether you're holding on to control, comfort, or certainty, this conversation will challenge you to lay it down and discover the peace that only comes when God is in charge.

What do you do when the answers don't come quickly, the breakthrough feels far off, and you're stuck in a season of waiting? In this honest and hope-filled episode, we explore the emotional, spiritual, and practical realities of being “in the waiting.” Whether you're waiting for healing, direction, provision, or peace, this conversation offers encouragement for those who find themselves in the in-between. We’ll share personal stories, biblical wisdom, and some of the hard questions that surface when God seems silent. Waiting isn’t wasted—and this episode is a reminder that even in the delay, God is still working.

Conflict is a part of life—at home, at work, in relationships, even within ourselves. But how we respond can make all the difference. In this episode, we dive into the heart of conflict resolution. Whether you tend to stuff your feelings to keep the peace or explode when things boil over, we’ll unpack the emotional patterns behind those reactions and explore healthier, more constructive ways to deal with tension. Learn practical tools for communicating clearly, setting boundaries, and restoring peace—without losing your voice or your mind. If you've ever walked away from a disagreement feeling frustrated, misunderstood, or regretful, this one’s for you.

Season 6 launches on July 14th! We can't wait to continue the next detour alongside you all. See you in a few weeks!