We dive into the rising trend of egg freezing, IVF, and egg donation, why more women are postponing motherhood, and the hidden emotional and psychological costs behind these choices. Dr. Sarah breaks down the impact of attachment styles—anxious, avoidant, or secure—on dating, long-term relationships, and parenting.

You’ll hear why simply focusing on “red flags” or over-negotiating in relationships keeps many women stuck in harmful cycles, leading to emotional burnout, hyper-independence, and even single parenthood. More importantly, Dr. Sarah shares how to shift from anxiety or avoidance into secure attachment, rebuild self-worth, and attract the right partner for a healthy marriage and family life.

Whether you’re a high-achieving professional, entrepreneur, or CEO trying to “do it all,” this conversation offers clarity on navigating love, fertility decisions, and building a secure, lasting partnership.

egg freezing, IVF, egg donation, self-worth, attachment styles, avoidant attachment, anxious attachment, secure relationships, harmful relationship cycles, marriage problems, women in their 30s and 40s, high-achieving women, dating red flags, building healthy relationships, relationship psychologist, single parenthood, fertility and relationships.

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Welcome to Trauma Bonding to Secure Relationships with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships.

Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on:

✅ Healing from trauma bonding, anxious attachment style, and codependency
✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a
✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy
✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth
✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion

Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward

We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here https://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call

LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) Davies

Instagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy

https://www.healtraumabonding.com

https://www.relationshipsuccesslab.com

https://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call

On the outside, success looks effortless—but behind closed doors, many high achievers secretly battle fears of rejection, failure, and never being “enough.” In this episode, Dr. Sarah uncovers the hidden link between ambition, trauma, and relationships—and how survival mode quietly runs the show.

Dealing with issues:

trauma and ambition

hidden relationship struggles

why high achievers feel unfulfilled

breaking free from survival mode

trauma bonding

trauma cycles

emotional regulation

nervous system healing

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Welcome to Trauma Bonding to Secure Relationships with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships.

Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on:

✅ Healing from trauma bonding, anxious attachment style, and codependency
✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a
✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy
✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth
✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion

Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward

We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here https://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call

LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) Davies

Instagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy

https://www.healtraumabonding.com

https://www.relationshipsuccesslab.com

You’ve built a life that looks "perfect on paper".

And yet… why does it still feel like something’s missing?

Many women who have succeeded in life, getting the job, promotion, and status may appear confident in certain parts in life, though behind the scenes they feel broken, shattered, and unsure of themselves. They struggle to hold boundaries, relationships feel difficult, they constantly feel attacked or criticised and they're frightened of not doing or being enough. The fear of rejection is real. There is a fear of failure, and the constant fear of not being “enough.” These fears don’t just affect business success; they shape the way you show up in your relationships, too.

In this episode, I discuss the surprising link and difference between self-confidence and self-worth when it comes to ambition, trauma, love, and and survival anxiety show up in personal and professional life.

https://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call

https://healtraumabonding.com

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Welcome to Trauma Bonding to Secure Relationships with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships.

Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on:

✅ Healing from trauma bonding, anxious attachment style, and codependency
✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a
✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy
✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth
✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion

Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward

We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here https://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call

LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) Davies

Instagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy

https://www.healtraumabonding.com

https://www.relationshipsuccesslab.com

Why High Achievers Secretly Struggle Behind Closed Doors

Many ambitious, successful professionals seem to “have it all” — yet behind closed doors, they quietly battle low self-worth, relationship struggles, and the constant fear of not being enough. In this episode, Dr. Sarah reveals why high achievers often hustle for validation, how hidden trauma cycles sabotage love and self-confidence, and the key to breaking free from survival mode. If you’ve ever felt like success on paper doesn’t match how you feel inside, this is the conversation you need to hear.

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Welcome to Trauma Bonding to Secure Relationships with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships.

Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on:

✅ Healing from trauma bonding, anxious attachment style, and codependency
✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a
✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy
✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth
✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion

Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward

We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here https://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call

LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) Davies

Instagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy

https://www.healtraumabonding.com

https://www.relationshipsuccesslab.com

On paper, you’re thriving—career success, financial stability, the lifestyle you’ve worked so hard for. But behind closed doors, the fear of rejection, failure, and “not being enough” quietly sabotages your love life and self-worth. In this episode, Dr. Sarah unpacks the hidden trauma cycles that keep high achievers stuck in survival mode—hustling for validation at work and in relationships. Discover how to break free from fear-driven patterns, rewire your nervous system, and finally create love and success that feels aligned and sustainable.

Support the show

Welcome to Trauma Bonding to Secure Relationships with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships.

Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on:

✅ Healing from trauma bonding, anxious attachment style, and codependency
✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a
✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy
✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth
✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion

Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward

We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here https://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call

LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) Davies

Instagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy

https://www.healtraumabonding.com

https://www.relationshipsuccesslab.com

Betrayal doesn’t just break trust with others—it shatters your trust in yourself. In this episode, Dr. Sarah explores the hidden cycle of self-doubt, blame, and reassurance-seeking that keeps high achievers stuck in toxic relationships. Discover why rebuilding self-trust is the key to healing from infidelity, lies, or emotional betrayal—and how a simple “self-trust audit” can rewire your confidence, emotional safety, and relationship choices.

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Welcome to Trauma Bonding to Secure Relationships with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships.

Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on:

✅ Healing from trauma bonding, anxious attachment style, and codependency
✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a
✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy
✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth
✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion

Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward

We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here https://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call

LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) Davies

Instagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy

https://www.healtraumabonding.com

https://www.relationshipsuccesslab.com

Often people work so hard to “get others to be convinced of why the boundary is important to them”.

That’s where you fall.

Boundaries are not about convincing other people to change and to comply.

It’s about what you want and need, and you going ahead and executing the consequence.

People often don’t want to do this because they’re too frightened of becoming an inconvenience to others.

I’m talking to you people pleasers and type A high achievers.

Boundaries are meant to be bridges to relationships:

1. You WILL lose people by executing boundaries. But that’s ok - they weren’t your people anyway.
2. You WILL keep those people who are designed for you.

Boundaries are a litmus test to your relationships.

Support the show

Welcome to Trauma Bonding to Secure Relationships with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships.

Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on:

✅ Healing from trauma bonding, anxious attachment style, and codependency
✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a
✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy
✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth
✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion

Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward

We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here https://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call

LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) Davies

Instagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy

https://www.healtraumabonding.com

https://www.relationshipsuccesslab.com

Support the show

Welcome to Trauma Bonding to Secure Relationships with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships.

Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on:

✅ Healing from trauma bonding, anxious attachment style, and codependency
✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a
✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy
✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth
✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion

Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward

We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here https://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call

LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy) Davies

Instagram handle: @dr.sarahalsawy

https://www.healtraumabonding.com

https://www.relationshipsuccesslab.com