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Ever feel like you're drifting through life without clear direction, making decisions based on whatever feels right in the moment? You're not broken—you're just missing the foundation that turns ordinary men into focused leaders who know exactly where they're going and why.

Most men think core values are corporate buzzwords or motivational fluff. They roll their eyes at vision statements and dismiss mission planning as something for boardrooms, not real life. But here's what they don't understand: without these foundational elements, you're essentially driving cross-country without a map, GPS, or destination in mind.

The Three-Part System That Changes Everything

Dr. Dave Jones breaks down why most men struggle with direction and purpose:

• Vision: Your North Star—where you're going and why it matters
• Mission: The specific steps and strategies to get there
• Core Values: The daily decision-making boundaries that keep you on track

Learn why these three elements work together like a perfectly seasoned burger—you can't just focus on one ingredient and expect the whole thing to work.

The Pro Athlete Mindset Applied to Real Life

Drawing from his experience as a professional hockey player and performance coach, Dr. Dave reveals:

• How elite athletes use repetition and commitment to achieve excellence (not perfection)
• Why 10,000 hours of practice creates expertise—and you're closer than you think
• The difference between a growth mindset and fixed mindset in daily decisions
• How Michael Jordan's approach to "learning opportunities" can transform your failures

This conversation provides the practical framework for men who are tired of feeling like they're just going through the motions. From the neuroscience of habit formation to biblical principles of leadership, you'll discover how to create the foundation that turns daily

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Ever finish a major goal and instead of feeling proud, your brain immediately whispers "What's next?" You're not broken—you're wired for more. But if you don't understand how this hunger works, it will eventually work against you.

Most men mistake their relentless drive for a character defect. They think something's wrong with them because they can't just sit back and enjoy their wins. The truth? Your hunger for growth isn't a bug in your system—it's a feature. But without proper understanding, this gift becomes a curse that steals your peace and damages your relationships.

The Neuroscience Behind Never Being Satisfied

• How dopamine rewards the chase more than the finish line
• Why your brain pushes you to the next thing before you can celebrate the last
• The biological reason you feel restless after every achievement

Learn the critical difference between being wired for growth and being trapped in endless striving. Your restlessness isn't a sign of failure—it's proof you're built for forward motion.

When Drive Becomes Destruction

• How performance-based identity turns growth into self-punishment
• Why men with unhealed wounds chase labels instead of goals
• The moment hunger stops being about growth and starts being about validation

Holy Hunger vs. Hollow Hunger

• Holy hunger: Growth rooted in identity, purpose, and calling
• Hollow hunger: Growth rooted in fear, insecurity, and ego
• How to tell if your drive strengthens or steals from your relationships

The Sweet Spot: Content and Hungry

• How contentment doesn't mean complacency—it means your soul can rest while your hands work
• The neuroscience of celebrating wins to build healthier dopamine cycles
• Why a content, hungry man changes the world while a starving man stops living

This episode reveals why your drive for more is actually a gift—when properly understood and directed. From the neuroscience of motivation to the spiritual principles of contentment, you'll discover how to stay hungry while remaining grounded.

Your hunger isn't the enemy. It just needs to know who's in charge. Stop running from your ambition and start leading it toward the life you were meant to build.

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In this Thanksgiving-week episode, Brent dives deep into one of the most common — and least talked about — struggles men face: feeling emotionally numb even when life is objectively good. Drawing from neuroscience, scripture, Stoic philosophy, and practical daily rhythms, he shows men how to turn gratitude from a concept into a neurological trigger that reopens the heart.

If you’ve ever found yourself wanting to feel grateful but unable to access the emotion… this episode will change your week.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why chronic stress shuts down the brain’s gratitude circuits
• How scripture validates emotional exhaustion (not shames it)
• The Stoic discipline that rewires your perspective
• How to practice gratitude even when you don’t feel it
• A 3-minute neuroscience-based gratitude activation
• How to reconnect with your wife and kids through spoken gratitude
• How to show up to Thanksgiving present, not numb

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