Building trusting with a teenager who has shut down can feel daunting. When someone is so closed off, you start to doubt if anything you do is going to matter. In this episode, I share what happened before my son trusted that he could truly come to me about anything, and what changed. I also share the real trust-building things that help moms reconnect.

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Free Community: Legacy Changers Lounge Book: "The Real Pain of Stress: What to Do When Bubble Baths Won't Fix It" ----- Disclaimer: This podcast provides general parenting education and support. It is not a substitute for professional mental health services. If you're experiencing severe parenting stress, depression, anxiety, or your child is showing signs of mental health issues, please consult a licensed therapist or counselor.

Want to improve your parenting but don't know where to start? In this episode on intentional Christian parenting, I share the one question that transformed my approach to parenting: Who am I as a mom?

Discover how defining your parenting identity can help you move from reactive parenting to intentional, emotionally healthy parenting. Learn practical steps to create a clear parenting identity that guides you even under pressure.

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Have you ever promised yourself you'd stay calm with your kids, only to lose it hours later? You're not alone—and you're not broken. In this powerful episode, I get vulnerable about my own struggles with emotional triggers and shares the science-backed strategies that completely transformed my relationship with my son.

Discover why "trying harder" to control your triggers doesn't work (hint: it's neuroscience, not willpower), and learn the GPS Reset™—a simple 3-step framework you can implement today to stop reactive parenting patterns before they damage your connection with your child.

Whether you're parenting teens, tweens, or reconnecting with adult children, this episode will help you understand the hidden cognitive biases sabotaging your best intentions—and give you a clear roadmap to become the emotionally safe parent your kids need.

G - Guardrails: Write your rules when calm. "If my chest tightens, I leave for 2 minutes. No exceptions." Put it on the fridge. Tell your kids.

P - Posture Flip: Do the opposite of your threat response. Step back. Sit down. Lower your voice. Signal safety to your brain.

S - Self-Check: Ask "Would 8am-me be proud of this next move?" Reconnect to your rational self.

Remember it like directions: When you feel lost, use GPS.

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Program: The Relationship Reset - https://thecyclestops.com

Free Community: Legacy Changers Lounge

Book: "The Real Pain of Stress: What to Do When Bubble Baths Won't Fix It"

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This podcast provides general parenting education and support. It is not a substitute for professional mental health services. If you're experiencing severe parenting stress, depression, anxiety, or your child is showing signs of mental health issues, please consult a licensed therapist or counselor.