In relationships, it is easy to fall in love with who someone could be, rather than who they actually are right now. But how do you tell the difference between a partner who is building a future and one who is just wasting your time?

In this touching and transformative conversation, Pastor Tiff opens up about the early days of her relationship with Pastor James. She shares why she felt completely safe with him, even when he was driving a 1993 Nissan Sentra and rebuilding his life after prison. She didn't look at his bank account; she looked at his character and how he treated her.

Pastor James drops a powerful truth about the law of "Seed, Time, and Harvest" in love. You cannot force a harvest if the ground is barren. This video will teach you how to inspect the "fruit" of a person’s life so you don't spend years sowing your heart into laziness, pride, or rebellion.

In this video, you will learn:

The "Safety" Signal: Why feeling emotionally safe and heard is more valuable than material wealth.

Potential vs. Purpose: How to identify if someone has truly found their purpose or if they are selling you a dream.

The "Seed" Rule: Why you must stop nurturing deficits in people who refuse to grow.

True Vulnerability: The power of being 100% your authentic self with your partner. 🔔 SUBSCRIBE for more conversations on faith, life, and relationships.

So many women say they want a Godly man, but when the wait feels long, the boundaries start to blur. In this powerful episode, Pastor Tiffaney sits down with Carin Pinto, founder of Philly Connect®, for a raw, honest conversation on femininity, boundaries, submission, and faith in dating.

They discuss what it means to stay soft in a hard world, how to lead as a woman without losing your femininity, and why submission starts with God, not a man. From identity and independence to desperation and discernment, this one’s for every woman learning how to balance strength and softness.

In this episode:

• When waiting turns into settling, and how to stop it

• Why femininity isn’t about appearance, it’s about heart posture

• Leadership as a woman without losing softness

• Boundaries, standards, and the pressure to compromise

• Submission to God vs. submission to men

• How to date as a spiritually mature woman

• Grace, fear, and knowing when it’s time to walk away

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When a relationship is on the brink, the confusion can be as painful as the heartbreak. What does "separation" really mean? Is it a "pause for purification," a chance to heal and rebuild? Or is it just a "pathway for permanent division," a slow walk to a painful end?

In this incredibly raw and necessary episode, Pastors James and Tiffany go beyond the surface-level advice to navigate the painful realities of breakups, separation, and divorce. This is a must-watch conversation for anyone caught in the "in-between"—wondering whether to fight for it or finally face that it's time to let go.

In this episode, you will discover:

The 2 Definitions of Separation

Is It Healthy to Separate in a Marriage?

"Did God Put It Together?

The Painful Reason You Can't Let Go

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