In relationships, it is easy to fall in love with who someone could be, rather than who they actually are right now. But how do you tell the difference between a partner who is building a future and one who is just wasting your time?

In this touching and transformative conversation, Pastor Tiff opens up about the early days of her relationship with Pastor James. She shares why she felt completely safe with him, even when he was driving a 1993 Nissan Sentra and rebuilding his life after prison. She didn't look at his bank account; she looked at his character and how he treated her.

Pastor James drops a powerful truth about the law of "Seed, Time, and Harvest" in love. You cannot force a harvest if the ground is barren. This video will teach you how to inspect the "fruit" of a person’s life so you don't spend years sowing your heart into laziness, pride, or rebellion.

In this video, you will learn:

The "Safety" Signal: Why feeling emotionally safe and heard is more valuable than material wealth.

Potential vs. Purpose: How to identify if someone has truly found their purpose or if they are selling you a dream.

The "Seed" Rule: Why you must stop nurturing deficits in people who refuse to grow.

True Vulnerability: The power of being 100% your authentic self with your partner. 🔔 SUBSCRIBE for more conversations on faith, life, and relationships.

So many women say they want a Godly man, but when the wait feels long, the boundaries start to blur. In this powerful episode, Pastor Tiffaney sits down with Carin Pinto, founder of Philly Connect®, for a raw, honest conversation on femininity, boundaries, submission, and faith in dating.

They discuss what it means to stay soft in a hard world, how to lead as a woman without losing your femininity, and why submission starts with God, not a man. From identity and independence to desperation and discernment, this one’s for every woman learning how to balance strength and softness.

In this episode:

• When waiting turns into settling, and how to stop it

• Why femininity isn’t about appearance, it’s about heart posture

• Leadership as a woman without losing softness

• Boundaries, standards, and the pressure to compromise

• Submission to God vs. submission to men

• How to date as a spiritually mature woman

• Grace, fear, and knowing when it’s time to walk away

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When a relationship is on the brink, the confusion can be as painful as the heartbreak. What does "separation" really mean? Is it a "pause for purification," a chance to heal and rebuild? Or is it just a "pathway for permanent division," a slow walk to a painful end?

In this incredibly raw and necessary episode, Pastors James and Tiffany go beyond the surface-level advice to navigate the painful realities of breakups, separation, and divorce. This is a must-watch conversation for anyone caught in the "in-between"—wondering whether to fight for it or finally face that it's time to let go.

In this episode, you will discover:

The 2 Definitions of Separation

Is It Healthy to Separate in a Marriage?

"Did God Put It Together?

The Painful Reason You Can't Let Go

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Have you ever felt trapped by a past mistake, wondering if you can ever find love again? For many, the shame of divorce feels like a life sentence. Scripture can even be used to make you feel "stuck," with verses that call remarriage adultery. But what if we've been reading the book without knowing the Author?

In this powerful, healing, and must-see episode, Pastors James and Tiffany tackle this painful topic head-on. They offer a profound perspective that shifts the focus from condemnation to freedom.

If you're carrying the weight of a past relationship and fear you're "disqualified" from future happiness, this conversation will set you free.

In this video, you will discover:

The critical question to ask yourself: "Did God put it together, or did I ask God to bless my mess?"

Why God's plan for you is freedom, not bondage to a past decision.

The liberating truth that will give you peace: "God hates divorce, but He loves this divorcee."

Comment below: Which part of this conversation helped set you free? We'd love to hear your story.

Do you ever feel like you're trying everything in your relationship, but it still feels weak? Or maybe you're in a good season, but you're worried about what happens when a real storm hits? In this powerful and transparent conversation, Pastors James and Tiffany share the "secret" they discovered that has strengthened their 10-year marriage, a marriage everyone said was "crazy" for starting at the same time as their ministry.

This is for every person who wants to build a love that truly lasts, not just one that feels good for a season.

In this video, you will discover:

• The "Spirit, Soul, Body" model that changes everything.
• A beautiful analogy about grass that will change how you view hard seasons.
• Way 1: The daily, practical choice that is more powerful than a feeling.
• Way 2: Why you must protect your "friendship" (and the warning sign that your trust is broken).

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Stuck replaying the betrayal? This Grace & Truth episode is a roadmap from betrayal to restoration, moving from victimhood to growth. We unpack: why the gospel brings dead places to life, forgiveness without replaying the hurt, how to set real boundaries (yes, phones), when separation helps and how to define it, and 1 Corinthians 7:5 on intimacy during separation.

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You keep praying for “the one”, but are you ready for them? God won’t always drop a name from heaven, He trains your discernment. This Grace & Truth episode breaks down the spiritual disciplines that shape your character, your choices and your future.

In this episode:

• Why God trains you in characteristics & rhythms (not just answers)
• The four disciplines: obedience, humility, self-control, patience
• “Type” vs traits: how to stop repeating the same mistakes
• Hearing God: awareness, position, patience - how to tune in
• Dating disciplines vs marriage disciplines
• Identity, fear of man, and learning freedom in Christ

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Are the things you’ve always believed about relationships actually true… or just myths?

This week, Pastor James & Tiffaney Edwards are breaking down the misconceptions that can hold you back from experiencing real, healthy connections and what's keeping you tied to a lie.

Subscribe to Grace & Truth Talks for weekly episodes that inspire and empower your relationship journey. New episode drops EVERY WEDNESDAY at 6AM! Like this video if you found it helpful and relatable. And, don't forget to share this with friends or family who could use this kind of grace and truth.