In this empowering episode of Hold My Purse, we’re stepping into a part of your life you may have never considered: the HR department of you. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, drained, overworked in relationships, or unsure how to protect your peace, this episode will change how you lead your life.

You’re the CEO of your life — and today you’ll learn how to oversee the internal systems that manage your boundaries, your energy, your relationships, and your emotional well-being.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How to think like a CEO when managing your personal boundaries
• What your “inner HR department” actually is and why it protects your peace
• How to make decisions that align with your values, not guilt or obligation
• How to recognize “role creep” when you’re doing too much
• How to run performance reviews for your habits, relationships, and commitments
• Why listening to your intuition is an HR investigation you can trust
• How to reclaim your power, time, and emotional bandwidth with clarity and love

Whether you’re rebuilding your life, stepping into a new season, or learning to love yourself again, this episode gives you the tools to structure your peace like it matters — because it does.

And, Aria steps in with her Gen Alpha energy; she has a new makeup kit.

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Until next time my fabulous friends and self-care warriors… keep loving you, protect your peace, and hold your own damn purse.

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In this deeply heartfelt episode of Hold My Purse, Rho sits down with author, coach, and “lighthouse creator” Laylani Colibri Jack to talk about healing, purpose, and how loss can become the light that leads you home to yourself.

Leilani opens up about the sudden passing of her mother and how that tragedy became the beginning of her own hero’s journey — a journey that inspired her to help others love life after loss. Together, Rho and Leilani unpack what it means to do the inner work, lead with compassion, and shine without apology.

They also explore her powerful Lighthouse Method — a framework that teaches you to clean your own windows before you try to guide anyone else. The conversation moves from personal healing to emotional intelligence, grief, and leadership — reminding us that we can hold our pain and our power at the same time.

And just when you think it couldn’t get any more real, Aria pops in with her Gen Alpha wisdom to talk about confidence, intuition, and why her generation refuses to carry emotional baggage that isn’t theirs.

This episode is a full-circle moment — soulful, healing, and packed with light.

Key Takeaways

• Healing is a journey, not a destination. You don’t have to be “healed” — you just have to keep healing.
• Grief is another form of growth. It’s what happens when your soul outgrows an old chapter.
• Be the lighthouse. Your job isn’t to chase or fix — it’s to stand tall, shine bright, and trust your light.
• Inner work changes everything. When you shift, the energy around you shifts too.
• Self-care is sacred. Small, intentional moments are the foundation of real healing.

About Laylani:

Laylani Colibri Jack is a transformational coach, speaker, and best-selling author of The Compassion Code: How to Say the Right Thing When the Wrong Thing Happens.

Connect with Laylani

www.laylanicolibri.com

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/laylanicolibrijack/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lovenotesfromyourmom

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YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LaylaniColibriJack

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@laylani_light

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In this episode of Hold My Purse: A Self-Care Journey Through Life, Rho explores what it really means to have a vision for your life — to see the future you’re meant to live and start walking toward it with faith, clarity, and peace.

After her boyfriend said, “Babe, you’re on to something — what if you went deeper?” she launched this new CEO of Your Life series to help you lead your life with intention, not autopilot.

This week, Rho introduces The Dual Vision Exercise — a simple yet powerful way to clarify what you’re chasing and what you’re ready to leave behind. You’ll learn how to turn dreams into direction, create alignment between your habits and your higher self, and trust your path even when the fog rolls in.

💛 Journal Prompt:
If nothing and no one could stop me, what would I want my life to look like five years from now?

🎙️ Affirmation:
My vision leads me. My actions align with who I’m becoming. I trust what I can’t yet see.

And, Aria shares her recent experience with a friend and how she deals with her emotions.

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💼 Remember: Hold your own purse, and hold your peace.
And I’ll meet you right back here in two weeks — same space, same heart, new ways to choose you. 💖

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