In a world where it feels easier than ever to tear each other down, what would it look like if we became women who intentionally build bridges instead of burning them? In this episode, Pastor Lisa walks through the topics of connection, honor, forgiveness, and the holy work of reconciliation. This one will stretch you, bless you, and remind you of the power you carry as a builder in God's kingdom.

This episode dives into the heart of what it means to be a bridge builder, a woman committed to connection, honor, and intentional growth. Pastor Lisa brings real, practical, sometimes hilarious, and incredibly convicting truth about the ways we build up or tear down the relationships God has entrusted to us.

From the dangers of gossip and complaining to the beauty of forgiveness and wise building, this conversation invites us into a higher standard: becoming women who reconcile, redeem, and restore.

You'll feel encouraged, challenged, and empowered to examine your own bridges and commit to building what lasts.

00:28 — The purpose of a bridge: connecting what's been separated. Pastor Lisa shares why God calls us to be "bridge builders" in the Women of Arise.

01:52 — How complaining, gossip, dishonor, and speaking death burn the very bridges we're called to build.

03:36 — Entering her 50s, Pastor Lisa reflects on the value of connection... and who's going to wipe her later in life!

05:44 — Learning not to burn bridges even after mistakes; choosing not to unfollow people just because we disagree.

07:10 — "No one can hurt me unless I allow them."

08:39 — Becoming wise builders who leave room for reconciliation. The story of keeping the porch light on for Bekah.

11:21 — Matthew 7:24-27: Jesus' teaching on the wise and foolish builders and our ability to build well.

14:00 — Being faithful with what God has given now. Not neglecting blessings simply because they don't look like what we want.

16:30 — Ways we burn bridges: dishonor, disrespect, and the power of valuing others. John Bevere's Influence on Understanding Honor.

19:27 — Gossip and slander: Proverbs 16:28. Gossip separates close friends and destroys bridges.

24:22 — Unforgiveness and bitterness: bitterness builds walls, not bridges.

25:30 — Pride and self-righteousness: how long will we wait to cross the bridge?

26:10 — Division and offense: the enemy doesn't have to destroy the church if he can divide it.

27:57 — Neglect and apathy: ignoring your husband's needs weakens the bridge of your marriage.

30:02 — Complaining and cynicism: Numbers 12. Complaining keeps us wandering when God calls us forward.

36:24 — Five ways to build bridges:

1. Speak life (Ephesians 4:29)

2. Choose forgiveness (Colossians 3:13)

3. Listen with love (James 1:19)

4. Practice gratitude

5. Be a peacemaker

40:18 — Bridges are built intentionally - Matthew 5:9.
41:24 — The ministry of reconciliation (2 Corinthians 5:18–19).

44:04 — Closing prayer and blessing.
Plus: a reminder about the February 2026 Arise Conference.

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What does it mean to pour it all out for God truly? In this powerful episode, Pastor Lisa Kai takes us through her personal journey of obedience, sacrifice, and legacy, reminding every woman that our seasons, struggles, and stories all serve a divine purpose.

In this moving message, Pastor Lisa Kai delivers a word that will challenge and inspire you to pour it all out — in your faith, your business, and your legacy. From the story of the alabaster woman to the humble beginnings of Arise Ministry, Lisa shares her personal revelations about obedience, perseverance, and identity in Christ.

If you've ever questioned your calling or hesitated to step into what God placed inside of you, this episode will remind you that you were never meant to play small. It's time to give your best, lead with love, and build something that will outlive you.

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To partner with Lisa Kai in bringing the word of God around the world, click here:
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00:26 – Pastor Lisa opens with gratitude, thanking the women who said yes to both salvation and their God-given purpose.

02:10 – The prayer that changed everything: Lisa recalls asking God for true friends.

03:22 – Seasons come and go, but how we use them is on us.

03:43 – Pouring it all out becomes the central message of the day.

05:33 – The story of the woman with the alabaster jar (Mark 14:3–9) and the challenge to pour it all out for Jesus.

08:00 – Whether called Mary, a sinner, or unknown, she was remembered for her devotion. What will you be remembered for?

10:42 – Leaving a legacy for her kids and the church.
11:43 – Rededicating her life to Jesus, daily.
13:16 – The early Arise days: when Pastor Mike gave everything to build the church. 16:49 – Pouring out looks different in every season.

17:42 – Celebrating 15 years of Arise Ministry, Arise Conference will take place November 19–20 at the Blaisdell.

19:08 – How overthinking can stop your calling. Move before fear talks you out of it. 22:47 – The alabaster woman didn't hesitate; she just did it.
24:39 – How marriage and business reflect each other: both must be Christ-centered. 32:04 – Overcoming insecurities and comparison in leadership.

36:42 – Birthing what God gave you, even when fear tries to hold you back. (Galatians 1:10) 38:26 – Never stop giving God the glory.
43:44 – Build something that will outlast you. (Mark 14:9)
46:25 – Arise is a legacy movement (Proverbs 13:22).

48:07 – Pastor Lisa closes in prayer and reflection.

This episode of the I AM HER Podcast, Pastor Lisa and Bekah dive into a powerful and freeing conversation on forgiveness. They talk openly about why it can be so difficult, why it is essential, and how it has the ability to transform every part of your life. Through personal stories, biblical wisdom, and honest reflections, they explore the pride, the pain, and the process of truly letting go.

Forgiveness is not just about others, it is about you. It is about releasing offense, breaking free from the weight of bitterness, and stepping into the kind of joy and peace that only God can bring. Whether you are facing the challenge of forgiving those closest to you, carrying deep hurts that feel impossible to release, or simply needing to forgive yourself, this conversation will encourage you to take that first step toward healing.

Tune in and discover how forgiveness has the power to renew your mind, heal your heart, and set you free to live with freedom, joy, and peace.

"What if you carried God with you everywhere you went, into your work, your relationships, and even your struggles? In this episode of I Am Her, Pastor Lisa and Bekah share why we are called to be keepers of His presence and how repentance, awareness, and worship keep us aligned with God daily."

In this powerful episode of I Am Her, Pastor Lisa returns from traveling to share a message with Bekah and the Inspire Church worship team, and now with you. Together, they remind us that God's presence isn't just for Sundays, but for every moment of our lives.

Episode Highlights:

• 00:01 – Bekah introduces her mom, Pastor Lisa, back on the podcast.

• 03:06 – "We are the keepers of His presence", the ark of the covenant explained.

• 06:11 – Repentance, Isaiah 53:6, and why God's presence wins battles.

• 09:36 – Don't leave God on the shelf.

• 11:00 – The take-out box illustration: carrying God everywhere.

• 14:30 – Conviction, repentance, and serving from a place of honesty.

• 17:28 – Repentance is like taking a shower.

• 20:52 – The danger of losing awareness of the Holy Spirit.

• 29:57 – Acts 3:19 and the prodigal son's return to God.

• 38:08 – Encouragement to carry His presence daily.

• 39:05 – Bekah's closing prayer.

• 40:07 – Final words and invitation to share and subscribe.
  
  This conversation is a reminder that God is always with us, and as Pastor Lisa says, we are the keepers of His presence.

"If God really had my back, why would I be going through this?"

In this heartfelt episode of I Am Her, host Bekah welcomes graphic designer and wellness leader Leann to the mic. They unpack what it really means to heal, not just physically but spiritually, after giving birth.

Leannegets honest about her postpartum struggles, building her business, Movement With Leanne, and how prayer, community, and vulnerability led her into her true purpose. Together, they talk about the mindset shifts, Christian motherhood, postpartum recovery, and the importance of asking for help, even when it's hard.

This episode is for the woman who's rebuilding her strength, realigning with God, and redefining what motherhood looks like through the lens of faith.

• 00:54 – Bekah introduces Leanne, graphic designer for Inspire Church and podcast

• 01:53 – Leanne's 8-year journey with Inspire Church & how her fitness business started

• 03:09 – From "Daily Fuel" to "Movement with Leanne" — how it all began during COVID

• 05:29 – Talking motherhood & postpartum through a faith lens

• 09:48 – Mindset before movement: addressing the why first

• 11:31 – Bekah on praying over her womb & the fourth trimester

• 14:22 – Leanne's reality check: recovery takes time, not 6 weeks

• 16:13 – When God showed Leanne that fitness was her ministry

• 21:09 – Ephesians 2:10 — Created for good works

• 21:43 – How to face postpartum as a woman of faith

• 25:42 – Avoiding communities that glorify the struggle

• 30:44 – Build good habits before the baby comes

• 33:46 – Leanne's prayer for new moms: You're not a burden

• 38:00 – Final encouragement from Bekah: You are her—resilient, chosen, loved

• 39:33 – Follow @movementwithleanne & join the Arise community

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To partner with Lisa Kai in bringing the word of God around the world, click here:
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In this soul-stirring episode of the I AM Her Podcast, Pastor Lisa Kai and Bekah get real about the call to lead yourself — before you lead anyone else. What does spiritual maturity look like when no one's watching? How do you pursue God daily, not just when life gets hard?

From diving deeper into scripture to making space for God in your everyday routine, this conversation is both practical and prophetic. Pastor Lisa shares how growth happens through intentional discipline, and Bekah opens up about her quiet time with God, how she approaches difficult scriptures, and why spiritual intimacy starts with consistency. You'll walk away with fresh insight, renewed fire, and the permission to slow down and truly live out your faith.

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To partner with Lisa Kai in bringing the word of God around the world, click here:
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Stay up to date on all things Lisa Kai:
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What happens when a strong, independent woman learns to submit—not to a man, but to Christ—in marriage? In this heartfelt and honest episode of the I AM HER Podcast, Pastor Lisa and her daughter Bekah sit down for a raw and real conversation about what it truly means to be a wife in the Christian faith. They open up about the challenges, surprises, and spiritual growth that come with stepping into marriage for the first time—from navigating the balance between leadership and submission to learning how to love with grace, humility, and a heart fully surrendered to God. Whether you're newly married, preparing for marriage, or have been walking through it for years, this episode offers powerful wisdom, encouragement, and truth for every season of womanhood and marriage.

Join the Arise Community Today:
https://www.skool.com/arise-women-community/about?ref=a698e6ba1a5c425f80a68de5ffd822ac

Find books by Lisa Kai:
https://www.LisaKai.Tv

To partner with Lisa Kai in bringing the word of God around the world, click here:
https://raisedonors.com/poundforpoundministries/partner_lisa

Stay up to date on all things Lisa Kai:
Website: http://www.LisaKai.tv
Lisa Kai Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisakai
Bekah Lagafuaina Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bkaiii/

#lisakai #bekahlagafuaina #motherdaughterpodcast #submission #marriage #Jesus #God #family #lead #leader #leadership #iamher #iamherpodcast #influencer #godfidence #hawaii #oahu #women #arise