Ever wonder what Porn really does to your brain? Dr. Trish Leigh explains how it hijacks dopamine, damages intimacy, and undermines trust and emotional safety in relationships.

Topics Covered: 👉 Porn as a dopamine-driven addiction 👉 How Porn disconnects men from real partners during intimacy 👉 Why betrayal trauma becomes a nervous system crisis 👉 Why healthy relationships require zero exposure to Porn or explicit digital content 👉 Escalation patterns and how the brain bonds to fantasy 👉 Objectification and “tool-use” brain activation after Porn exposure 👉 QEEG brain mapping and how it validates real addiction patterns 👉 Sexual Arousal Dysfunction linked to Porn and the arousal gap 👉 The woman’s boundary-setting role in addressing Porn as an addictive behavior 👉 The impact of Porn on relationship breakdowns and divorce rates

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What happens when high-performing moms carry hidden pain no one sees? This episode exposes the emotional cost of perfection, attachment wounds, and the struggle to feel safe in love and motherhood.

Topics Covered 👉 The unseen emotional pain behind high-performing motherhood 👉 How childhood instability shapes attachment and coping 👉 The “quiet disorganized” attachment style explained 👉 Emotional detachment as a stress survival mechanism 👉 Healing and self-awareness after divorce 👉 Nervous-system regulation and the need for safety 👉 The guilt around self-care for high-achieving women 👉 Reconnecting with emotions and authentic love

Behind every high-performing mom is often a nervous system in overdrive. True strength comes not from perfection but from reconnecting, feeling, and allowing love to be safe again.

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What happens when attachment makes love something you have to earn? Adam and Annie uncover how childhood trauma and disorganized attachment make people perform for love instead of feeling safe being real.

TOPICS COVERED:

👉 The hidden pain of growing up unseen and emotionally neglected 👉 How childhood trauma leads to disorganized attachment 👉 The difference between loud and quiet disorganized attachment 👉 Why many people equate love with performance and compliance 👉 The psychological cost of people-pleasing and self-abandonment 👉 Why traditional therapy sometimes misses attachment wounds 👉 How coaching and brain rewiring can help restore authentic love

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What happens when toxic attachment feels like love? Maggie opens up about an 11-year relationship marked by addiction and emotional chaos, uncovering how her father’s betrayal shaped her patterns and need to rescue others.

✨ Topics Covered ✨ 👉 The link between childhood trauma and adult relationship patterns 👉 The invisible caretaker role and how it develops 👉 Addiction’s hidden impact on intimacy and integrity 👉 Why women often ignore red flags or avoid hard questions 👉 Understanding “micro-cheating” and emotional leakage 👉 How disorganized attachment fuels people-pleasing 👉 The connection between parental infidelity and fear of abandonment 👉 Building awareness to break generational attachment cycles

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What happens when Quiet Disorganized Attachment makes love feel unsafe but loneliness unbearable? Adam reveals how this hidden attachment style forms, why it’s so misunderstood, and how healing begins.

Topics Covered: 👉 What Quiet Disorganized Attachment looks like in relationships 👉 The childhood roots of this attachment style (unsafe and demanding parents) 👉 How trauma creates emotional shutdown and perfectionism 👉 Why psychology often overlooks or misdiagnoses this attachment pattern 👉 The key differences between “loud” and “quiet” disorganized attachment 👉 How fear, shame, and survival instincts shape adult behaviors 👉 Steps toward recognizing and healing Quiet Disorganized Attachment

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What happens when an avoidant man is confronted with the emotional truths his partner has been holding back?

In this episode, Adam invites a couple to face nine brutally honest relationship challenges. The conversation dives into emotional shutdowns, loyalty issues, and the impact of childhood wounds — revealing what avoidance looks like when love and vulnerability collide.

✨Topics Covered: 👉 The avoidant partner’s emotional response to jealousy and control 👉 Why loyalty is the most important value for avoidant men 👉 How childhood trauma shapes attachment and defensiveness 👉 The fiancée’s honest feedback and hopes for their relationship 👉 Adam’s therapeutic approach to reframing criticism as care 👉 The meaning of emotional safety and repair in avoidant dynamics 👉 Insights into building trust after past betrayal

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Why do avoidant men struggle so much with love, vulnerability, and connection?

In this video, we break down how avoidant attachment forms, why it creates barriers in relationships, and what can actually be done to move forward.

Topics Covered: 👉 What is attachment? 👉The difference between secure and insecure attachment 👉 How avoidant attachment shows up in men’s behavior and language 👉 The hidden stress avoidant men experience (despite appearing calm) 👉 Disorganized attachment and its two subtypes: loud vs quiet 👉 Variations within avoidant men: ethical vs manipulative avoidant 👉 Practical steps to shift avoidant patterns and grow toward secure attachment 👉 Why rewiring attachment behaviors takes time and repetition 👉 A real-life case study of transforming attachment patterns

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Why does avoidant attachment make it so hard to feel close, even in loving relationships? For many men, emotional distance isn’t a lack of love—it’s a stress-driven response that blocks connection. This video unpacks the psychology and biology behind avoidant patterns and offers tools to create healthier intimacy.

Topics Covered 👉 Emotional shutdown and chronic unavailability in avoidant men 👉 The “cone of death” metaphor for limited tolerance of closeness under stress 👉 How stress blocks oxytocin receptors and hinders bonding 👉 Practical tools like breathing and nervous system regulation 👉 The difficulty avoidant men have with receiving praise or validation 👉 The importance of intentional connection and balanced effort in relationships 👉 Recognizing overservice and its role in creating emotional distance 👉 Shifting from constant stress mode into rest and relaxation for better connection

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