In Episode 3 of the Starlit Success Podcast, you'll learn why overthinking is sabotaging your growth, how messy action leads to real progress, and the secret to breaking free from the fear of not being ready.

What if everything you’ve been chasing...

• the flawless presentation, the perfect conditions, the ideal image
• are actually holding you back?

Let's embrace our flaws, and prioritize progress over perfection.

Your weekly challenge: Take one step forward with messy action and feel the satisfaction of moving closer to your goals. Perfectionism is a myth. “Done” beats “Perfect” every time.

Stop waiting. Start moving. Your future self will thank you.

00:20 The Struggle with Perfectionism

01:30 Overthinking Episode Numbers

02:32 Defining Perfectionism

04:33 Embracing Imperfection

04:52 The Consequences of Perfectionism

06:37 Taking Action Despite Fear

07:50 Learning from Imperfect Actions

08:15 The Psychological Impact of Perfectionism

17:27 Done is Better Than Perfect

19:04 Setting Deadlines and Taking Messy Action

22:42 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

Music by: https://laceybortvit.com/

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YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@StarlitSuccess

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In this episode of the Starlit Success Podcast, we break down six powerful ways obstacles are actually working in your favor, even when they feel painful, unfair, or completely overwhelming. From injuries and job loss to grief, rejection, and feeling stuck, this episode challenges the way you’ve been taught to see struggle.

It's time to rethink your perception of obstacles as tools for growth instead of roadblocks. Let's move from a mindset of victimhood to one of empowerment, and ask how challenges can be leveraged to help you grow. Tune in for motivational insights on transforming trials into triumphs and learning to navigate life's challenges with a positive outlook.

00:00 Welcome to the Starlit Success Podcast

00:20 Understanding Obstacles and Their Impact

01:18 The Hidden Gifts in Obstacles 05:23 Personal Stories of Overcoming Obstacles

10:57 Lessons Learned from Challenges

22:02 Building Resilience and Strength

25:27 Shifting Perspectives on Obstacles

28:11 Conclusion and Weekly Challenge

As referenced in this episode, below is my son Javen's Mental Health Support Group Instagram page, Bridge To Brighter:

https://www.instagram.com/bridge2brighter?igsh=c28zbmcya2VrN2t6

Music by: https://laceybortvit.com/

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YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@StarlitSuccess

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/starlitsuccess/?hl=en

Have you ever looked at your life and thought, “I should be happy… so why don’t I feel fulfilled?”

In Episode 1 of the Starlit Success Podcast, I open up about the quiet but persistent feeling that something was missing, even when everything looked “right” on the outside. A stable career. A loving family. A comfortable routine. And yet, an inner knowing that there had to be more than living life on repeat.

I share the pivotal moments that led me to question the version of success I had been chasing, including the realization that I was helping fulfill someone else’s dream while ignoring my own. What followed was a journey into self-awareness, mindset shifts, manifestation, and reconnecting with my purpose.

In this episode, you’ll explore:

• Why feeling unfulfilled doesn’t mean you’re ungrateful or broken
• How society’s expectations quietly shape the life you think you “should” want
• The difference between comfort and alignment How ignoring your inner calling keeps you stuck in autopilot
• Why awareness is the first step to creating a life on your own terms

This episode isn’t about burning your life down or having all the answers. It’s about recognizing the inner nudge that’s asking you to pay attention — and giving yourself permission to explore what fulfillment truly means to you. If you’ve ever felt stuck, lost, or disconnected from your purpose — this conversation will resonate deeply. This is just the beginning.

00:00 Welcome to the Starlit Success Podcast

01:03 The Catalyst for Change

02:04 Discovering My True Passion

03:39 The Turning Point

06:02 Manifesting a New Reality

09:32 Helping Others Achieve Their Dreams

12:13 The Journey to Self-Discovery

21:38 Supporting My Husband's Music Career

26:16 Empowering You to Find Your Purpose

33:17 Conclusion and Future Episodes

Music by: https://laceybortvit.com/

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YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@StarlitSuccess

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/starlitsuccess/?hl=en

Welcome to the Starlit Success Podcast, hosted by Jessica Gaines, a personal development and spiritual mindset podcast for those who feel they're destined for more than their current reality. Each episode blends spiritual energy, manifestation, mindset coaching, and practical personal growth tools to help you reconnect with your true self, break free from limiting beliefs, and consciously create a life of purpose, fulfillment, and freedom.

This podcast will help you discover:

How to believe in your true potential

Why remembering who you truly are is the key to success

How to create success on your terms, not society's

Weekly inspiration to support your dream life creation

If you’re navigating a spiritual awakening, feeling unfulfilled in your 9–5, or craving clarity around your purpose, this podcast is for you. Tune in and get ready to discover and align with your north star.