Gratitude is not just a feeling; it is a practice that has the power to transform your marriage from the inside out. In this episode of Imperfectly Married, Michael and Heather unpack how choosing gratitude, especially when it does not come naturally, can rewire your mindset, rebuild connection, and shift the emotional climate of your relationship. Through honest stories, practical examples, and real moments from their own marriage, they explore how resentment, entitlement, comparison, and hurt quietly block connection, and why consistent appreciation becomes the antidote that restores unity, joy, and intimacy. Whether you are in a difficult season or simply want to strengthen the bond between you and your spouse, this episode gives you the tools to practice gratitude in meaningful ways that change how you see your partner, how you communicate, and how you show up for each other every day.

Imperfectly Married is a weekly podcast where real talk meets real marriage. Hosted by Michael and Heather Brown, who have been married for more than 25 years, the show blends honest conversations, personal stories, faith-based wisdom, and practical tools to help couples grow closer, communicate better, and build marriages grounded in love and grace. Imperfectly Married is all about encouraging couples to pursue connection, overcome challenges, and discover beauty in every messy, meaningful season of marriage.

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Grief doesn’t just happen to you—it happens between you. In this Enneagram Edition of Imperfectly Married, Michael and Heather unpack how each of the nine Enneagram types experiences, expresses, and heals through grief in marriage.From the Type 1 perfectionist trying to “grieve the right way,” to the Type 7 enthusiast avoiding pain through distraction, to the Type 9 peacemaker retreating for peace—each type faces loss in their own unique way.You’ll learn:How each Enneagram type processes pain and loss differentlyHow to support your spouse’s grief with compassion, not confusionWhy vulnerability, not strength, is the key to healing togetherBiblical truths that bring comfort and restoration in seasons of sorrowIf you or your spouse are walking through grief, this conversation will help you find understanding, grace, and renewed closeness in your marriage. Because you don’t have to grieve the same way to grieve side by side.Find us online: Website: https://imperfectlymarriedpodcast.com/ Merch: https://imperfectlymarriedpodcast.com/store Instagram: imperfectlymarried_thepodcast Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61576918626044 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@imperfectly_married

Grief changes everything — including your marriage. In this episode of Imperfectly Married, Michael and Heather open up about walking through the pain of losing loved ones, the death of dreams, and the hidden grief that often goes unspoken in relationships.They share how grief can show up emotionally, physically, and spiritually — and how to support your spouse when you both hurt in different ways.In this episode you’ll learn:How to grieve differently without growing apartThe dangers of suppressing grief and how to process it togetherWhat it means to love each other through pain you can’t fixWhy grace is the most important gift in seasons of lossThis is a raw, faith-filled, and deeply comforting conversation for anyone walking through sorrow — reminding you that your story isn’t over, it’s being rewritten together.Find us online:Website: https://imperfectlymarriedpodcast.com/Merch: https://imperfectlymarriedpodcast.com/storeInstagram: imperfectlymarried_thepodcast Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61576918626044TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@imperfectly_married

What does real friendship look like in marriage? In this episode of Imperfectly Married, Michael and Heather unpack how each of the nine Enneagram types builds, strains, and restores friendship within marriage.

From the Type 1 perfectionist learning to relax, to the Type 7 enthusiast slowing down, to the Type 9 peacemaker finding their voice—every couple will see themselves somewhere in this conversation.

You’ll learn how each Enneagram type loves, connects, and communicates, the biggest friendship challenges for every type, and simple ways to bring more laughter, grace, and presence into your marriage. They also share why friendship—not just romance—is what keeps you choosing each other, and how faith and self-awareness work together to bring healing and depth.

Whether you’re new to the Enneagram or already know your number, this episode will help you grow closer, communicate better, and rediscover joy in your marriage friendship.

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What if the secret to a lasting, joy-filled marriage isn’t just love—but friendship?

In this episode of Imperfectly Married, Michael andHeather open up about how their 26-year relationship has been built (and rebuilt) on laughter, curiosity, and connection. From navigating conflict with grace to rediscovering what it means to like your spouse—not just love them—this conversation will remind you why every healthy marriage starts with friendship.

They share real stories, practical tips, and honest moments about keeping friendship alive through the chaos of kids, work, and everyday life. Whether you’re newly married or decades in, this one’s for you.

In this episode:

Why friendship is the foundation of every strong marriage

How to rebuild connection when life feels routine

Ways to laugh, play, and stay curious together

The power of humility and apology in friendship

What does your favorite reality TV show say about your personality and your marriage?

In this fun and eye-opening episode of Imperfectly Married, Michael and Heather Brown break down how each Enneagram type (1–9) engages with reality TV — and how it reveals what we value, fear, and need in our relationships.

From the rule-following Type 1s who yell at the TV whenthings aren’t “fair” to the adventure-loving Type 7s who just want one more episode, every personality type finds something different in the drama.

In this episode:What each Enneagram type notices (and why) while watching reality TVHow your type’s core fear and desire shape what you enjoyWhat these viewing habits reveal about how you connect with your spouseWhy the Enneagram helps you understand both entertainment and each other

Whether you’re watching Love Is Blind, Survivor,or Hell’s Kitchen, this conversation will help you laugh, learn, and see your marriage in a whole new way.

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Every couple argues—but not every couple understands how their personality shapes communication.In this episode of Imperfectly Married, Michael and Heather Brown unpack how each Enneagram type (1–9) communicates, reacts under stress, and what it takes to truly connect in marriage.After 26 years of marriage, they’ve learned that conflict isn’t about who’s right—it’s about how you talk when things go wrong. This practical conversation will help you recognize your patterns, understand your spouse, and grow closer even in disagreement.In this episode:How each Enneagram type communicates in conflictWhat to say (and avoid) with your spouse’s typeReal examples from Michael & Heather’s marriageHow to turn tension into teamworkWatch this one with your spouse, pause to discuss, and start speaking each other’s language.#ImperfectlyMarried #MarriagePodcast #ChristianMarriage #EnneagramMarriage #MarriageAdvice #MarriageCommunication #HealthyRelationships

Reality TV may entertain us but does it actually show how we should see real love, commitment, and marriage?In this episode of Imperfectly Married, Heather and Michael dive deep into how shows like The Bachelor, Love Is Blind, and Love Island have changed our culture’s view of romance and relationships. They explore why these “reality” shows are anything but real, how they can distort our expectations, and what it looks like to rebuild a healthy, faith-based view of love in a world that glorifies fantasy.From emotional comparison and unrealistic standards to hookup culture and discontentment, this honest conversation unpacks the real effects of what we watch—and how to protect your heart and your marriage from being shaped by entertainment instead of truth.

Key Takeaway: You’re being formed by something. Let it be God’s Word, not the world’s version of love.