• 90 | If The Affair Is Wrong, Why Does It Feel Right?
    Nov 18 2025

    Our bi-weekly Group Coaching + Embodied Bible Study is now open! DM GROUP on Instagram or email kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com to join the sisterhood today!

    If you’ve ever asked, “Why are affairs so wrong if they feel so good?” this episode will help you see the longing underneath the behavior and the good design underneath the distortion.

    We’ll unpack Paul’s teaching in 1 Corinthians 6 and 7 through a modern lens, exploring sexual stewardship, wholeness, and what it means to align your body, mind, and spirit with God’s original design for intimacy and freedom.

    You’ll learn:

    • Why freedom in Christ is about discernment, not indulgence
    • How the craving itself points to God’s good design underneath the distortion
    • The connection between body, spirit, and sexual stewardship
    • Three truths about desire, grace, and holiness
    • Reflection questions to help you process this passage personally and with God

    Join the Community:

    • DM GROUP on Instagram or email kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com to join Rooted in Joy today (bi-weekly coaching + embodiment devotional, 24/7 chat support).

    • Safe women. Scripture + somatics. Real tools. A corrective, healing experience for your nervous system.

    Let’s Connect:

    • Instagram: DM GROUP for details

    • 1:1 Coaching: email kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com

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    15 min
  • 89 | Seek First the Kingdom And God Will Provide Everything You Need
    Nov 11 2025

    NEW: Our bi-weekly Group Coaching + Embodied Bible Study is open! DM GROUP on Instagram or email kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com to join today.

    If you’ve ever wondered why the wrong thing could feel so right, this episode is for you. I'm sharing my real-time 🔥 Holy Spirit revelations 🔥 from a church sermon, unpacking how the enemy distorts truth to lure us into counterfeit lies. You’ll learn how to identify the lies, test them against God’s Word, and experience His Light and Truth as your ultimate source of provision.

    You’ll learn:

    • How unmet needs lead us toward false comfort

    • How to test every thought and emotion against God’s truth

    • Why seeking first the Kingdom realigns your desires with true provision

    • A prayer practice to ask the Holy Spirit to replace lies with truth

    Join the Community:

    • DM GROUP on Instagram or email kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com to join Rooted in Joy today (bi-weekly coaching + embodiment devotional, 24/7 chat support).

    • Safe women. Scripture + somatics. Real tools. A corrective, healing experience for your nervous system.

    Let’s Connect:

    • Instagram: DM GROUP for details

    • 1:1 Coaching: email kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com

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    20 min
  • 88 | Hold Your Emotions Without Letting Them Hijack You
    Nov 4 2025

    NEW: Our bi-weekly Group Coaching + bi-weekly Bible Study is open! DM GROUP on Instagram or email kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com to join today.

    Sister, you’re not “too emotional” and you’re not a robot. God designed your body, brain, and heart to work together. In this episode, I teach a simple Christian & somatic approach to feeling your feelings without spiraling into old patterns. We’ll use The Model and The Domino Drill, parts-work in plain English (think Inside Out), and a handful of on-the-spot practices you can use today.

    You’ll learn:

    • Why emotions are messengers, not enemies, and how God meets you in them

    • A Christian, embodied take on The Model + The Domino Drill to stop emotional spirals

    • How to use parts-language (“Hi, loneliness”) to reduce intensity and increase compassion

    • Quick somatic tools (sigh + anchor, orienting, etc.)

    Join the Community:

    • DM GROUP on Instagram or email kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com to join Rooted in Joy today (bi-weekly coaching + bi-weekly devotional, 24/7 chat support).

    • Safe women. Scripture + somatics. Real tools. A corrective, healing experience for your nervous system.

    Let’s Connect:

    • Instagram: DM GROUP for details

    • 1:1 Coaching: email kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com

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    20 min
  • 86 | Still Thinking About the Affair Partner? Practical Tools to Break Free
    Oct 15 2025

    NEW Community Group Coaching starting Monday October 20! Reach out on Instagram for more information.

    You’re not crazy for still thinking about him, and you don’t have to stay stuck. In this episode I explain the neuroscience behind intrusive thoughts, help you name what you’re really missing, and teach practical, faith-filled tools to interrupt old loops and create new, healing associations. This includes somatic practices, a visual “leaf on the river” exercise, and coaching prompts you can use today.

    You’ll learn:

    • Why your brain keeps replaying memories

    • How to distinguish what you miss from who he really is

    • Practical tools to interrupt obsessive thoughts and rewire your brain

    • How to grieve without staying stuck and meet your deeper needs safely

    • A short, cognitive and spiritual anchor to help take every thought captive

    Let's Connect!

    • DM JOY on Instagram or email kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com to join Rooted in Joy group coaching. The kickoff call is Monday, October 20!
    • Book a 1:1 Coaching Call
    • Find me on Instagram or in the Facebook group and let's meet!

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    24 min
  • 85 | Guilt vs Responsibility: Stop Punishing Yourself & Start Healing
    Oct 7 2025

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    If you’ve ever thought, “I should feel guiltier… I should regret this more…” this episode is for you.

    I share my personal story of how guilt once kept me chained to shame and how learning the difference between guilt and responsibility changed everything.

    You’ll learn: ✨ The difference between shame, guilt, and true responsibility ✨ Why punishing yourself is not the same as repentance ✨ How God’s kindness, not condemnation, leads to real change ✨ The identity shift that happens when you stop “should-ing” yourself ✨ Practical ways to walk in freedom, forgiveness, and grace

    This episode is an invitation to stop punishing yourself and start healing through radical self-compassion and the truth of who God says you are.

    🎧 Whether you’re in the early days after disclosure or years into rebuilding, this is your reminder: You can’t shame your way to healing. But you can love your way there.

    Let’s Connect:

    💌 Book a 1:1 Coaching Call with Kristina (and ask about the NEW GROUP forming!)

    🌿 Be a founding member of the new group program — where women are rising together in healing, identity, and freedom

    💙 7-part devotional experience

    📸 Send me a message on Instagram with the word CALL for more support: @kristinajoycoaching

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    18 min
  • 84 | Will I Ever Feel Loved Again After Infidelity?
    Sep 30 2025

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    Have you ever asked yourself, “Will I ever feel fully loved again after what happened?”

    In this episode, I share my raw journey of what it felt like to stay in a marriage after betrayal: the fear, the constriction, the loneliness. I’ll also walk you through the turning point that shifted everything: discovering my worth in Christ, learning to get radically honest in prayer, and finding new ways of healing that went beyond waiting for my husband to change.

    This episode will encourage you if you’ve felt unseen, unloved, or stuck in shame. You’ll discover that intimacy after infidelity begins with God, with yourself, and with a love that can never be taken away.

    You’ll learn: ✨ Why your healing can’t depend on whether your husband changes or not ✨ How Scripture + somatic healing opened the door to freedom for me ✨ What to do if you’re still feeling lonely even though your husband stayed ✨ A powerful practice to feel God’s love and safety right now ✨ Why true intimacy begins with you and God before it’s rebuilt with your spouse

    This isn’t just about saving your marriage. It’s about reclaiming your voice, your worth, and your identity in Christ.

    🎧 Whether you’re just beginning the healing process or you’ve been carrying the weight of betrayal for years, this episode is a reminder that God’s love is unconditional, secure, and always enough.

    Let’s Connect:

    💌 Book a 1:1 Coaching Call with Kristina (and ask about the NEW GROUP forming!)

    📖 Experience the Coming Home to Freedom course + 4 coaching calls and messaging

    💙 7-part devotional experience

    📸 Send me a message on Instagram with the word CALL for more support: @kristinajoycoaching

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    10 min
  • 83 | Religion vs. Relationship: What Salvation Actually Means After An Affair
    Sep 23 2025

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    Do you know for sure if you’re saved? Not if you’ve been religious, gone to church, or tried to be a good person, but if you have truly received salvation through Jesus Christ?

    In this episode, I share my personal story of coming to know Jesus, from a childhood prayer, to wrestling with doubt, to experiencing a whole new level of surrender after my affair and baptism. I connect my own testimony with the clear gospel message: that Jesus, the Son of God, lived a perfect life, died for our sins, rose again, and offers us the free gift of salvation if we will receive it.

    You’ll learn: ✨ The difference between religion and relationship with Jesus ✨ Why salvation isn’t about trying harder but receiving His free gift ✨ How my affair + baptism became a living picture of being rescued from sin and shame ✨ A simple step-by-step explanation of the gospel ✨ A prayer you can pray if you’re ready to receive Jesus personally

    This isn’t just for women who don’t yet know Christ. It’s also a reminder for anyone who’s been stuck in shame, doubt, or “trying to be enough” that your identity and hope are secure in Him.

    🎧 Whether you’ve never prayed for salvation or you just need reassurance of what’s true, this episode is a fresh invitation to experience Jesus’ love and freedom.

    Let’s Connect:

    💌 Book a 1:1 Coaching Call with Kristina

    📖 Experience the Coming Home to Freedom course + 4 coaching calls and messaging

    💙 7-part devotional experience

    📸 Send me a message on Instagram with the word CALL for more support: @kristinajoycoaching

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    16 min
  • 82 | How to Set Boundaries That Actually Protect Your Peace After an Affair
    Sep 16 2025

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    After an affair, the word boundaries can feel heavy, like walls, restrictions, or even punishments. But what if boundaries weren’t about fear, but about love?

    In this episode, I unpack what boundaries really are (and what they’re not) and show you the three essential types of boundaries every woman needs after infidelity: ✨ Boundaries with the affair partner ✨ Boundaries with friends and community ✨ Boundaries with your spouse

    You’ll learn how to set boundaries that actually protect your peace, how to communicate them with clarity, and what to do when someone doesn’t respect them. By the end, you’ll have one practical step you can take today to feel safer, clearer, and more free in your healing journey.

    Let’s Connect:

    💌 Book a 1:1 Coaching Call with Kristina

    📖 Experience the Coming Home to Freedom course + 4 coaching calls and messaging

    💙 7-part devotional experience

    📸 Send me a message on Instagram with the word CALL for more support: @kristinajoycoaching

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    18 min