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  • #669: How to End the Year Without a Performance Review
    Dec 10 2025

    Most of us were raised to evaluate ourselves through metrics, outcomes, and improvement curves. But healing doesn’t follow performance logic — it follows honesty, gentleness, and self-trust.

    In this episode, Denise invites listeners to close out the year without grading themselves. No scorecards. No gold stars. Just a quiet, human inventory of how life felt, where clarity emerged, and where old bargains finally fell away. This is a year-end reflection for people who are done performing their way through growth.


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    14 min
  • #668: You’re Not Lazy — You’re Decompressing
    Dec 3 2025

    Most high-functioning adults don’t recognize the moment when their body stops pushing and starts decomposing years of pressure.


    Rest feels suspicious.

    Guilt kicks in.

    Identity gets shaky.

    And instead of honoring the pause, we label it “laziness.”


    In this episode, Denise breaks down why decompression feels wrong, how cultural and family patterns make rest emotionally dangerous, how to handle people who get inconvenienced by your boundaries, and how to recognize when your rest is truly complete.


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    23 min
  • #667 – When the Holidays Stir Old Grief You Thought You Buried
    Nov 19 2025

    The holidays don’t create grief—they shake it loose. When the world demands cheer, the memories you thought were buried rise to the surface, asking to be seen.

    In this episode, we explore why old wounds return this time of year and how to stay grounded when your heart feels heavier than the season allows.

    👉 Read the full article here: https://deniseglee.com/holiday-grief-leadership/


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    23 min
  • #666: Healing After Sexual Abuse: A Letter to the Men Who Never Got to Speak
    Nov 12 2025

    You wouldn’t call it abuse. Not back then. Maybe not even now.
    But something in you shifted—and you’ve been carrying it ever since.

    In this episode, Denise speaks directly to men who’ve lived in silence about their sexual abuse or coercion. With compassion and truth, she explores how survival became strength, how numbness became a shield, and what it means to reclaim your voice without re-opening the wound. This isn’t about re-living trauma—it’s about returning to yourself.

    👉 Read the full post: Healing After Sexual Abuse: A Letter to the Men Who Never Got to Speak


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    25 min
  • #665: Why Letting Go of the Past Feels Impossible—And How to Heal
    Nov 5 2025

    You’ve tried to let it go. You’ve journaled, prayed, “moved on”—but something in you still grips the story.
    That doesn’t make you weak. It means your body still believes the past keeps you safe.

    In this episode, Denise unpacks why letting go feels so hard—and how to finally release what’s been keeping you stuck. From the science of forgiveness to the emotional cost of resentment, you’ll learn how to free your energy without excusing the harm. This is the path from emotional captivity to clarity, peace, and power.

    👉 Read the full post: Why Letting Go of the Past Feels Impossible—And How to Heal


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    21 min
  • #664: When Helping Everyone Leaves You Bitter (And How to Heal)
    Oct 29 2025

    You were everyone’s steady one. The helper. The glue that held it all together.
    But now? You’re tired. Bitter. And wondering when caring turned into carrying.

    In this episode, Denise unpacks what happens when emotional overfunctioning becomes a habit—and how to heal without hardening. You’ll learn how childhood conditioning shapes rescuing patterns, the real cost of being “the strong one,” and the path to rebuilding boundaries without losing your heart.

    👉 Read the full post: When Helping Everyone Leaves You Bitter (And How to Heal)

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    • 💭 Ditch the self-doubt. Rewire your patterns. Feel unstoppable. 21 days of raw audio coaching + real journaling prompts to break old cycles and lead yourself forward. 🎧 Podcast listeners — get 15% off with code INNERWORK15. ⁠[Enroll now]⁠


    Disclaimer


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    18 min
  • #663 – Subtle Childhood Trauma in High-Functioning Adults: Signs You Missed
    Oct 22 2025

    Not all trauma screams. Some whispers.
    And those quiet wounds—the ones wrapped in politeness, performance, and perfectionism—shape far more lives than we realize.

    In this episode, Denise explores the unseen impact of subtle childhood trauma: how emotional underfeeding turns into adult overfunctioning, and why high-achieving, self-aware people often feel disconnected, numb, or “fine” but never fulfilled.

    If you’ve ever wondered why peace feels foreign or stillness feels wrong, this conversation will name what’s been missing—and what healing really looks like.

    👉 Read the full post: Subtle Childhood Trauma in High-Functioning Adults: Signs You Missed

    https://deniseglee.com/subtle-childhood-trauma-signs/


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    18 min
  • #662: The Identity Death Before the Breakthrough
    Oct 15 2025

    Before every breakthrough comes a kind of death—the loss of a version of yourself that once kept you safe.
    This isn’t about pivoting or rebranding. It’s about the identity collapse that precedes real transformation.

    In this episode, Denise walks through the sacred middle between breakdown and rebirth—when your old roles are falling away but your new self hasn’t yet arrived. If you’ve felt lost, hollow, or unsure of who you are now, this episode will help you name what’s dying and honor what’s emerging.

    👉 Read the full post: The Identity Death That Comes Before the Breakthrough

    https://deniseglee.com/identity-death-before-breakthrough/


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    Disclaimer

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    18 min