The power of consent (18+) - guest Morgan Grey

Jenn wilson

NOTE: References to kink and BDSM in this episode.

"Consent and communication aren’t just for the bedroom—they’re the foundation of healthy workplaces, relationships, and businesses."— Morgan (The Lady Grey)(she/they)

Jenn Wilson is joined by guest Morgan (The Lady Grey)

Morgan, or 'The Lady Grey' is a soft-power strategist, erotic educator, and leadership skills trainer devoted to systems that seduce, support, and sustain.

In this episode of Irregular Humans, Jenn chats with Morgan (aka Lady Grey), a project management veteran turned educator, about the surprising parallels between BDSM, polyamory, and business. They explore how concepts like consent, aftercare, and nonviolent communication can transform leadership, teamwork, and entrepreneurial life. From psychological safety to burnout prevention, this conversation is packed with insights for anyone seeking healthier, more sustainable ways to work and live.

Website: https://theladygrey.xyz https://z-twist.com

Instagram: The Lady Grey (@theriggingcaptain)

FL: TheLadyGrey

Bluesky: DnDomme.bsky.social

Morgan, or 'The Lady Grey' is a soft-power strategist, erotic educator, and leadership skills trainer devoted to systems that seduce, support, and sustain. Blending kink wisdom, feminist theory, and trauma-informed leadership, she helps people reclaim authentic power and explore authority without artifice. With a background in programme management, DEI (Top 50 award winner), and polyamory community organizing, she brings clarity, emotional literacy, and structure to every space she enters. Whether designing obedience rituals or guiding business leaders through burnout, her presence invites transformation rooted in consent, curiosity, and radical self-possession.

Boundaries, consent, and care aren’t optional—they’re essential. Whether you’re leading a team, running a business, or managing relationships, these principles help create trust, prevent burnout, and foster authentic connection.

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The Intersection of Kink and Business: How BDSM and polyamory skills translate into workplace success.

Dominance Redefined: Why true leadership isn’t about control—it’s about clarity and respect.

Aftercare for Leaders: Prevent burnout by tending to your own needs as well as your team’s.

Nonviolent Communication: A tool for dismantling unhealthy hierarchies and building psychological safety.

Practical Tips: Managing energy, setting boundaries, and creating sustainable work practices.

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Our Own Stories - guest Kit Caelsto

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“Everything is a story. Everything is a construct. A story is the narrative I want to make my reality.” — Kit Caelsto

Jenn Wilson is joined by guest Kit Caelsto (they/them)

Kit is an Author, Yogi, Spiritual Mentor, Neurodivergent Storyteller

In this episode, Jenn sits down with Kit Caelsto to explore the transformative power of storytelling and spirituality.

Kit shares their journey from writing romance to equestrian fiction, and how their neurodivergent and non-binary identity informs their work.

Website: https://feathermanesoul.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/KitCaelsto

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@FeathermaneSoul

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FeathermaneSoul

Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/KitAuthor.com

Storytelling has been a part of Kit’s life for as long as they remember. Whether it’s escaping into a good book or writing them, Kit understands that story is at the heart of everything we do, our relationships with ourselves and others, including our relationship with the spiritual and natural world. As an author with over two decades of experience publishing books in multiple genres (under multiple pen names), Kit loves mentoring authors as the Author Yogi and currently focuses on writing nonfiction, fantasy, and equestrian literature. Through Feathermane Soul, Kit acts as a spiritual mentor and guide to those who seek to reclaim their stories and their spirituality in order to reconnect with themselves and live a fully authentic, embodied life filled with joy. Their work embraces their love of horses and the natural world, while also incorporating a variety of modalities including yoga, reiki, meditation, and storytelling.

This episode is a celebration of storytelling, spirituality, and neurodivergent wisdom. Kit reminds us that our stories shape our lives and that reclaiming them is a radical act of self-love. Whether through horses, art, or meditation, Kit’s approach invites us to connect deeply with ourselves and the world around us. Their insights on shame, identity, and joy offer a powerful reminder that healing and authenticity go hand in hand.

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1. Kit’s Journey to Irregularity

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Activism and Action - guest Nikki Brooker

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“We have to model the behaviour we want to see. We cannot expect others to be accountable if we’re not.” — Nikki Brooker

Jenn Wilson is joined by our guest Nikki Brooker (she/her)

Nikki is an Anti-Racist Mum and Advocate for Equity, Inclusion & Youth Voice

Episode Overview

In this powerful episode, Jenn sits down with Nikki Brooker to explore her journey from being labelled “eccentric” as a young person to becoming a fierce advocate for youth-led change and anti-racism.

LinkedIn: Nikki Brooker

Instagram: @anti_racistmums

TikTok: anti_racistmum

Facebook: nikki.brooker

Nikki is a lifelong advocate for equity, inclusion and the transformative power of young people’s voices. From co-founding the UK Youth Parliament as a teenager to building spaces where community voice drives change, her work has ensured the establishment of youth-led mental health services and anti-racist campaigning and education. As the Anti-Racist Mum, Nikki supports white people to unlearn conditioning and take meaningful action toward justice. Her work is rooted in truth, love and accountability, and this resource is part of her mission to support Global Majority children and young people to experience equity within educational settings.

This episode is a call to action for anyone committed to justice and inclusion. Nikki reminds us that advocacy is not about speaking for others, but about creating spaces for dialogue, empathy, and connection. Her reflections on “consent culture” vs “entitlement culture” challenge us to rethink how we show up in community and how we can foster unity without erasing difference.

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1. Early Activism & Youth Advocacy

Nikki shares her teenage journey into politics, youth rights, and global peace movements.

2. Challenging Local Racism

Growing up in a conservative village, Nikki connected with migrant workers and began questioning community bias.

3. Transformative Experience in Australia

Nikki recounts how an Aboriginal elder helped her unlearn colonial narratives and recognize her privilege.

4. Immersive Learning & Faith Respect

Living as a Muslim woman for a week gave Nikki firsthand insight into anti-Muslim bias...