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• The Carrie Bradshaw effect and why she was never the blueprint.

• How to break the cycle of mixed signals and half-love.

• The emotional rollercoaster of being “almost” chosen.

• Your Ask Alex questions on love, dating, and knowing when to walk away.

If you’ve ever been caught up in a “what are we?” situationship or wondered if you were asking for too much (you’re not!), this episode is your sign to put your crown back on.

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In this episode of "Literally My Life," Alexandra dives into the transformative power of internal glow ups versus the allure of external changes. From personal anecdotes about choosing silence over clapbacks to the wisdom of journaling and prayer, she explores how true transformation begins within. Discover why the best glow-ups come from healing eras, not just hair salons, and how embracing your emotions can lead to lasting peace. Tune in for a heartfelt discussion on growth, resilience, and the journey to self-discovery.

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In the Season 3 premiere of Literally My Life: My Guide to Girlhood, I’m opening up about what it means to chase your dreams while quietly healing from heartbreak — the kind that leaves you crying in nail salons and still showing up like nothing’s wrong.

We’re talking about being seen as a person instead of a possession, choosing boundaries over breadcrumbs, and finding strength in softness.

This isn’t about perfection. It’s about permission — to feel, to grow, to glow.

Tune in for an honest convo on career, heartbreak, and the rebirth of girlhood.

💿 New era. New episode. Same girl, but different.

(VIDEO EPISODE ON SPOTIFY & YOUTUBE)Instagram: ⁠⁠ ⁠ / literallymy...⁠ ⁠⁠ ⁠ / literallymylifemgtgask ⁠ Alex form: ⁠⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1yAOO... Storefront: ⁠⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/literally... ⁠⁠https://substack.com/@alexelaminchica..⁠.Today’s episode is super special because I’m officially kicking off my birthday series: 17 Things I Wish I Knew at 17. In Part 1, I’m getting real about the biggest lessons I’ve learned this year — from faith, friendships, and healing, to finding my worth and protecting my peace. This is truly everything I wish someone had told me before stepping into this next chapter of my life. Grab a coffee, get cozy, and let’s have some real girl talk. 💌

(VIDEO EPISODE ON SPOTIFY & YOUTUBE)Instagram: ⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/literallymy... ⁠⁠ / literallymylifemgtgask Alex form: ⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1yAOO... Storefront: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/literally... ⁠https://substack.com/@alexelaminchica...This episode is so close to my heart. I sat down with Aashyrah and Bree to talk about everything we wish we knew growing up—girlhood, confidence, friendships, heartbreak, and just becoming that girl in our own way. If I could write a letter to my younger self or speak to every little sis out there trying to figure it all out… this would be it. We laughed, got vulnerable, and kept it all the way real. I hope you feel seen and heard after listening. You’re never alone in this.

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From being diagnosed with Erb’s Palsy as a child to becoming a dancer, YouTuber, and a finalist for Ciara’s music video, Aashyrah is proof that no obstacle can stop you when you’re determined to win. In this episode of Literally My Life: My Guide to Girlhood, she opens up about her inspiring journey, the challenges she’s faced, and how she’s pushing past every barrier to chase her dreams.

But success doesn’t come without haters. We also dive deep into the mean girl epidemic, fake friendships, jealousy, and how to know when it’s time to walk away from toxic people. Whether it’s shade from so-called friends or silent competition, we’re breaking it ALL down.

🔥 PLUS! We need your help to get Aashyrah into Ciara’s music video! Vote for her, send us proof, and we’ll give you a special shoutout on the pod! 💖

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Ladies, we’ve all been there—waiting on that text back, making excuses for his bare minimum energy, and hoping he’ll finally act right. But guess what? We’re not doing that anymore! In this episode, I’m giving you the ultimate playbook on how to never get played again. We’re talking red flags, self-worth, and how to move like that girl. Plus, I’m answering some juicy Ask Alex questions—should you ever give a man a second chance? How do you know if he actually likes you or is just bored? And most importantly, how do you become so unplayable that the only game being run is the one you control? Tap in, because after this episode, you’ll never let another clown fumble you again.

(VIDEO EPISODE ON SPOTIFY & YOUTUBE)Instagram: ⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/literallymy... ⁠⁠ / literallymylifemgtgask Alex form: ⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1yAOO... Storefront: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/literally... ⁠https://substack.com/@alexelaminchica...Let’s talk about it ALL—birth control, periods, sex for the first time, boys, hygiene, and the things nobody prepared us for! In this episode, I’m joined by my best friend of seven years, Skyy, for a raw, unfiltered convo about the girlhood topics we had to figure out on our own. We’re breaking down everything from the best birth control options to dealing with period horror stories, setting boundaries with boys, and keeping it fresh (yes, we’re talking hygiene too!). Plus, I’m answering your Ask Alex questions with my signature big-sister advice. No shame, no judgment—just the real talk you need! 💖✨ Have a question or story to share? DM me for a chance to be featured in Part 2! 🎧