Why do we chase the wrong people and even push away the relationships we say we want? In this week’s episode, I speak with entrepreneur and bestselling author Lewis Howes, and we unpack the surprising ways we can sabotage love without even realizing it.

From being attracted to what feels exciting but unavailable to letting old wounds dictate our instincts, we explore why the “good ones” can feel less appealing, and how we can retrain our brains. If you’ve ever wondered why you’re drawn to the wrong people or why healthy love feels strange, this conversation is going to hit home.

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You know those tricky early dates? You go for drinks. Maybe a picnic. You pretend you listen to cool music and hope you both enjoy similar taste in movies. Then texting. Then maybe a kiss. (Why not? He’s cute.) Uh-oh, now you actually like him. Crap. Err, I mean, great. Now what?

If you really want to know how to keep him interested well after the first date, so you can finally stop freaking out whenever you realize you like a guy, this is the epsidoe for you...

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Does flirting make you nervous? Not sure how to make the first move? In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, and Audrey break down invisible flirting techniques that can spark chemistry without things feeling forced or awkward.

Whether you’re too shy to make a move, afraid of rejection, or just unsure about how to flirt with someone already in your life, this episode will give you the tools to take the first step forward.

Topics Covered:

• Why flirting feels awkward or unnatural for so many people.
  
  

• The subtle signs that actually signal romantic interest.
  
  

• How to flirt with someone you already know.

• Touch as a form of flirting—when it works and when it backfires.
  
  

• The kinds of DMs that actually open the door for connection.
  
  

• How to flirt through contrast, play, and shared jokes.
  
  

• The difference between playful teasing and emotional defensiveness.
  
  

• What to do if they don’t respond to your flirting attempt.
  
  

• How to show desire without fear or desperation.
  
  

• Flirting beyond your 20s: why it still works at any age.

Links:

• Elevate your planning this month with the Big A## Calendar. Big goals, big wins. Use code LOVELIFE for 10% off. Grab yours now: thebigasscalendar.com/discount/LOVELIFE.
  
  

• Limited-Time Confidence Challenge Replay (which includes a special offer): MHReplay.com
  
  

• Join the Love Life Club: JoinLoveLife.com